I believe black men were made strong for a purpose: to withstand whatever hardship may beset them in a lifetime and being able to bounce back to the top. Especially those who are true to themselves and recognize that they stemmed from kings, queens, warriors, great inventors & survivors. I especially commend those who love, honor, cherish and respect their black women, even after they obtained fame/climbed to the top of the ladder, and take his black sister to stand by his side....
Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, present your requests to God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds to make right choices .
Good Black men are all around us. We pass them on the streets, in the malls and the halls at work. Most we can`t see because we don`t know what a good man really looks like. He usually isn`t flashy enough or rich enough to turn our heads. He might not wear a suit or push a Lexis. . But as you mature, you realize it is better to find somebody who`s got your back rather than someone who turns your head. A good man doesn`t agree whole heartedly with everything you say. He doesn`t tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn`t declare how sensitive, sweet and caring; he won`t because he shows. He has his own opinions and yours may clash, but he doesn`t have to degrade you to prove he is right. He even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same. A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist, he is human with frailties and faults
