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4/28/08 I have decided to update this portion of my page mainly because certain people seem to get disgruntled by my words. Not that I won't continue to say what's on my mind, but it was time for an update anyway. I don't know what to tell you folks that take offense to what I type or think that "I think I know it all" but if you fit the bill then don't get pissed at me, that won't change your situation. Let me say this again I am very happy being single with no children, and I still do prefer to date men with no children. If you have a problem with who I am and what I prefer then you need to get a life and be more concerned with who you are and what you prefer. I only speak about experiences that I have had with certain individuals. If I don't know you then I could not possibly be speaking about you. Evidently you have identified my words as something that relates directly to you good or bad. So please don't get mad at me if my words strike a nerve.(OK next topic)Have you figured out your purpose in life? Do you believe that each of us are here for a reason? These are some questions I have been asking myself for a long time. I believe that we are all here to serve a purpose not to just our immediate families but also to our fellow man. As I grow as a person I begin to realize what my purpose is. It seems very simple when I say it but it becomes more in depth each day I face certain problems that seem to have no solution. If there seems to be no solution should I just accept that or should I strive to be the solution. Believe it or not it's easier to turn away from the problem and ignore it. I would say a rough estimate of about 90%of the population become complacent with certain things even though they know they are wrong. If you know that there is a problem that is negatively affecting others or even yourself do you think you will be held accountable for not trying to solve the problem? Maybe so especially if it was in your power to do so. Do you believe that the Lord will present a problem to you and not want you to give it your best shot and try resolve the issue? I have learned my lesson from running away from problems, I promise you every time that same problem I ran away from SLAPPED me in the face even harder when it came back around. I am afraid not to handle certain issues because it may present itself again 10 fold. I know I am speaking in general but I have a specific problem in mind that I will not elaborate on at this time. My point in writing this is to let people know that maybe you are the chosen one, maybe you were put in the right place at the right time to solve a problem. But it is up to you to find out what your calling is. Good Luck it's really not as easy as we may think. If you keep your eyes and mind open and seek you will find.

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