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Why Do Women Hate Other Women So Much !?!?!




Any Hench women out there that would like to answer this?

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TheOracle
TheOracle

Female, Age Private, Chicago, IL

Posted March 10, 2007


Here's a comment from a young woman who posted on this subject from RedMosquito.com:


In my experience as a professional sociological observer, I've seen that girls as young as kindergarten do not generally get along with each other, and for no apparent reason.

It's no secret that there is an underlying current of hatred between women of all ages, races, and classes. Albeit, the word jealousy should probably be substituted for anger.

And sometimes it's not even about not liking the other chick, but rather wanting nothing to do with making them an alliance.

It happens here, at work, at school, at bars, just in general. I haven't yet seen a capacity where a group of 3 or more women are truly united, other than the family structure.

In my opinion, it doesn't exist. Right along with platonic relationships among opposite genders.

What are your experiences/ what do you think?


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Female, Age Private, Minneapolis, MN

Posted March 10, 2007


Sisters hold to much in, not willing to allow other's to know the true self. Afraid that their business would be spread all over the world. Because some woman gossip to damn much.

Specially in the church those so called christian ladies were vicious they about everyone's business I had to hear about peoples husband's children aunts uncles.

Damn I got so sick of it it was one of the many reason's why I left the church. Sister's who were all in everyone else's got damn business.


2quan
2quan

Male, Age Private, Maitland, FL

Posted March 10, 2007


"You never know the ways of a woman"


majestic1070
majestic...

Male, Age Private, Orlando, FL

Posted March 10, 2007


Noone knows a woman like the next woman.Thats why women always in competition with one another: I'll show her

1) If a woman get a good job (she want a better job)

2) If a woman has a decent man (she gonna wanna steal him)

3) If a woman makes an opinion (she thinks she has a better one)

Women think alike (or most do) and they will always compete with one another, well if a man see you have a good job ..he's gonna be like "nice job bro" but a woman in her mind (she angry) but never gonna tell you.Women or the most jealous souls on this planet.


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Male, 47, Saginaw, MI

Posted March 10, 2007


That is the beauty of an opinon. Everyone has one and they arent always right. Platonic relationships between members of the opposite sex do exist , just as bonding between women does. Its just that the negative is all people notice. Whomever the professional obeserver is, she/he needs to go back to school.I know groups of women who , there are more than 3 of them, they dont hate on each other, at least not the ones in the pack. LOL
The one thing I do agreeon is and yes take this as blackwoman bashing if you want, but OUr sisters sure as hell cant get along. How many times have you heard this"Oh I Dont hanng with Bitc*s or I dont have any female friends they too trifling"? I have Watched a simple transation like a cell phone sale betweentwo women go from polite to I had to seperate the 2 women becausethey were about to try to beat the CHIt out of eachother. Ina span of 7 to 9 mins they were at each others throats. Now I dontknow if it wasbecause I was standing there or what, but i did find out afterwards that these 2 women didnt know each other from Eve. I think the reason men Get along with one another better than women do is because we dont have that inquisitive nature. We dont question everything or everyones motive for everything. Men make friends amongst each other fast. and the Crazy thing is is even when we get into it as loong as it isnt some major BS we still tend to remain to be friends.

I know this is messed up but ill give you some rather raw examples of the differneces. Relationships for instance: There are men who will pass a woman around amongst them. I've seen it, andhave been invited to it. When I say passed I dont mean run a train or nothing like that I mean just hey man yuo hit that? Tyeah . Was it good? Yeah you should try to get at her, she do such and such and so on. Men do that. HOW MANY CONVERSATIONSHAVE YU WOMEN EVER HAD LIKE THAT WIHT YOUR HOMEGIRL?

Never most likely because with most women, evenif it was a one night stand, the thought of her friend banging the same guy pisses her off. Even if she didnt give a damn about him.

What it boils down to is this ladies, some times your innate and wonderfull(at times) complexity can be your downfall when it comes to being friends with someone just as complex as you are.

The babbling of a Lunatic?!?!?!


nuage
nuage

Female, Age Private, Gloucester, ON

Posted March 10, 2007


oftentimes- the worse enemy of women are women-

i must say that i also know many super women.

in my life some of the women i held dear to me have done some pretty %#&@$!ed up things
now that my path has changed- they forgot how they treated me in life-

many of us have had a low self-esteem- i have been there- and women will often invite men to kick you down when you feel disempowered-

women from all cultures need love and respect- when they are in power like ondi is, the yreplicate the errors made my the patriacrchy-

sad but true

nuage


zuribibi
zuribibi

Female, Age Private, Utica, MI

Posted March 10, 2007


Some women only use other women to get what they want...sounds like a man...lol, but it is true!


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Male, Age Private, Granada Hills, CA

Posted March 10, 2007


I have a question. Why can't The Oracle address POSITIVE issues regarding Brothers and Sisters? Raise up off the negativity, Love. All of us haven't lose our minds.


majestic1070
majestic...

Male, Age Private, Orlando, FL

Posted March 10, 2007


@MrAfrika..

People don't wanna hear anything positive (sad but true) just look at your local s.


TheOracle
TheOracle

Female, Age Private, Chicago, IL

Posted March 10, 2007


MrAfrika

I have in my story archives articles I've posting about blacks starting they're own businesses. I got 10 posts on it

The Aids crises and how it affects our community that one got 35 posts

I had a post on School shootings that one got 29 hits

My "Women in Combat" got 20 hits

"A World Without Money" that one got 15 hits

"Adults defending selves against Minors" got 107 hits

"Real Reason African Americas should Celebrate years" got 49 hits

And I have more but you all should get my point by now

TheOracle


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