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Hello Black Planet, I like to share a little of myself with you, my name says it all northphilly1, born & rised til the age of 18, since then I`ve travel the world, and learned one important Lesson. I would like to pass on. One of Life s Best Lessons People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up have been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a season, it is because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things; you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. I know why you are in my life and I love you for that reason. I N S T R U C T I O N S F O R L I F E 1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 2. When you lose, don`t lose the lesson. 3. Follow the three Rs: Respect for self Respect for others and Responsibility for all your actions. 4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. 5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly. 6. Don`t let a little dispute injure a great friendship. 7. When you realize you`ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 8. Spend some time alone every day. 9. Open your arms to change, but don`t let go of your values. 10.Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. 11.Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you`ll be able to enjoy it a second time. 12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life. 13.In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don`t bring up the past. 14.Share your knowledge. It`s a way to achieve immortality. 15.Be gentle with the earth. 16.Once a year, go someplace you`ve never been before. 17.Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. 18.Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it. 19.Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon. "More to come"