mysterious_2009

Are black people supporting black businesses? I live by a BLACK new restaurant business with a variety of food from burgers to bar b Que, and it recently closed down, and was only up for 6 months or so. I asked the owner what was the issue, and she told me that no black people would come and support her business, and others would just want the hook up, but they would easily go next door to the Mexican restaurant and pay for the full amount, This is a predominately black neighborhood by the way with 95% businesses of no blacks. I see all of these other restaurants with there family and friends working their supporting each other, 7 eleven and every other business hiring mostly their own, but I don't see it as much with us. Let's support all cultures so we can all get head, but let's also learn to support each other too.

To my sisters, its time we start taking responsibility for who we have children with. I keep hearing on here about woman having multiple kids by multiple fathers and there children are fine, and I understand because circumstances are different for all of us... but NO our children are not OK, when they get older they have issues if its not in child hood.We can be the best mothers in the world, our children are still affected by not having a father in there lives. I have only one 11 year old son, because I said the second time around I would choose better on who I have a child with. I love you sisters, but let's make better choices and love ourselves enough to wait for something real.

So have you over looked a good man too because he wasn't a bad boy? My girlfriend is a Black woman who only dates tall, dark and so called handsome men right. She meets this guy who cares about her deeply, they become close friends, and he deeply cares about her and want to take it to the next step, but she tells me she can't be with him because he's not her type in the looks department and not enough of a BAD BOY. This guy is well educated, got a great personality and going places, but he is looked over because of these set beliefs about looks. So black woman, I tell this story because sometimes when (SOME) of you say there is no good black men out here, YES there is, I have one, and my friend just over looked one to to go look for a Future or a Lil Wayne. And this is for men too looking for a set of superficial traits in woman too like there not enough. But this post is for my sisters.

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This woman on this black news show on youtube is telling young black girls that when a man hits them that its not bad because there beating you because they love you, she said her parents would tell her, when they were beating her all her childhood that they were doing it because they loved her .....This belief of whooping is valued in the black culture and has been passed down. In the south black parents are still allowing teachers to paddle there children, and black boys get it the most and have more psychological issues because of this. I hear people say they got whooped and turned out fine but there the exception, because the majority of kids have issues in adulthood....People you can raise your children as you like, but it's time there be more alternatives then whooping for them.

I don't even acknowledge a man who calls me a dime or a nickel, I mean come on now? And then the ones out here labeling there mates looking for so called dimes, sometimes are only so called nickels themselves, if you want to put a person on a scale. Fellows pull a dime out of your pocket, and tell me if that's how much your woman or any woman is worth? ladies do the same thing? I am worth way more than some change that you may pull out of your pocket, and my beauty extends beyond what meets the eye. Who else here is worth more than some change?

Blck People, if you end up dating someone that is messing around with someone else at the same time, you are bringing in all of those other women or men's problems and pain into your own body as you have sex with them, all the drama, lies and etc from the other relationship will effect you dramatically, and this will effect your own body, mind and spirit. The other person might as well be dating you too, because they will be in your energy field wherever you go causing chaos. Cut the cords from these people as soon as you can, you guys and girls deserve better!

Yesterday in broad daylight, I was in no kind of revealing clothes but, I am just naturally really curvy, I was walking home and 4 Black guys in a car pulled close to me calling me bitche_ and Hos_, blasting this derogatory music, saying to me they were PIMPS and that I better get in the car. They opened the car door trying to grab me in the car, but I got away from them only because someone saw them. I had to pray for these men in the car, because there supposed to me lifted us women up, not tearing us down... What a blessing that I got away.....

Just recently I saw a video uploaded by a black mother that drove me CRAZY. She said her SON can home where they live in TEXAS with a history book, and in the book it says that black people were just WORKERS back in slavery time, and that they willingly were working, and it doesn't say anything about slavery, but talks about the native Americans being abused. This is just one reason why I took my son out of public school, Plus I learned that the schools are pushing for kids to be considered disabled, so they can get an extra 7000 dollars on top of the 12000 for the child, that is the amount in certain states. I noticed this when I kept telling my friend there was nothing wrong with her son and it wasn't. Do your research black people1

So black people have you guys ever heard that song by ORAN JUICE JONES, "the rain?" he tells the chick" you without me is like the corn-flake without the milk" lol This is a song about a man's woman cheating on him, some of the lyrics go " you gotta get outta here with that alley cat hush puppy shoe wearing crumb cake I seen you with." lol then he gives her some advice. this is funny! Now this is what I call a break up song, he dissed her but didn't call her a ho,or a bitch, he never had to curse or talk about her vagina. This is what REAL break up music is about. hehe