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  • Member Since:

    March 28, 2006

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    Male

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    Female

  • Age:

    46

  • Relationship Status:

    Single

  • Last Login:

    Yesterday

  • Education:

    Master's Degree

  • Primary Job:

    Information Technology

  • Location:

    Atlanta, GA

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Taurus


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Two of these are true about me. No joke. Which one's the lie? Take a guess...

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Life is like a bank account. We make deposits or withdrawals, but in the end we have only what we've put in to the account. So I want to deposit as many good memories as I can!

So what exactly does that mean? Live life to the fullest. Enjoy this extremely short existence as much as you can. We Black folks are a scary lot. We fear anything that does not happen on our block. Therefore we do not travel too far from our comfortable surroundings. Nor do we take part in activities, relationships or even explore our own thought processes that go beyond what we know to be safe. Essentially we are not only afraid of death, we are afraid to live. Not enough of us have figured that out yet. The key to making great "life deposits" is letting go of the fear that grounds us.

So - How much are you grounded by your fear? When you are on your deathbed, whether that is tomorrow or 50 years from now, how much will you regret not experiencing? God gave us a big park to play in and a ginormous universe to marvel at. Explore as much of it as you can. Life is not just about clothes, cars and music. Those are not the things you will wish you had in your bank account at the end. Start making deposits that mean something now. Enjoy this life because you only get to live this one once! :-)

Check out my pages and sign my guestbook to let me know you came by! 

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Now sit back and listen to my varied musical tastes. I love my hip-hop but I like to mix it up every now and then. A little Dirty Dirty South and West Coast with some Detroit techno and Hawaiian/Jamaican/New Zealand Ska with some acid jazz and house... yeah, my stew pot is deep! So get yo party on, stroke on, or smoke on! LOL!


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That's pretty much on point, but ahh... why I gotta be a tramp?!

 

recent blog posts

EVIL PORK?

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I, for one, am sick and tired of hearing all the doom and gloom BS about pork from Black people.

The first thing is that pigs are filthy. ANY animal farmed for food is likely to have regularly lain in and consumed "filth and muck." Further, NO animal eats more of its own excrement than chickens. But we love us some chicken.

Trichinosis is usually brought up in these conversations. Trichinosis is caused by eating raw or undercooked pork or wild game (duck, quail and many others) infected with... (continue reading)

Troy Davis Aftermath

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First, I am not sure Troy Davis was innocent. I do know however that he was railroaded by the "justice system". Second, he is not the only person sentenced to death unjustly by any means. Third, although the system is hugely unbalanced for people of color, the larger issue seems to be an equal opportunity offender.

I formerly supported the death penalty. Over the years I have seen this type of travesty happen on several occasions. It made me start to change my mind about continuing to use it.... (continue reading)

Why Make Life So Hard?

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Its interesting how people insist on making their existence here on this plane SOOO difficult. Life does not have to be hard. In fact, it is only as hard as we make it for ourselves. Most problems have very simple, logical solutions. It is our personal issues that obscure those solutions. Our individual fears, denials, procrastinations and emotional baggage get in the way of making decisions and moving on.

Hopefully we all get to the point of realizing how simple life really is. After that... (continue reading)

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MI_Mrs
MI_Mrs

Female, 48, Atlanta, GA

Posted August 20, 2010


..Oh Wow ... I likey like...that new pic is soooooooooooooo delish.........*whispers....di d I gush enuf??* ... LOL....nah...it really is handsome...but then again, you know that smile is a killer.....


kcangel4u
kcangel4u

Female, 44, Kansas City, MO

Posted May 04, 2010


James, I just stopped by to wish you a great birthday! Hope you truly enjoyed your day!! Many more! Misty


MI_Mrs
MI_Mrs

Female, 48, Atlanta, GA

Posted May 03, 2010


 

... sitting in the rain... thinking of you ...wondering what you doing on your BDay... 

Happy Birthday ... you deserve the best ...


Tenderlick
Tenderlick

Female, Age Private, Cleveland, OH

Posted April 10, 2010


THANK YOU OG, ENJOY THE MOMENT


MI_Mrs
MI_Mrs

Female, 48, Atlanta, GA

Posted April 07, 2010


... BAMN ...!!! ...


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HAVE A WARM & RELAXING EVENING!!!




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