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    mrmaxx357

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  • Member Since:

    June 29, 2001

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  • Last Login:

    November 20, 2011

  • Education:

    Some College Coursework Completed

  • Location:

    Chicago, IL

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Cancer


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What makes a man wanna marry?

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What makes the difference for guys in general, when they face that step-up or break-up moment? Here are some ideas on what makes men think the "marriage" thought....

Marriage Maker 1: (In)dependence

Guys like all the things that can come with marriage - the companionship, the safety, a guarantee of having good sheets on the bed and good reasons to change them. But one of the things they fear the most: that they're going to feel more constricted than David Blaine (the... (continue reading)

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PLEASE BE AWARE THAT THIS MY ONLY BLACK PLANET PAGE....... THERE ARE SOME CLOWNS WHO HAVE BEEN CREATING PAGES USING MY PHOTOS & NAME.....PLEASE BE AWARE!!!!!..... I'M SORRY FOR THE INCONVENIENCE THAT PEOPLE LIKE THIS CREATE, ....BUT IF YOU GET ANYTHING FROM THOSE OTHER PAGES IT IS NOT FROM ME.....ALSO, TO SEE ALL OF MY PICS JUST REQUEST TO BE ADDED TO MY FRIENDS LIST BUT AT LEAST HAVE A "REAL" PIC ON YOUR PAGE. ALSO, IF YOU AGREE TO MEET SOMEONE THAT CLAIMS TO BE ME AND ITS NOT ME...I'M SORRY, BUT THATS NOT MY FAULT!!!...I HAVE ACTUALLY MET A COUPLE OF PEOPLE OFF HERE, BUT ONLY AFTER WE HAD INTERACTED FOR A WHILE...DON'T NEED NO DRAMA...LOL!!!

Anyway, here goes........ Whassup BP!!!......Thank you to all of you who have visited my page and sent me the great comments. Its nice to be appreciated!!! I'm not really looking for anything in particular, just making friends & letting the chips fall where they may. I'm just enjoying the site. Feel free to reach out,...I will respond back, but please don't snap out if its not on the romance side of the menu. I'm a dance instructor & do a little modeling, and have a regular job, so I stay busy. My business allows me to travel a lot which makes life fun.

I am a Real Father with two lovely, almost grown daughters that I am crazy about. I'd like to have at least one more, but its gotta be the right situation & the right woman. I don't do lies, drama, carrying on, or people with their hand out. I work too hard and appreciate my life too much to simply hand it out for nothin'. I'm quite laid back, and love being the stay at home type, but I can come to life at a party. I'm straight-forward,....don't ask, if you don't want the truth,....Why lie, it only complicates things....but that doesn't justify being mean or intentionally hurting someone with your words.

Please don't assume that because I have a page on BP, that I'm about what a lot of these other Brothers are on. I'm not starvin' for attention or action, so please don't send raw booty shots, and off the chain notes. I'm flattered as any man would be, but never impressed by that.

I like movies, fine dining, wine, jazz & R&B, cooking (yes, I can really cook,...like that!!!), biking, walking the lakefront, fashion, and social dancing. Friendship doesn't always mean romance, and Romance doesn't always mean relationship,.....Life is too short to force it, so enjoy the moment - just let it develop and grow,..... and you just may be fortunate enough to fall in love with a friend and experience a wonderful relationship.

NOTE: If we have never exchanged notes before, chances are that I'm not going to accept an IM request from you...not that I think I'm all that, but because we haven't communicated at all. At least reach out to get to know me before going to that level...introduce yourself.

ALSO,...if you don't have ANY "ACTUAL" Pics, please don't be offended if I don't "add" you or answer your notes. You know who you're reaching out to, the least you could do is provide the same courtesy. I'd like to know who I'm communicating with too.

HINT: The best way to get to know me is to do just that...get to know me...try being my friend first....

I'm not a church fanatic, but God is REAL in my life....and without Him I would be nothing!!!! Not even a cute face to sneak a peek at from time to time. I grew up like many, as one of those "church" boys in the perfect family, but I found a way to do my share of dirt....@%&*, I still do. I probably should go to church more now, but my walk is what it is, and for right now it works for me. I saw this on one of my Friend's page and I just had to have it on my page because a lot of women ask what it REALLY takes to make a man like me happy. When I read this, I just had to put it on my page. It actually describes in a nutshell the things that I've been saying to people for a long time,... on what it takes to REALLY be attractive to a REAL BLACK MAN!!! Not that they will all of a sudden fall head over heels for you, because other factors do play a part, but at least you will get his attention and respect. And please don't think that if you throw "Steak" in front of a dog that it will turn him into a Prince......a dog is still simply a dog no matter what you feed him!!! Hope you find this interesting and worth your time!!!!

 

The Five Basic Needs For A Man..........................

 

1. His needs for admiration and respect.

She understands and appreciates his value and achievements more than anything else. She reminds him of his capabilities and helps him maintain his walk with God and also his self-confidence. She is proud of her husband, not out of duty, but as an expression of sincere admiration for the man she loves and with whom she has chosen to share her life.

2. His need for sexual fulfillment.

She becomes an excellent sexual partner to him. She studies her own response to recognize and understand what brings out the best in her, then she communicates this information to her husband and together they learn to have a sexual relationship that both find repeatedly satisfying and enjoyable.

3. His need for home support.

She creates a home that offers him an atmosphere of peace and quiet and refuge. She manages the home and care of the children. The home is a place of rest and rejuvenation. Remember: the wife/mother is the emotional hub of the family.

4. His need for her attractiveness.

She is possessed of inner and outer beauty. She cultivates a Christ like spirit in her inner self. She keeps herself physically fit with diet and exercise, and she wears her hair, make-up and clothes in a way that her husband finds attractive and tasteful. Her husband is pleased and proud of her in public and also in private.

5. His need for a life companion.

She develops mutual interests with her husband. She discovers those activities her husband enjoys the most and seeks to become proficient in them. If she learns to enjoy them, she joins him in them. If she does not enjoy them, she encourages him to consider others that they can enjoy together. She becomes her husband's best friend so that he repeatedly associates her with the activities he enjoys most.

 

Like my man Kweisi use to say...."Live, Love, Laugh & Learn!!"...Peace Out!!!

Someone asked if I can dance for real or is that me just trying to run game...my ankle is sprained in the footage below..but I'm trying...a lil taste of that Chicago Swing...It's Real Steppin Baby...Hope You Enjoy!!! Steppin @ The New Dating Game ft. Channa and Maxx


Get your own Poll!

 

The Keys to Your Heart
You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free.

In love, you feel the most alive when things are straight-forward, and you're told that you're loved.

You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change.

You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please.

Your ideal relationship is open. Both of you can talk about everything... no secrets.

Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.

You think of marriage something you've always wanted... though you haven't really thought about it.

In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily.


*The Ultimate About Me Survey*:

 

Basics:

 

 

Name: Dave Maxx

 

DOB: July 19th

 

Birthplace: Chicago

 

Current location: Home

 

Eye color: Dark Brown

 

Hair Color: Dark Brown

 

Height: 5'10

 

Heritage: Black

 

Piercings: 4

 

Tattoos: 3

 

LIKE IN A GIRL:

 

Favorite Eye Color: Doesn't matter

 

Favorite Hair Color: Doesn't matter

 

Short or Long: I prefer long, but short can be sharp

 

Height: No real preference, but I tend to date short girls, under 5'5" but I can handle it if you're taller

 

Have you Been in Love: Yeah, Its a beautiful experience

 

Clothing Style: Personal, but Hot!!!...don't have to do what's popular either

 

Looks or Personality: A nice balance, but you have to appeal to me

 

Hot or Cute: A lil' bit of both

Most Attractive Body Part: Guess!!! LOL... I love Apple Bottoms, but that ain't it

Drugs and Alcohol: Never on the drugs .but I like sharing a drink

 

Thick of Skinny: I prefer thick in the right places, but not sloppy and floppy

 

Longest relationship: 10 years, I was married

 

Number of Regrets in the Past: None, I learned something in every relationship

 

Favorites:

 

Favorite: Band/Singer: Will Downing; Prince; Till Brinner; Joe; Barry White; Jay-Z

 

Favorite Song: So Glad There Is You by the Temps; Dream Lover by Liz Hogue

 

Favorite Genre of Music: R&B

 

Favorite Color(s): Baby Blue / In clothes - any shade of brown

 

Favorite TV show(s): Will & Grace LOL!!!

 

Favorite Movie(s): the God Father series & Jerry Maguire & the Star Wars series

 

Favorite Food: Seafood & Steak

 

Favorite Store: Century 21 - NYC

 

Favorite #: 21

 

Favorite Drink: Delicious Pimpin .LOL!!! & Coke

 

Favorite Clothing Brand: None, just High Sexy!!!

 

Favorite Shoe Brand: None, just Hot!!!

 

Preferred Animal: Dogs

 

Favorite Pizza topping: Mushrooms

 

Best Season: Summer

 

Favorite Month: July

 

Preferred Holiday: Memorial Day

 

Favorite Flower: Orchids

 

Have a Girlfriend or Significant Other: Yes!!!

 

Most Overused Phrase: Is That Right

 

This or That:

 

Sunny or Rainy: Sunny

 

Chocolate or Vanilla: Vanilla

 

Fruit or Veggie: Fruit

 

Night or Day: Night

 

Sour or Sweet: Sweet

 

Love or money: Love

 

Phone or In person: In person

 

Poor & Happy or Rich & Miserable: Poor & Happy

 

Looks or Personality: Looks matter, but the personality has to be right

 

Coffee or tea: Tea

 

Hot or cold: Hot

 

Strawberry or Watermelon: Watermelon, I love it!!!

 

Hot tea or Ice tea: Hot Tea

 

Hot Chocolate or Coffee: Coffee

 

Kiss or Hug: Both

 

Dog or Cat: Both, but I love dogs more

 

Rap or Punk: Rap

 

Scary Movies or Funny Movies: Never scary movies

 

Pepsi or Coke: Coke

McDonalds or Burger King: McDonalds,,,,its easier to find, but I like Wendy's best

 

Single or Group Dates: Single dates,... group dates are fun when you're already a couple

 

Future:

 

Do you wanna get married: Yes, .one day with the right woman

 

Do you wanna have kids: Yes

 

If so, how many: 1, maybe 2

 

Do you wanna go to college: Go back? Maybe

 

What do you want to be: Happy & Successful

 

Do You:

 

Dance in the rain: Not Yet

 

Smoke: No, but I've been known to have a cigar on special occasions

 

Drink: Yes

 

Shower daily: Yes

 

Like thunderstorms: Yes, when the right person is around

 

Curse: Hell Naw!!!...oops, sometimes

 

Sing: Yep!!!...surprise

 

Play an instrument: Not Yet

 

Think you are good looking: Yes

 

Get along with your parents: Yes

 

Other Questions:

 

Can you whistle: Yes

 

Right or Left handed: Right

 

Your bedtime: When I get there

 

Biggest fear: Being alone

 

3 things you can't live without: God, Family, & Love

 

Color of your room: White

 

Siblings: Brother, 3 Sisters all younger

 

Middle name: Not!!!!....LOL!!!

 

Pets: Oreo, my daughter's dog

 

Nicknames: Maxx to my friends & Peanut to my family

 

For or against gay marriage: Do what you do, ....waaaaaay over there!!!

 

Thoughts on abortion: Do what you can live with!!!

 

If you could be anywhere right now where would you be: Florida or the Caribbean, .on a secluded beach

 

Do you wear contacts/glasses: No, but I used too, say yes to Lasik

 

Are you afraid of the dark: No, its where good things happen

 

Your Goal for this year: Make my biz a Super Success

 

Most missed memory: Life Pre-job

 

Best physical feature: LOL!!!!

 

First thought waking up: Time to make the donuts

 

The Shoes You Wore Today: None yet, I'm loungin'

 

Your Weakness: Never tell

 

Your Fears: Spending the happiest times of my life alone

 

Your Perfect Pizza: Thin Mushroom .Stuffed Spinach or Sausage & Pineapple

 

Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: LOL

 

Do you get Motion Sickness: Nope

 

Do you think you are Attractive: Yep

 

Are you a Health Freak: Not at all

 

How do you want to Die: Old & Peaceful

 

What country would you most like to Visit: South Africa, followed by Italy

 

Best Friends: Brey & Melanie

 

HAVE YOU?...

 

Ever been Drunk: Been there done that

 

Ever been beaten up: Yeah, can't win'em all

 

Ever beaten someone up: Plead the 5th

 

In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Yes

 

In the past month have you Smoked: No

 

In the past month have you been on Drugs: I've never tried drugs

 

In the past month have you gone on a Date: Yes

 

In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Of course, I'm a fashion hound

 

In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: No, never really liked those

 

In the past month have you eaten Sushi: Yes, a few times

 

In the past month have you been on Stage: Yes, .I love to perform

 

In the past month have you been Dumped: No

 

In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: Never

 

In the past month have you Stolen Anything: No

 

Ever been called a Tease: Never That

 

 

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