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  • Member Since:

    March 17, 2000

  • Relationship Status:

    Married

  • Last Login:

    18 mins ago

  • Education:

    Doctorate

  • Primary Job:

    Project/Program Management

  • Location:

    Laurel, MD

  • Race:

    Black/African American


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WELL! FRIENDS HAVE ASKED THAT I KEEP THIS UP FOR ITS HONESTY AND CLARITY VALUE... I DECIDED TO OBLIGE THEM... BUT PLEASE CHECK THE CHANGE IN MY STATUS... YEP, BY THE TIME YOU GET TO THE UPDATES AT THE END, I MARRIED HER...

Thank you for stopping by. Honestly, I`m not concerned about how many entries I`ll get in my guestbook. I`m not trying to win a popularity contest or points.



If anything I`d love to win over





A SISTAH WHO



Can and is willing to trust

Can and is willing to respect me and others

Is honest and positive thinking

Lets me admit my need for compassion and caring

Knows how to be strong without being controlling or competitive

Takes pride in her ethnic identity and spiritual roots

Is uncompromisingly committed to family

Is comfortable with her own femininity and sexuality

Is independent but can rely on others





Add the "icing" of patience, maturity, above average self-respect and communication skills (talking to share, listening), higher education, and hospitality.





Please be a non-smoker





If you think I`m asking for too much, I apologize for wasting your time. But I wish you the best.



If you can honestly tell yourself (not me) that you have those qualities or some and are working on or willing to work on the others, please sit back and share with me what you`d want to see me work on.





If you define spirituality in terms of relationship with God rather than religion, and if you can define the word "commitment" in ten or less words, you`d definitely have earned big browny points





I might be positively biased towards non-drinkers, unattached and available, childless (or one child with a positive relationship with the father) sistahs who can have and want to have children.





DISCLAIMER:

I have tried my best to be honest. As you`ve probably noticed, there is no physical criterion above. It does not mean I`m blind. It only means I have my priorities set... True, I have a weakness for beautiful smiles on full lips, long legs, Basketball players/fans, tall sistahs, but I`m realistic...



Peace


UPDATE [Sept '08]: I think WE FOUND EACH OTHER ... oh, and we share the same birthday... the future rests in God's hands now...

LATEST UPDATE [Dec '08]: It's not I THINK... We did find each other... And we are thankful for God's blessings.

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