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    mrlh61

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  • Here For:

    Friends, Casual Dating, Serious Dating

  • Member Since:

    August 14, 2000

  • Age:

    50

  • Relationship Status:

    Single

  • Last Login:

    12 hours ago

  • Education:

    Some College Coursework Completed

  • Location:

    San Jose, CA

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Pisces


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Single honest and true

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It's a good thing to know that I can look in the mirror and know that being honest open and clear. I feel good about myself. Being single a man can find words he says examined picked apart and for the opportunity for someone to say, "Uh huh! Caught cha!!!"

I may be rare in saying what I mean and meaning what I say. I don't get mixed up in drama so I can be very open about what I do during the day and the friendships I have. When I say I'm dating... (continue reading)

The dreaded phrase, "I'm Bored" Just a rant but listen...

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I know it can't be just me that hears this but I wonder how many women know they are saying this. the dreaded words are, "I'm bored". I wonder if they know that when they say this I would take it as meaning all of her other forms of entertainment fell through and you are my last option. Friends are a good thing to have but if you are getting a complaint to of something not working I'm not there to fix boredom. That puts too much pressure on my and what happens when I am not... (continue reading)

Just an idea for job's in America.

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There is one thing I noticed seeing the work done on the Bay Bridge in Northern California I see something very disturbing. Coming through the Golden gate is huge components that are making up the Bay Bridge coming from... China! With all of the money we spend here there is no company here that could make these large sections of the bridge. If the government can do an environmental impact statement they can also do an economic impact study to make sure the work comes back to America Public... (continue reading)

Fun being a dad.

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Just catching my daughter checking out my lap top... We love having fun and we spend a lot of time laughing making faces and joking at each other. I could not resist... A picture can tell 1000 words... 

It is really fun having a sense of humor and playing with family. I caught my daughter posing in front of my laptop... This was too good to be true because I and my mother can be a little nutty if given the chance. 

 

 

No nothing deep... (continue reading)

It is so nice to knock down "A BIG ONE"...

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It is one of the greatest feeling situation I know. We feel it when another year of school goes by and we had grades that are a little better than average. We feel this way when the taxes are done and we are getting a refund. Some people feel that way when they get through a week and the bully on the street forgets all of his threats and we have a calm week. (Stress builders)

For me at this time of life it is something I have been fighting that I decided to not fight. When I... (continue reading)

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To the people checking in on me, my friends and family

If this is your first time here please check out my original artwork at the bottom of this page!


I don't do the IM's or Yahoo. Too much like work to keep up with folks.

If you have visited this page drop a note if you want to be a friend just stopping in to be on my recent visitors log does not tell me if you want to be a friend or not.
I am a proud single dad of one teen aged daughter. She is my best friend and I'm glad to be her hero. Besides my God the Lord Jesus Christ, my daughter and family are my greatest loves. That is closely followed by my music / playing guitar and art work in pencil drawings and oil paintings. 


Wow would you believe my little girl is on her way to being a senior in college? She is here in San Jose starting a new semester of school. I was glad to see her this summer and I was glad this is the last fall without her being near enough to help her when she needs good ol dad. She is here in back singing with the choir and even leading songs on Friday night services and Sunday for the praise team for Bible Way Christian Center. It was fun backing her up with my guitar when she sang solos at church and in an impromptu group.



I would like to thank all of the many women who offered advice when my child's mother passed away. These women that are a part of her life a and mine are still giving great advice and support. I am sure that the community in which I raise my daughter will have her to be one that makes a difference. I can see her growth as she tells me what she needs to succeed that points to her maturity. This from the baby that used to fit on one arm and look up to me smiling with a look like she knew we would be this close.

 

I am both proud and have admiration for who she is and becoming.


Thank you to those that pointed the way when she needed help writing essays for grants and pointing out scholarships that where available. Knowledge applied is power and you have helped both of us to be empowered. Now she is reaching for a degree for Social Worker with a minor of music. It's my time to work on myself as she readies for her future.

I did get her permission to date but not to marry because she says she is the one who will hold interviews!! Women can be bossy and nosy


I have no issue against women with children but at this point in my life if I
am in a relationship I know that I do not want to share and compete for attention and love with children. It would be very unfair to any woman, child and for myself.

For me I would love to find a person that could spend time talking,
visualizing, exploration and fun.



Fine print is:

I am a hopeless romantic, gentleman and lover of God. If you spent time to read this in the small print understand that I love music and I draw a lot of power from music. If you meet me face to face and are around me long enough you will know what I mean.

Time to get out my pad and pencil to plan my year, five and ten year goals. Things change people change plans change but one thing is for sure without a plan there is no direction.

Not fun!!!


I love writing down a plan of action. Where I'll be by the end of this year and my hopes for five years and further


There is no other purpose nobler than being a father to a child but now she is an adult. Time to show the young woman the possibilities and what to look forward to after she gets my age and her next steps and to make it look fun!

Yes that is A NASCAR link and I am a NASCAR Fan!



The Cycle is a 2008 BRP Can-Am Spyder

109 hp, 0-60 in 4.5 seconds
www.can-am.brp.com.