People make falling in love so complicated. I mean I can see how things can be so convoluted but really its not that hard. There's a place when you are with some one and you know early on like with a few months if they have the kind of qualities you want to live with for the rest of your life. However hasty decisions leave folks attached to people that they would rather not be with. That forces you so deal with and do things that you would never put up with. Now sometimes adversity can make... (continue reading)

So I have been looking at my life and re-evaluating some things. I have always know that fear was a big factor in my not taking chances in life. At the wonderful age of 31 I have decided that maybe taking chances and doing something different isn't such a bad idea. I watch people around me doing things nad going places and its not that I am not able to I am just afraid to. There's something to be said for being too comfortable in your situation. For as long as I could remember I only did what... (continue reading)

I had the pleasure of watching the Michael Jackson Memorial Services on TV. Just so happened that I passed through LA on my way to San Diego just a day before and I left a couple days after. Kind of glad I missed the traffic.

But it was amazing the love that poured out for Michael. It's widely know that people have loved him all his life. My mom is about a year younger than Michael and I remember when I was like 10 or so she told me about the first Concert that she saw at City Park in New... (continue reading)