phat_n_phine HAPPY HOLIDAYS! - December 24, 2010 add/view comments (0) |
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 Wassup BP Family! Zphiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, and of course my beautiful Ebony Rose Sistas. You can email me at ONENOTORIOUSZETA@YAHOO.COM. In my thirty something years of life I`VE learned a lot of things: I VE LEARNED that you can`t make someone to love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved . The rest is up to them. I VE LEARNED that no matter how much I care, some people just don t care back. I VE LEARNED that no matter how good a friend is, they re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I VE LEARNED that just because someone doesn t love you the way you want to, doesn t mean they don t love you with all they have. I VE LEARNED that there people who love dearly, but just don t know how to show it. I VE LEARNED that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true LOVE. I VE LEARNED that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you ve had and what you ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you ve celebrated. I VE LEARNED that it isn t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself. I VE LEARNED that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn t stop for your grief. I VE LEARNED that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions. I VE LEARNED that we don t have to change friends ifwe understand that friends change. I VE LEARNED that twopeople can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I VE LEARNED that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves get farther in life. I VE LEARNED that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar you will feel lonely and lost at times you sometimes need them the most. I VE LEARNED that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help. I VE LEARNED that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being. I VE LEARNED that it is hardto determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people s feelings and standing up for what you believe. I VE LEARNED that money is a lousy way of keeping score. I VE LEARNED that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. I VE LEARNED that either you control your attitude or it controls you. I VE LEARNED that it s not what you have in your life but whom you have in your life that counts. I VE LEARNED that you can get by on charm for fifteen minutes. After that, you had better know something. I VE LEARNED that it takes me a long time to become the person I want to be. I VE LEARNED that you can keep going long after you think you can t. I VE LEARNED that reason for getting ahead is getting started. I VE LEARNED that in the end, the only people who fail are those who do not try. I VE LEARNED that great works are performed not strength but by perseverance. I VE LEARNED that successful men keep moving, they make mistakes, but they don t quit A virtuous woman more valuable than rubies Of greater worth than silver or than gold A woman is the pinnacle of God s creative nature A blessed gift to have and to hold A man who has insight and a deep abiding nature Will hide her in the caverns of his heart And as he gazes upon her he will recognize her beauty And know her as a treasure from the start By Rev. Donald Miskel To an Educator Take me Tutor me Teach me love Educate me tenderly Fit me like a glove Touch me Hungrily With your soft caress For I am disillusioned And not easy to impress I have seen so much of life Am aquatinted with the pain Have sought Have sighed Have searched for love Have nearly gone insane Poetically have writ of love In rytmn and in rhyme Have groped have grasped Have gripped for love But lost it every time Take me Teach me Beckon me Beseech me If your femininity Can finda way to reach me Then I will be your lover for a hundred thousand years live my life in happiness and put away my tears We could skip across the heavens and name each star above take me Tutor me Teach me love Donald Miskel MY WORDS OF WISDOM To My Friends Who Are...MARRIED Love is not about "it`s your fault.", but "I`m sorry." not "where are you?", but "I`m right here.", not "how could you?", but "I understand." not "I wish you were.", but "I`m thankful you are." To My Friends Who Are...ENGAGED The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other. To My Friends Who Are...NOT SO SINGLE Love isn`t about becoming somebody else`s "perfect person." It`s about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be. To My Friends Who Are...HEARTBROKEN Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them. To My Friends Who Are...NAIVE How to be in love: Fall but don`t stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain. To My Friends Who Are...SEARCHING True love cannot be found where it does not truly exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does. Love is magic. The more we hide it, the more it shows; the more you suppress it, the more it grows. To My Friends Who Are...PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPES Never say "I love you" if you don`t care. Never talk about feelings if they aren`t there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when whatyou do is lie. The cruelest thing a you can do to someone is to let them fall in love when you don`t intend to catch their fall. To My Friends Who Are...POSSESSIVE It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it`s more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you. To My Friends Who Are...AFRAID TO CONFESS Love hurts whenyou break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel. To My Friends Who Are...STILL HOLDING ON A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and we just have to let go. To My Friends Who Are...SINGLE Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you, but if you just let it fly, it would come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often times it hurts, but love`s only special when you give it to someone who is worth it. So take your time and choose the best! But also choose wisely. Never apologize for pursuing what makes you happy. Even if you need to quit your job, transfer schools, or move across country, always do what you really want. Never apologize for using proper English. Keeping it real doesn`t mean speaking ebonics. Never apologize for giving your best in a relationship that just didn`t work out. Never apologize for being successful. Only haters want to keep you at their level. Never apologize for crying. Wear waterproof mascara and express yourself. Never apologize for the ten pounds you need to lose. People who truly care about you will accept you as you are. Never apologize for being frugal. Just because you save your money rather than blowing it on the latest fashion emergency doesn`t mean you`re cheap. Don`t apologize for being a single Mom. Babies are blessingsnot mistakes. Never apologize for treating yourself to something special. Whether it`s a great dinner, a soothing facial or a banging outfit, sometimes you have to show yourself some appreciation. Never apologize for leaving an abusive relationship. Your safety should always be a priority. Never apologize for keeping the ring even if the wedding bells won`t chime. Hey, it was a gift. Never apologize for setting high standards in relationships. You know what you can tolerate and what simply gets on your last nerve. Never apologize for saying NO. Never apologize for asking for what you want in bed. If you don`t, then who will? Never apologize for wearing a weave. You bought it so it`s yours. Never apologize to your new friends about old friends. There`s a reason why she`s been your girl since day one. Never apologize for ordering dessert. Or, more than one dessert Never apologize for dating outside your race. Just because you found Mr. Right-across the color line doesn`t mean you don`t love the brothas. Never apologize for asking him to wear a condom. If he really likes you he`ll wrap it up without making you feel guilty. Never apologize for not knowing how to cook. Even if you can`t burn like Grandma you know how to order good take out. Neverapologize for your taste in clothing. It`s your style.
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You are a passionate lover. You are the complete package and you recieve the complete package. You are NOT selfish and yet you still don't get walked all over. You're what everyone looks for and you show the opposite sex what it is like to truly be loved. Anyone who gets you is truly lucky.  |
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