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This is not a good example for young girls. This kind of behavior should never be see as good role models, in the black communityThis is part of the problem of our community now.

Violence should never be considered a good thing. Violence only breeds more violence. If he stays with her, he must realize she knows what buttons to push to provoke him and it's going to be hard for him to verbally express himself. This relationship is doomed. Chris needs to walk away.

"I mean what about women ( here and in other countries) that get beat up on a daily basis??? WHere is their national (and international) outrage???"

@brwn eyes

Girl I heard the hell out of that! I want to know too, But I think their celebrity status makes the story more intriguing than others.
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Although there are two sides of the story, we already established that he put hands on her. Regardless, that is some weak sht and he CLEARLY needs counseling.

@ 1001

I agree 1001! It is a TERRIBLE example. I feel for young girls who are stuck in abusive relationships. Its quite interesting to see how OUR PEOPLE REACT to things like this. It is also interesting to see how OTHER people react as well in contrast. We seem to be the only people that think its "OK" if she provoked him. What does that say about us?

@Brown...

Sorry--

I have taught my son... (that if she puts your hands on you leave) fugg that ho(e).. cause she aint worth you going to jail for.. Plain and simple.. I wouldn't giva fugg if yall had 10 kids together.. the simple fact is some folks Male/Female love drama, they so fugged up in the head they think that sheotz means the other person loves you.

That's some dysfunctional sheotz.. -- I wouldn't waste my breath... and yes some mofo's love drama, arguing they love to provoke.. I dont do any of that sheotz, cause see i'm not going go there, not cause i'm scared.. just cause .. I can't be bothered with the bullsheotz. -- it's counter productive and very unhealthy..

Too many mofo's need counseling in this world.. and they dont even wanna acknowledge that sheotz.

I told my friend the one I referred.. -- you dont need to think about a new guy get yourself healed.. and learn what loved truly is cause your truly worth it.


(lastly no offense brown -- - but your azz tend to excuse mofo's too much)

no offense taken but....I excuse mofo's???

Im not excusing...im leaving room for ALL sides of the story.

Do I excuse the behavior of Black folks that strive for less...hell no

Do I excuse white racist people?? hell no

what about neglectful moms/ dads? no

so what do you mean I excuse people??

LOL@ browneye


I see your eyes turning red and smoke coming out your ears with anger....DON'T BLOW YOUR TOP PLEASE!!!



LOL

I THINK IT'S CRAZY TO EXPECT ANOTHER GENDER TO BEHAVE AS U WOULD NOT BEHAVE...

IF U AS A WOMAN, HAD ANOTHER WOMAN COME TO YOUR FACE, SPIT AT U, CURSE OUT YOUR MAMA AND URE DADA, WHILE CURSING YOU AND YOUR LOOKS

I DAMN SURE, KNOW 99.9% OF WOMEN WOULD ATTACK THE OTHER WOMEN...


BUT SOMEHOW, SOMEWAY,,, THEY EXPECT THAT A MAN SHOULD [HAVE THE RESTRAINT] TO SIMPLY WALK AWAY...


LOL.. THAT AINT NATURAL AND THAT'S NOT BEING REAL..


WHEN U ARE IN LOVE THERE ARE [STRONG] EMOTIONS AT PLAY

AND SHYT HAPPENS..

WE DONT KNOW WHAT WENT DOWN

WE SHOULD NOT PASS JUDGMENT OR TELL HIM OR HER THAT HE SHOULD NOT BE WITH HIM OR HER

THEY KNOW THEMSELVES BEST AND WHAT WENT DOWN WITH THEIR RELATIONSHIP...AND ALTERCATION...

THAT'S THE THING..

WE ARE LIKE WHAT'S CALLED ARM-CHAIR QUATERBACKS OR MONDAY MORNING QUATERBACKS

ALWAYS TALKING [WHILE WE ARE NOT IN THE SITUATION] WHAT WE WOULD HAVE DONE OR WOULD HAVE DONE DIFFERENTLY...

""OH IF IT WAS ME, THAT EXPERIENCED THIS OR THAT OR HAD THIS OR THAT MATE, I WOULD LEAVE THEM AND OR DO THIS"""

WHILE, WHEN THEY ARE PRESENTED WITH IT WITH THE SAME SITUATION AND UNDER THE SAME CONDITION, THEY DO THE SAME EXACT THING....


UNFORTUNATELY, SITTING IN THE COMFORT OF OUR OWN SEATS, BEHIND A COMP SCREEN, WHEN EVERYTHING IS CALM

IS NOT THE SAME AS WHEN U ARE CAUGHT UP IN SITUATION AND YOUR HORMONES, EMOTIONS TAKES OVER...


99.9% OF PEOPLE ARE NOT RATIONAL, CALM AND COLLECTED UNDER PRESSURE OR EXTREME EMOTIONAL HIGHS..

I'm sorry i'm talking bout life in general

and Yes I have been in an abusive relationship..

He tried to throw me outta a truck going 90 miles an hr. guess what? I stfu real quick.. waited til i got somewhere safe and said i'm calling the cops.

When he raped me..I didn't fight -- to fuggin light for that.. I would had bruises and no way I wanted my kids to hear that sheotz.. I just laid there when it was over he said "You better not say I raped you" .. Well mofo knew what he did.. which is why that's what he said..

For me.. -- I walk away.. I get a hint a mofo like drama I walk away.

I told my son's girlfriend.. You put your hands on my son again, cause that's my child.. I will bust your azz!.

I will go to jail for my kids.. (and my daughters told her the same thing) cause my son was taught to walk away.

I wasn't there for This thing between chris brown.. and rhinia.. so whateva.. --- my comments are based on life experience not -- anything else

AND THERE U GO..

THAT'S THE WHOLE POINT

THIS WHAT APPLIES TO U... U AND U ONLY..

U CANT EXPECT FOR SOMEONE TO HEED YOUR APPROACH AS BEING WHAT'S BEST FOR THEM...

HMM.. U SAID YOUR SON IS 21
BUT U WILL [BEAT] A CHILD THAT'S AROUND HIS AGE...

A GROWN WOMAN BEATING UP A CHILD AND TO U THAT'S FINE IN YOUR EYES...

WHEN OTHERS WOULD LOOK AT U AND SAY THAT'S FOOLISH AND U SHOULD JUST WALK AWAY AND CALL THE COPS...


LOL.. SEE.. WE ARE ALL HUMANS AND ACT IRRATIONAL AND GET CAUGHT IN THE SITUATION...


LOL.. IF THAT CAR WASNT GOING 90 AND DID U WERE OUTSIDE, U WOULD CONTINUE MOUTHING OFF...

IF HE DID NOT OVER-POWER U AND IT WAS A LITTLE DUDE THAT U COULD HANDLE THAT WAS RAPING U,,, U WOULD HAVE TRIED TO KNOCK HIM OUT...


AT THE END OF THE DAY,,, I WILL REPEAT.. WE ALL LIKE TO SAY HOW WE WOULD REACT TO A SITUATION... BUT LOGIC AND BEING RATIONAL IS NOT WHAT'S IN CHARGE...

EMOTIONS TAKE OVER,,, ESPECIALLY UNDER GREAT PRESSURE OR STRESS..