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A time comes in your life when you finally get it...when, in the midst of all your fears and insanity, you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out - ENOUGH!
Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on.
And, like a child quieting down after a blind tantrum, your sobs begin to subside, you shudder once or twice, you blink back your tears and begin to look at the world through new eyes.
This is your awakening.

You stop judging and pointing fingers and you begin to accept people as they are and to overlook their shortcomings and human frailties..
You learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view.
And you begin reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for.

You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a bygone era but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life.
You learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO.

Then you learn about love.
How to love, how much to give in love, when to stop giving and when to walk away.
You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them be.
You stop trying to control people, situations and outcomes.
And you learn that alone does not mean lonely.

You come to the realization that you deserve to be treated with love, kindness, sensitivity and respect and you won't settle for less.

You take more time to laugh and to play.
You also learn that no one can do it all alone...and that it's OK to ask for help.

You learn that life isn't always fair, you don't always get what you think you deserve and that sometimes bad things happen to unsuspecting, good people.
You learn to admit when you are wrong and to build bridges instead of walls.
And you make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting, and to stay open to every wonderful possibility.
Finally, with courage in your heart you take a stand, you take a deep breath, and you begin to design the life you want to live as best you can.

Please do not send crush notes I can not respond to them!!!! Send me a regular note. If you have issues be a man or woman and handle them before hurting another heart!!!

"When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us." Helen Keller,

 

God closes doors no man can open & God opens doors no man can close.