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For all my sisters who are out there looking for a man......please stop! The bible says that "a man findeth a good thing" not the other way around. Admit it, what you have found in your looking has not been what you want is it? So instead of wasting time looking, spend time preparing, because just like you want that "good thing", you better believe he wants the same. Get yourself together. Finances a mess, take a class. Can't cook, learn. Learn to love yourself, and it... (continue reading)

Now I have seen this topic posted many times, all with many different responses. I can't really say what a woman really wants, because I believe that just as there are different women, we all have different desires. However, I do believe that there is one thing that we all have in common whether we are an exec, a baller, or just an average jane. A woman wants a man that is just that, a man. He is reminisceint of her father in a way. His word is his bond, he is sure of himself, and strong able to... (continue reading)

Ever take a long look at your life and ask the question, "What in the hell am I doing?" I mean really take a good long hard look, not just peep and walk away. If you could what would you change about yourself? Would it be short term things? Lose weight (that might be a long term), cut your hair, get some color, trim your mustache or beard. Now look deeper, look at how you are living, what you are doing, where you are at in your life at this point in time, look at your friends, your choices, what... (continue reading)