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Barack Obama is Now America's First Black President!
6:00A.M 11-01-08 Thank you!
My Personal Statement
There are many individuals on Black Planet and on other sites who import dangerous behaviors into their world, consciously or unconsciously, by making personal statements that are very sexual in nature, posting inappropriate photographs of themselves or of others on their page, using very promiscuous screen names, ect. Yet, they are shocked when someone sends them sexually explicit photographs, want to have sex on their first date, or engage in cyber-sex during their first dialogue. Then, there are people on the site who not only show revealing photographs of themselves, but within their gallery of explicit photographs are photos of their innocent children, other family members' children or children of friends/associates. On that same page you're likely to find astonishing statements from them saying,'' I'm looking for a good man or woman, looking for someone to have an intellectual conversation with, I'm not here for sex or I want a person who has a close relationship with his/her deity.These are very confusing messages. Interestingly enough, they are totally amazed when they finally do meet someone from the internet in person and the relationship only lasts a couple of hours, weeks or a few baleful months. (B. Andre)
There's an old saying: if a relationship is based on passion, there had better be something to replace it when the romance is gone.
Our dreams are usually of the lives we have led or a snapshot of the lives we will live. (B.Andre)
What's in a name? That which we call a rose by any other word would smell as sweet.(William Shakespeare) When one's beauty and grace is unquestionable, one can model a burlap sack that covers the entire body, and others would toss and turn throughout a sleepless night - wondering what unseen beauty lies beneath the material. That is called - psychological seduction! (B. Andre) From any of your past experiences, you should be able to draw analogies, metaphors and similes. (B.Andre)
If a person's personal message is peppered with slang, grammatical errors, profanity and semi-nude picture/s - that gives you a clear sense of that person's mentality.
Before you bond with a person romantically, emotionally, financially or sexually, observe that individual's character - in person, not over the phone, internet or any other means of correspondence, other than in person, for no less than six months. In those six months, you should observe their demeanor daily around family, friends and children and any of their overt or covert habits (alcohol/drugs/mental issues/personal hygiene). You should also be able to confirm their history of employment, level of education, finances and past relationships. If he/she really cares for you and wants to be committed to you for life, he/she would not object to a criminal background check / child abuse background check / drug screening test and a negative report of any sexually transmitted diseases. Remember, this only needs to be done once and to be fair and to meet him/her halfway, you will even be willing to pay for the tests! And you also must be able to confirm his/her living arrangements and have the ability to call his/her home/workplace and cell phone at random - not at specific times or on certain days of the week. You should also have knowledge of his/her address and have the ability to go there at night or day unannounced. Also, meet and spend quality time with his/her family members in person and by phone (sometimes his/her parents or siblings can fill in the gray areas of his/her demeanor - without even knowing). When he/she is not presently with you - ask your children, friends, family, co-workers, close neighbors and spiritual leaders for their objective opinions about him/her. if you receive negative remarks from them that share common denominators, use those concerns as possible warnings. Last but not least, make sure that his/her spiritual/religious or non-spiritual/religious beliefs are the same as yours. Go through these measures and it may save you a lifetime of pain and suffering. Sometimes you don't even have to wait more than a week to see their true colors! (B.Andre)
If truth is not one hundred percent - then it's not true.(B.Andre)
Our degree of maturity is usually based on how much insight we obtained from our past negative and positive experiences(B.Andre)
You often find your destiny on the path you take to avoid it. (Hector Elizondo)
If, for whatever foolish reasons, you knowingly decide to date a married man or woman, or knowingly date someone who's in a committed relationship - and that person tells you he/she will leave that relationship to be with you - if they don't leave that relationship within twenty-four hours to be with you - they won't leave it, even in twenty-four years! (B.Andrea)
If he/she has a habit of disappearing for several days at a time, without contacting you and they are not returning any of your calls, there is a great chance that they're getting intoxicated/abusing drugs or having sex with someone during that period and sometimes they are doing all three. When they come back into your presence they are not intoxicated or under the influence of drugs or pressuring you for sex. (B.Andre)
If you don't smoke, make sure that he/she is a non-smoker. If he/she is using a nicotine patch, nicotine gum or a nicotine pill, there's a great chance that they're still smoking when they are not around you.
If he/she is separated from their spouse - in every state of this nation - they are still legally married.
Why? When a mature man has sex with young women,girls and boys - he is called a dirty old man or pedophile. When a mature woman has sex with young men,girls and boys - she is called a cougar or a cougar on the prowl. (B.Andre)
Think about it! If an adult male/female is brazen enough to show explicit sexual pictures of themselves on the Internet - with no concern for whom they may offend by viewing their inappropriate photographs (teenagers, children or individuals of the same gender) that behavior can be a diagnostic criteria for many sexual disorders, such as: Pedophilia(having sex with children). Sexual Masochism (being humiliated, beaten, bound or made to suffer a great deal). Sexual Sadism (the individual derives sexual excitement from the psychological or physical suffering of another individual). Exhibitionism (the individual is aware of a desire to surprise or shock the observer with their explicit sexual photos or other inappropriate acts). All the above can also be listed as sex offenses when those behaviors are forced on an individual. (B.Andre)
If you allow a person to lie to you once - you give them the go ahead to lie to you in the future. If you allow a person to abuse you physically/mentally once - you give them the go ahead to abuse you physically/mentally in the future If you allow a person to be under the influence of drugs/alcohol in your present once - you give them the go ahead to be under the influence of drugs/alcohol in your present in the future If you allow a person to disrespect your spiritual/religious beliefs once - you give them the go ahead to disrespect your spiritual/religious beliefs in the future. If you allow a person to block your goals/dreams once - you give them the go ahead to block your goals/dreams for the future. If you allow a person to restrict you from being with your family or friends once - you give them the go ahead to restrict you from being with your family or friends in the future. If you allow a person to have a sexual affair outside of your relationship once - you give them the go ahead to have a sexual affair outside of your relationship in the future. (B.Andre)
Totally clueless about life When he/she mentions love for their deity and desire for sexual fulfillment in the same sentence or paragraph. * * Be good to yourself. If you don't take care of your body, where will you live? (Kob i Yamada)
Relationship Red Flags If you don't thoroughly screen individuals coming into your life, below are possible things that he/she can bring to you on a silver patter:(Imported Direct Drama / IDD)
Contracted a contagious deadly sexually transmitted disease. Has been in and out of drug treatment programs. Presently/past court ordered to stay away from several of his/her past partners. Presently or has been on probation or parole for (murder, rape or other felonies) Recently released from incarceration or parole for (murder, rape or other felonies) Present/past gambling addiction. He/she has not been divorced for more than a year. Inappropriate photographs of themselves on the internet. He/she lives in another state or must drive more than three hours to be with you. He/she just recently obtained employment. He/she frequently communicates with his/her last partner. He/she has children (adult/minor) involved in street/drug gangs: He/she has medical condition/s that prevents them from working. A large percentage of his/her net pay goes towards child support payments He/she hates police officers/prison guards/lawyers and judges. Past/present history of dealing drugs He/she is ten years or more older/younger than you. Over the age of forty and recently had babies with several different partners. Never read a book. He/she is presently living with someone of the opposite sex, but they have an understanding and sleep in separate rooms Never had long term employment/ no marketable skills Looking for someone to help pay his/her mounting debt . Married/or trying to marry someone to obtain a green card. He/she is still supporting his/her adult child/children who never left the home. Intellectual conversations give him/her headaches and a reason to indulge in drugs. Current criminal warrants have been issued for his/her arrest. He/she is in total denial about his/her troubled child/children criminal activities or horrible demeanor (selling drugs, abusing drugs, having children themselves, in and out of jail, refusing to attend school, disrespecting him/her and other adults) while still living in his/her home Was evicted from apartment/home and presently staying with relatives or friends. His/her only skills are sex,borrowing monies and creating drama. Was accused or convicted of having sex with minor/s or with children. He/she aways avoids meeting your family or friends Presently or has had sexual encounters with the same gender. Has no bank account or credit cards or legal driver's license. History of prostitution/employment in the sex industry. Has been diagnosed as being mentally unstable. Within the last ten years he/she has been with too many individuals sexually to list. Still living with husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfri end/ or just a friend, until the divorce/separation comes through or until they find a place of their own. When you are made aware of any of the above - Run! (B.Andre)
Take in consideration that on this particular site, Black Planet, people are supposed to be from the age range of 45 years and older. So, when someone who's 45, lonely, no education, no marketable skills, never traveled or been on a plane, never read a novel and have nothing to offer a person except sex or nude pictures of themselves - they see themselves reflected in my personal message and become extremely angry at themselves, or angry at the person/s in their past who retarded their growth. Other than talking about sex and what they can do in bed - if you remove those variables from their conversation, there's nothing else they can really talk about. (B.Andre)
There's an old saying, ''you can get away with charm for about ten minutes - after that you better know something!'
The things Love/Sex can't do! You can't love/sex the homosexuality out of a person. You can't love/sex the drug addictive behavior out of a person. You can't love/sex the street behavior out of a person. You can't love/sex the religion out of a person. You can't love/sex the religion into a person. You can't love/sex the promiscuous behavior out of a person. You can't love/sex character into a person. You can't love/sex lack of character out of a person. You can't love/sex maturity into a person. (B.Andre)
A fallacy is sometimes more attractive than a fact. (B.Andre)
Just Plain Old Common Sense If you're into health and fitness, don't date a person who is out of shape/smokes and eats foods that are harmful to his/her health If you have a doctorate and he/she has a G.E.D or lower - there's a great chance that it's not going to be a lasting bond!
Engagements should not be over one year - either you're going to be married or not! (B.Andre)
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If you date/marry someone for their money - you will earn every penny of it - and you still may walk away with nothing.
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If, after taking all the precautions listed above, and then some, you decide to marry, unless he/she has equal to what you have (monies saved, jewelry, home/s, car/s and other valuable assets) - secure your years of finances and material possessions with a clearly written, legal prenuptial agreement - completed by a law firm that specializes in prenuptial agreements! (B.Andre)
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What we pray for and what we're responsible for are two different things. What we're responsible for comes from having insight into our past negative experiences and not allowing them to recur in similar future situations.
People have a tendency to use the word pray; too recklessly. To pray for something is basically saying that we are more or less helpless in a particular situation and need divine intervention to either make it happen, or to make it go away. (B.Andre)
2008 Fastest growing occupation - Tatoo Artist
2014 Fastest growing occupation - Removing Tatoos
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Hoka HeH Meaning: It's a good time/day to die. The Sioux warrior Crazy Horse and other great Indian warriors shouted this while they were riding into combat.
A relationship introduction is much better, when neither was looking for the other.(B.Andre)
* A child's demeanor (negative or positive) is usually a reflection of what is going on in his/her home. (B.Andre) * *
Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, and it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being ''in love'' which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. : Captain Corelli's Mandolin
If you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in the race of life, with confidence you have won even before you have started - Marcus Garvey(1887-1940)
We only pass through this life once - hence, we should make that tour for ourselves as rewarding as possible, while simultaneously learning from all of our past negative choices.
* Another term for the word ''Player/ConMan/ConWoman,'' is a Professional Liar. Basically, my personal statement is just a neo ledger for the lies one may encounter.
A person who reveals one's deviant plan to use or abuse someone is called a Hater (very childish term). If you find the term Hater in a person's personal message, conversation, note/email;or on their page - Run! Astronomy The Sun, which is also a star, is approximately 93 million miles from earth. The next nearest star to earth, Proxima Centauri, also known as Alpha Centauri because it's the brightest star of the constellation Centaurus, lies 4.2 light years away (one light year = 5.88 trillion miles). A light year is the distance that light travels in one year at a speed of 186,000 miles per second. If a space ship left earth at a speed of 150,000 miles an hour - it would take about 17,000 years for that space ship to reach the star Proxima Centauri. Our star, the Sun, and the star Proxima Centauri, are just two of the approxmately 100 billion stars in our Galaxy (the Milky Way). The Milky Way is about 100,000 light years across in diameter and 3000 light years thick. There are three kinds of Galaxies, Sprial, Elliptical and Irregular. The only difference between the three is what shape they are. There are milli-millillions of other galaxies in our universe. Milli-millillion is 1, followed by 3000003 zeros. We are not alone!
Progressive Thinking
The very second a person dies; they lose approximately twenty-one grams of weight. It is believed that the 21 grams of weight is the weight of an individual's soul and that soul races throughout the highways/byways of galaxies and black holes with other souls - since the beginning of time. Those souls then seek out the exact moment of conception - where they become part of sperm masses that race to fertilize an egg. (B.Andre)
For those wanting to be to be my friend, after reading my personal message...
Friends, I have only two. A friend is someone extremely important to me. Those two, whom I do call my friends - are people to whom I would give anything. They were with me before the degrees, before having my company, through the death of siblings and two divorces. They were there for me - even before I truly knew who I was.
That type of friendship is something nurtured over many decades. I am honored by anyone who wants to be my friend, but it is something that I cannot offer indiscriminately. Please understand.
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