Your priorities must be straight first before you can determine what a mate expects from you and what you're willing to sacrifice for your happiness with this particular person. There are always choices in life that can bring you down or elevate you mentally,spiritually, and emotionally what's most valuable is financially! But seriously, it helps to give a person room to breathe sometimes enough to see if they really want you or someone else so if they return to you without incident &... (continue reading)

There is always a beef w/somebody other than ourselves. Mariah and Em, Jay Z & The Game, Mary J &Keyshia say it aint' so!!! Well, either the media creates this drama or we need to realize everyone won't see eye to eye on every subject, like who's real who's fake by jada and swiss or like the new boyz,( ur a jerk) if you don't like them. Can we all just get along like Rodney King? Just because I like one person do I have to hate who they hate like 50 cent ruined Ja Rule's career, based on... (continue reading)

The one thing people always seem to be amazed by is a woman w/kids who looks good & takes good care of herself and does all this without a man's help. Not always her choice but forced into a corner w/no options makes a person resilient after one or more people told you how hard it is to survive w/no man and how they got to have somebody. Well me, myself, have seen many women who have men living in their homes & it seems just like they don't. The women take out trash, fight their... (continue reading)