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"Listening First Before Responding"

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Listening First Before Responding”

 My last relationship blog covered Communication – Taking It to the Next Level. After reading all the responses to this blog, I found listening to be an area that was mentioned repeatedly. Therefore, the following information may help one develop the “Art of Listening”.   I believe listening is a part of communication. One without the other may cause the communication in the relationship to suffer. When... (continue reading)

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I came up with a couple of items to give everyone some idea of what I believe to be the benefits completing my bachelor's degree. Even though, a college degree is not the only way to become successful, there are certain advantages. Hopefully, this discussion will inspire those who were unsure of the benefits and have been thinking about pursuing an education to find out if college is right for them.

-Possessing a college degree may create additional... (continue reading)

Taking It To The Next Level - Communication

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Communication is a developed and learned skill that evolves over time. Some of us learn this skill while we are young from family members, friends or the media. Sometimes we further develop this skill later in life through educational institutions, our spiritual communities, jobs, etc. Because knowing how to communicate in our relationships is very important, the belief is that everyone should take the time to learn this skill and how to communicate with our partners and... (continue reading)

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NCFEMALERULERNCFEMALERULER



 

"We need to internalize this idea of excellence. Not many folks spend a lot of time trying to be excellent."


--President Obama






Life is HUGE! Let's Enjoy It!
Hello and Welcome to my page, Ladies and Gentlemen of Black Planet. I am interested in NETWORKING, SHARING KNOWLEDGE and LEARNING from others.



Some of you, who do not know me personally have asked me to describe myself on my page so please take the time to read what I have written and you will find out many interesting things about me.



First of all, I would like to tell you the reason why I selected the name "NCFemaleruler". I was born in Connecticut, grew up in North Carolina and spent my summers visiting family in New York and the Washington DC area. Even though, I do not live in North Carolina at this time; nor do I believe I will relocate back to that area any time soon, it is nice place to live. The only way I would probably move back there is if it was my destiny to do so and it was nearing my retirement years; North Carolina is just much slower than I need right now. I also lived in Atlanta for a minute; so I want to give BIG Shout-Outs to everyone from the "A". Atlanta is a very interesting place to live with a culture much different from where I am living now; but I am glad I had the chance to experience Atlanta; I try to get back to Atlanta as much as possible to visit and hang out.


NCFemaleruler is a "WOMAN RULING HER WORLD"(I`m ruling my space). Women seem to understand me regarding this, because for so many reasons, we (women) attempt to please others first, therefore, we neglect our minds, body and spirit. Well, I have learned I must be happy with myself and that`s what I`m doing, by accomplishing goals and enriching my life and others. However, all my blessings come from above, from my God; He is first.


Many of you, assume that I desire to rule something. Well, you`re right, I`m ruling Me. I am not interested in ruling anyone else`s world, especially attempting to rule a man; that`s out of the question. I am a Queen; a Ruler; believe me when I tell you this. My destiny depends on my faith, my decisions, my giving and my associations. Yes, I am a very independent woman in my thinking and my personal life. I listen to constructive criticism but I am not easily influenced by anyone; my family, friends or acquaintences. Just because someone has a preference or a strong opinion towards something that involves me does not mean I will agree with it or change my mind. Likewise, I hope to continue to become more independent and responsible because I feel this characteristic is essential in today's relationships whether those relationships are personal or professional.


My birthday is June 17th - I am a GEMINI


 

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I describe myself as very outgoing and ambitious. I enjoy being around positive people. I love being outside; walks in the park, hiking, fishing (a very new activity; but I like it), outside concerts, summer barbeques and pool parties, and not to mention visiting museums, etc. I plan to take a tour of the White House soon; I am really excited about this! By the way, I attended the Inauguration of our 44th President Obama at the mall in D.C. which was one of the most important experiences of my life; I will never forget it! Now, back to me, if you like playing pool; I'll play you anytime; this is one of my most enjoyable hobbies (even though I need a lot of practice). I also, took a beginner's golf lesson; it was fun; but again, I need more lessons and practice! Currently, I have started skating again. This is bringing back some good memories not to mention; I am getting my skating skills back so be patient with me please.


I also love spending quiet time at home; watching my favorite television shows and netflix movies. I love romantic dinners, reading, and meditating. I am a Panthers Fan (GO PANTHERS!!!) and I am cheering on the LAKERS every year (LET'S GET IT, LAKERS!!!). My favorite college basketball team is the North Carolina Tarheels, of course.



Check out my private Black Planet Group named "Let's Date". If you have a voice regarding any aspect of dating and would like to be heard; join my group! http://groups.blackplanet.com/ LETSDATE.

Also, if you are a University of Phoenix student at one of the campuses or online, a graduate or would like to discuss or learn about classes at UOP, feel free to join my group named "University of Phoenix Students", http:/groups.blackplanet.com/U OP.


I have positive goals in place right now and I am in the process of achieving them. I hope to continue to have an impact and influence on those who know and love me. I want represent myself as a Classy, Driven, Intelligent and Humble African American Woman who believes in family and love.
Last but not least, I appreciate all my friends and acquaintences here on Blackplanet.




 

 

"to be in love"
(written by Lynette Jeffries)

woman is...

to treat him

like a man

man is...

to let her be woman

limit his stress

stimulate him

mentally and physically

fulfill her emotionally

have his back

when the world is on his

be understanding to her

even when he doesn`t understand

encourage and build him up

when othersare tearing him down

continue to compliment her beauty

hold him up

before he can fall

hold her

for no reason at all

the two together

shall continue

to grow

and only

then will

he, she know

what it is

to be in love









My Motto:

"My ability is greater than any challenge I will face."

"Chow"








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  • Here For:

    Friends, Networking

  • Member Since:

    Apr 10, 2002

  • Sex:

    Female

  • Dating Preference:

    Male

  • Relationship Status:

    Involved/Partner

  • Last Login:

    6 hours ago

  • Education:

    Bachelor's Degree

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Gemini


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Kandired
Kandired

Female, Age Private, Houston, TX

Posted Nov 05


Just stopped by to say HI!


ZOEFORLIFE
ZOEFORLIFE

Male, Age Private, Hollywood, FL

Posted Nov 05


Whats up beautiful write me.


robertmccurry
robertmc...

Male, Age Private, Omaha, NE

Posted Nov 02


Dark brown eyes,soft lips like silken
day dreams,sweet forbidden fruit
Smooth velvet skin to touch

To gently kiss and caress I long
To belong to you, to have and to hold
and to feel the rhythmic flow of our
body entwined with passion

Oh my forbidden fruit how I love
and long for you here in my arms
Why did I not stop and say please
don´t walk away don´t go

Nor take you when you reach out
to me and taste of you,
forbidden fruit I love you
How could I have known that you
would belong to someone that´s not me.


Jlove1969
Jlove1969

Male, 40, Cleveland, OH

Posted Nov 01



lionhearted
lionhearted

Male, Age Private, Brooklyn, NY

Posted Nov 01


Dropping a quick line to say Hello. Enjoy


Flyer101
Flyer101

Male, 43, Riverdale, GA

Posted Oct 31


Good morning, and i hope u are having a wonderful weekend. Just wanted to come show a sister some LOVE.....It's holloween, be safe and careful out there


D_Menace
D_Menace

Male, Age Private, Laurel, MD

Posted Oct 29



nateft
nateft

Male, 27, Gilbert, AZ

Posted Oct 29


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IcepickEnt
IcepickEnt

Male, Age Private, Cambridge, MA

Posted Oct 23


THANKS,,,,,,,,,,BLESS & LOVE,,,,, sorry I' ve been on myspace.com/azell05



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614CBUS
614CBUS

Male, 44, Reynoldsburg, OH

Posted Oct 21



nutsonuts
nutsonuts

Male, 33, Newark, NJ

Posted Oct 17


HEY WHATS UP SEXY HIW ARE YOU DOING


nthethrill
nthethrill

Male, 30, Baton Rouge, LA

Posted Oct 16


Hey cutie, just stopping by to say hi :)


blackmandre
blackmandre

Male, Age Private, Detroit, MI

Posted Oct 14



LABEATS
LABEATS

Male, 47, Apple Valley, CA

Posted Oct 13


Stopping in to Say Hello, and let you check out my new Trailer for my latest film. Hope all is well.


chazjonzun
chazjonzun

Male, Age Private, Saint Augustine, FL

Posted Oct 13



IronMan_02
IronMan_02

Male, Age Private, Winston-Salem, NC

Posted Oct 12


Sending some luv ur way!! u r truly blessed**


ashellie2002
ashellie...

Female, 39, Statesboro, GA

Posted Oct 12


iI TRULY AGREE WITH U MY SISTER EVERY THING U SAY IS TRUE I WISH I HAD A BRAIN LIKE U .YOU HAVE A VERY STRONG SENSE OF HUMOR ,I GIVE U ALL THE PROPS.


AWrkOfArt
AWrkOfArt

Female, 30, Fayetteville, NC

Posted Oct 10


Hey lady. Just wanted 2 stop by and say hello. Have a wonderful evening. Blessings 2 u.


tiredblkman
tiredblkman

Male, 52, Millville, NJ

Posted Oct 09





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