What's up BP family, Its been some time since I've been really active on here but I figured I would update things one day at a time. Just a quick blurb, gotten into the education field and considering going back to school for it. I plan on taking trips to places I never been. Started learning how to cook for real this year sad I know but don't "judge me, you don't know my struggles" lol... all in all I'm just here for good conversation and whatever else is just what it is, " whatever else".
This is info for the "Whatever Else" I am very laid back person that needs someone who enjoys being in a relationship but who also respects and benefits from a reasonable level of physical and psychological space at times. Someone who wants and reciprocates love as much as I do. She has to be energetic, enthusiastic and has high self sufficiency like myself and will support or even be by my side in my personal and professional interests that are an extension of my identity and/ or accomplishments, like I hope to be able to do. Someone I can have meaningful and in depth conversations with as well as the light hearten stuff like, " Do you think Halle Berry is sexy?". Answer: "DUH!!!" I don't like to argue or play the blame game so I need someone who can take time, with me, to find a complete and genuine resolution to issues as opposed to avoiding conflict by settling for quick, temporary agreements or the " Agree to disagree".
She has to love sex, %@$!ing, love making and regards it as apart of her top 5 needs in a relationship.
Mine are as follows:
1) God
2) Family
3) Sex
4) Friends
5) Work
She must understand the need for a healthy sexual lifestyle in a relationship, it doesn't have to be imidiate and it is true 75% somethings are truly worth waiting for and I can respect that. A hopeless romantic but who will take time to allow for nature to take its course before trying to have kids or get married in the first 6 months. I need someone who can express affection and show me that I am a priority by spending time simply talking and relaxing at home, going for walks or taking road trips. I need someone who feels that simple or grand acts of kindness are no substitutes for other expressions of affection - such as telling you how they feel, treating you like a partner, touching you lovingly, spending time with you or remembering special occasions with a thoughtful gift ( does not mean expensive or has to be bought). Finally, I am not into stressing myself out over small stuff and like 99% of the humans on earth I can't read minds and don't pretend to so if you don't like talking then don't bother hitting me up...
