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Looking for new friends... No perverted pics Please! Loving life to the fullest! want to make friends far and near... looking to travel.... best to know people in all areas
Want to meet people who can keep a person's imagination going! If you see it all.... what's there to save? Females are friends ....I ONLY date MEN!! Down Lows need not inquire!!!.. About me: First and Foremost Jesus is head of my life! A Loving mother who's son is very intelligent! 2x Class President & looking to keep it going! Love respectable Children! We as parents must teach our children the words & meaning of Respect, Responsibility, & most of all Love! When they have this... then they can handle all things throughout life. Some whom read may not like.... but you may be the very one who needs a little love! !!! SO HERE'S A HUG!!!! SMOOCHES!! Essay written by my son June 24, 2008: U can't tell me I did and haven't handled my business as a Stong single BLACK WOMAN!!!! Thank you son! I LUV U! XOXOXO What More Can I Ask For? Have you ever been around someone your entire life, someone who has made a huge impact in your life, someone who you know deep down you cannot live without? My mom happens to be that person! I know what you're thinking, who does not love their mom, that is the person who brought you into this world and no matter what you do you cannot change that. I want to talk about the number one woman in my heart right now and forever, the ultimate care giver who goes beyond my expectations! I could go on and on with a list of things about my mom. But the three traits that I truly adore are love, protection, and nosiness. With these traits I have come to love her more and more everyday! Even though we have our ups and downs, and fight constantly, I know for a fact that she is always there!
Love is one of the most important things you can have in a person, it is not just an emotion, it is a feeling so hard to explain that words could not possibly describe it. When you have love in someone, you know that all other feelings of hatred, sorrow, misery, or any other emotion is overcome by what I like to call love. Everyday I tell my mom I love her, because I want her to know I appreciate her in every way! Love is a powerful word that should be used wisely; it is not like when you tell a friend you love them. You may think you love them dearly, but who is to say that ten years from now, both of you are on opposite sides of the world; never to speak or see each other again! Friends come and go by the dozen, but mothers only come once. My mom shows love in many ways, we spend a lot of time together going places and seeing new things. She always listens to my problems and does her best to help me through them. Simply telling someone you love them is one thing, but when you show it, those moments are cherished and never forgotten.
Protection is a key factor in any relationship. Being comfortable and safe around someone who I care about is a secure feeling that no one can take away. My mom protects me everyday, she tells me that she prays to God to keep me safe and out of harms way. That is extreme protection and that tells me that she has enough faith in God to pray for me. My mom also goes to bat for me whenever I am in emotional distress or in physical trouble. I remember a time when some people from my school wanted to fight me, I was not afraid because "moma didn't raise no punk," but my mom came to my defense and those people have never messed with me to this day! Sometimes I feel as though she is too over protective and she needs to let me handle my own problems. I know I cannot take on five people at once, but I will not give in without putting up a fight. My mom always tells me "don't be a fighter be a lover, but defend yourself if need be." At times it is hard to understand where she is coming from, but knowing she teaches me to keep me safe is protection in its own way!
Mothers can be really annoying at times because they always seem to bug you, but what annoys me most is when my mom is nosy! I completely hate it; I cannot trust my mom with any of my personal things. For example, I left my phone on the couch one day, and my mom happened to see it, so she takes it upon her self to search through the entire phone. She read my texts, saw my pictures, saw my emails, and basically figured out what had been going on in my life. That day was such a drag, once my mom knew what I talked about, she started asking a lot of questions! This was extremely annoying because she knew I did not want to talk to her, but continuously kept antagonizing the problem. Another incident was when I left my lap top at home without deleting password codes. My mom figured out how to log on my myspace and facebook as me! She would talk to my friends and tell them to stop talking to me because she thought they were bad influences on me. I would go to school thinking everything was fine, but what my mom did utterly destroyed my social life. After about a month or so of not hanging out with the same group of people, I noticed that my old friends started getting involved in drugs and alcohol. I have no idea how my mom sensed that my friends were no good, but in the long run it kept me on track and focused with school. I still believe that evading my privacy crossed the line, but I feel as though she were meant to do that to keep me out of trouble. This did create some trust issues, however, thinking back to the situation it was well worth it and I thank my mom for doing it!
Through the sixteen years I have lived with my mom, I have learned to be a leader not a follower and to set the bar high. I use to think it was cool following my older cousins or uncles who were headed down a path of failure. Thanks to my mom, I now know how to decide for myself and be what ever I want to be in life. I see the world filled with many opportunities for success and failure, I feel my mom has raised me well enough to determine right from wrong because I am the one who has to decide my future not anyone else. A lot of times I wonder what it is like to be on your own and be independent with no one telling you what to do, but at that same moment, I think of not seeing my mom everyday anymore and being able to come to her whenever I need to. It is a tough decision that I will soon have to make. Everyone has to grow up eventually and that is something I am willing to do because I know my mom will always be there!
I thank God for blessing me with such an awesome mom that many people can only dream of having. There are so many things to say about her, I would need a thousand pages just to say them all and that still would not be enough. I love my mom a lot and I have no idea what I would do if I ever lost her. She means the world to me and will always remain in my heart. My mom goes above and beyond just to make sure I succeed in life because she cares about me. All the time I hear people talking about how great or how marvelous their mom is, but no one except me will ever experience such a phenomenal woman that I call mom!
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