My name is Ri and Im 29...Please don't waste time by leaving me a message if you are outside of California, I don't believe in long distance relationships, and please don't call me babe/baby, I don't know you, have never held a conversation with you so how can you be comfortable calling me your babe? be respectable... I don't have any children and would like for whomever I end up with to be the same way... Its only fair to me due to how I was raised and the choices Ive made in life...I may sound rude and unsettling with a few but I am being honest and am weeding out the b.s. that still seems to be on BP... some of you don't even bother to read a persons personal message before sending a note... I know what I want in my significant other, the main aspects are a caring, honest, goal orientated man and one who can hold his own. So far have not found anyone who is on the same page...If I just read your message, poem, song, etc. and I haven't responded, don't get mad, chances are you didn't catch my attention or there was something you wrote that I did not like or appreciate, understand that I'm not wasting your time by writing back since it will lead nowhere...I stand at a good 5'9"-5'10. Things I like to do? bowling, movies, swimming, chillin at the beach, road trips and anything that makes me smile. No time for games, getting older, looking for a real man who may be looking for the same things...this is how I am, take it or leave it and stay blessed..
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