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Black man's burden: myth of the deadbeat




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khaluhha
khaluhha

Male, 47, Brooklyn, NY

Posted October 21, 2013


@blaq

a 1 and 3/4 thumbs up out of 2 thumbs? lol

The doctor is simply stating what he hears on the streets, he's not encouraging black men to date/marry non-American black women, or to have serial monogamous relationships with them. He's simply pointing out the fact what older black men see, which is the court system sides with black women over black men unjustly. This manifests itself with black women being able to use their children as pawns in cahoots with the court system, and doing so in a way to push many black men out of their children's lives.


khaluhha
khaluhha

Male, 47, Brooklyn, NY

Posted October 22, 2013


@blaq

Why are up to 70% of households lead by single mothers in the black community? Is this an exception?

More importantly, why is this a recent phenomenon in the black community? There were times where single parent households were at levels below whites in this country. What happened?

These are the questions that Dr. Umar is trying to answer with his extensive experience as a therapist working with black folks, and comes to some interesting conclusions with his extensive experience with his black female patients.

What I find interesting is that Dr. Umar is a black nationalist, and he's pro black family. But, what he sees is many black women buying into we can do it alone. Essentially, many black women are buying into black feminist rhetoric, and that's sad, because it's killing the black family,and this started in the late 60's early 70's, right around the time when black women where divorcing men in record numbers because they were "dissatisfied."


khaluhha
khaluhha

Male, 47, Brooklyn, NY

Posted October 22, 2013


@blaq

With an upwards of 70% of households being lead by black women, I wouldn't say with confidence that it is the "exception" that black women use children as pawns via the court system to push black men out. It a significant part of why many black fathers aren't around, along with the other reasons Dr. Umar pointed to.

The divorce issue: The sky rocketing divorces, which were initiated by women, was due to the implementation of no fault divorces along with government handouts and affirmative action laws which put women in a situation where they felt they no longer needed men as financial partners. Plus, the main complaint women gave for initiating the vast majority of the divorces was "dissatisfaction."Ve ry few women claimed they divorced because of infidelity or ABUSE.



As a matter of fact when certain states and countries make divorce unappealing or difficult the couples work things out and are happier afterwards. However, when divorce is made easy along with women not needing a man as a financial partner, then women file for divorce in large numbers. By the way, this is a world wide phenomenon, so I'm not just sh!ting on black women.

What's interesting though is that if marriage is so horrendous for women, why is it that women consistently want to marry considerably more than men?






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