secondonly2me IS THE RUMORS TRUE. THE FELLAS SAYS THERE AREN'T ANY GOOD LADIES OUT THERE AND THE LADIES SAY THAT THERE AREN'T ANY GOOD MEN LEFT - November 26, 2011 add/view comments (2)

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DEFINING MOMENT Will you be the one standing on the mountain top in celebration looking down low , or the one in the valley looking up at the climb ahead wishing you had the guts to make that journey. In that moment will you show up or show out. In the heat of the battle will you fall or conquer over all through the blood, sweat, and tears, or will you perserver or cower away if fear. When it in seconds left on the clock, or fourth and inches, bases loaded you are down by three full count can you step up and on your back your team you mount, or will you shun it off with doubt. Are you willing to step up and be the woman/man, or just sitting at the end of the bench cheering on was your plan. When the road you travel all seems uphill,can you be like the little engine that could with undying will. Will you fold and say f... it when nothing is going your way, or will you drop to your knees and say unto you Lord I pray. When your opponent has put in all his chips with a big grin, Can you call his bluff with confidence and say I'm all in. When life hits you over and over again knocking you down, can you get up and look life in the eye with a smile and say I didn't hear no bell let's go one more round. Anybody can turn tail and run it takes a hell of a person to face it and stare it down like looking down the barrel of a gun. Whether to tell it in a lie or let it all be true, Which you will show up when you have your chance to stand in the DEFINING MOMENT.

If you ain't got at least one person in this world hating on you, you ain't doing something right.

I`m A work-n-progress.


Good Day to all who grace my little spot in the universe on the Black Planet. I fall in from the boot state known as Louisiana. Residing in the redstick city known as Baton Rouge. This is where I call home. A little about me

I stand between 6`-3" and 6'4 i have a little around the waist but I'm working on that.(I try to work out three to five times a week. I have brown eyes, medium brown colored skin, short black wavy hair. I have no tattooes at this time. I don`t drink, smoke, do drugs, run the streets chase skirt tales,etc. I`m not a player, pimp, womanizer, game runner. Because I`m a true believer in what goes around comes around.
I`m true to my word. Cause all I was given from day one is my B...s and my word and I don`t break them for no one. So when I speak it`s from the heart and it`s the truth so you can take heed to it like you would the law. Life is to short to waste precious time on lies, deceit, deception, and false pretences. I finished school in `94 and have some college under my belt. Playtime is over. I picked up a trade and now work in the construction business. I`m not a lazy man. I`ve been employed every since I left high school.

A few things I like in people real people
upfront people(even if it hurts tell me)
unselfish people
funny people
outgoing people
people that you just feel good being around good willed people People who are about it and be about it A few dislikes liars(hate 'em with a passion) fake people
self centered people
thieves
backstabbers
haters
lazy people
cheaters
people who take advantage of
others
people who talk about but ain't about it. A few things a person probably not like about me. I`m a little to passive(i have a tendency to let people walk over me from time to time)
I have a sinus problem
I`m not a big talker(better listener)
I tend to be a lil boring from time to time( I like to get out and do things to have something to chat about).
I`m to laid back


I`m a easy going person until you rub me the wrong way. I'm the type of person who would go out of my way to make people happy. I`m a spur of the moment type of person. I like to see people laugh and enjoy themselves. I`m out going, respectful, honest. (as long as you are with me). I'm trustworthy, passionate, loving( love kissing on a lady with big juicy lips). I love Basketball, football, and baseball, traveling, quiet time at home, reading, writing, cuddling next to a warm lady watching a movie, eating out, sitting on the levee watching ships go by, or sitting by the lake feeding the ducks and birds. I have that old school love mentallity. Flowers, candy, door opening, candle lite bubble baths and massage type of person(mom once told me that if you romance a woman mentally and emotionally first it`ll intensify when the relationship reaches a sexual level). I give all of me to who chooses to be with me and will except nothing less. Because I have a lot to offer. I`m a person with a dollar and a dream. And I hope the next lady that stands at my side has 50 cents and ambition.

It seems to me that these days everybody is in search of something these days. Whether it being God`s blessings, money, friends, companionship, sex, materialistic things, a soulmate, or happiness in onself or in a relationship. I truely believe you must have several things for Happiness to exist in your life as well as a relationship:

H appiness @ self satisfaction in one self emotionally and spiritually
(you can change your physical and financial status

A ware of who you are and what grounds you stand, what you can give, tolerate, and bring to the table.

P erserverence and patience to lead and guide you through the good and bad time and also changes you`ll go through.

P ersuing a greater level of satisfaction in your self and your significant other.

I ncorporate and invest part of yourself in each other

N ever settle or except nothing less than what you give or expect from & out of your mate( life is to short @ precious to deal with or put up with foolishnss).

E ntrust in the LORD first and foremost because if your mate here on earth doesn`t work out or he violates your trust you will have lost nothing. You can entrust in Jesus when you can't your ownself

S peak to & Seek out each other & oneself on a daily basis. Without an open line of communication your realationship/marriage/bond is destined to fail. There is nothing you should fell like you can`t discuss with your partner/mate.

Simplicity you should have because true love comes easy. Although the road to get you there seems broken, rocky, and full of detours but the love part should come easy.

If you don`t have happiness within yourself and don't possess it how can you seek it in someone else and or give it to someone else.

Giving respect where much respect is due. First I`ll Like to give props to all the single MOTHERS out there(I don`t mean ladies with kids). The ones that`s grinding day in and day out to make it without the help of the one their partner(your kids will thank you that much more later in life). Remember that you`ll always have a MAN in JESUS CHRIST.
Much respect and props given.

Second I`d like to give much respect for the MEN out there that are out there with their woman/Wife doing their part to make sure their kids don`t fall victim to Generation X. Men that are not just in the household just to be there and pay bills. I`m talking about the real fathers out there helping in the raising and up bringing of their sons and daughters.

By da side every good MAN there is a HELL of a WOMAN and vise versa. I believe that a WOMAN is the greastest aspect of a MAN.

Danzel Washington and his wife
Bill Clinton and his wife
Martin Luther King and his wife
My Dad and my Mother
Bill Cosby and his wife

A WOMAN can make or break a MAN and vise versa(a lot of men will probably disagree on this one).

Adam and Eve
Sampson and Delilah
Bill Clinton and Monica

I`ll once again give props to those who stand by their mate/spouse and make them a better person through and through.
I know that 95% of the fellas out there is not going to agree with the next statement but after you sit and think for a minute it is true.

We(men) Came from a Woman
Get our name from a Woman
And therefore most of us get our Game from a woman.

I said that to say I don`t think that it`s a trick, or game that can be ran on a true woman and she doesn`t know about it. I think that when God laid us to sleep and went in our side and took that one rib to make woman it took a great deal of attributes from us. Such as dealing with pain, stress,compassion,longevity,pa tience, love, and having a true sixth sense.

Something for my sistas and women out there. There`s nothing more precious I believe than the female body. Don`t give me wrong I love the female body and really can`t get enough of it. But ladies your body is a God given temple. Respect truely starts at home. If you look in the mirror before you leave out of the house and you have more of you exposed than what you have covered up you are attracting the wrong kind of attention. And I don't think that A woman wants that negative staring. I don't think that that is what you seek. I`m not saying no one has the right disrepect you because of what you have on. But If you half your breast out and half of your bottom out don't be surprised if the N....as disrespect you. Think about it if you attract a man first of all from showing him what you have to offer physically that`s the wrong jump off. Make that emotional, mental, and spirtual connection first. If you got him like that, you don`t think for one second that if he sees another chick/lady/woman walk around like that he won`t jump and run after her like a dog after a steak. There is a difference between sexy and what some people would call %#&@$!t...h
Someone ask me what do I look for in a lady. Hmmmm? I would look for a lady that matches what and who I am? I look to see if she is down for me. If I fall she`s got my back. One who`ll build me up to the highest of the high. One who will tend to home and me prior to the phone and other people`s business. I`m not saying I`m not looking for a woman to take care of me cause like I said I`m far from lazy. A woman who truely listens and is concerned with things her man likes and is into. One who is open minded and make her man feels like he is a king. And for all these things she does for me she can expect all those things and this from me. I`ll love her like no man other has love her other than our Lord God and Savior Jesus christ. I`ll send my life trying to make sure every day she his here she has a smile on her face or is happy or I`ll die trying to make all her dreams and wishes come to pass.


If I had to choose body wise she`d be built like a brick house.
Thick in the mind, soul, chest, bottoms and so forth. I love thick women for some reason. But really in doesn`t matter as long as the connection is there emotionally and spiritually.

Stress can be a beautiful thing is this aspect weight lifting and training. It can build muscle and endurance.In some pepole if put under stress can perform at their best. I think that those are to only two good things/ situations that comes from stress. Negative stress like from work, a mate, finances can wreak havoc on the body mind and soul. It can brings on high blood pressure, diabeties, weight gain/loss, sickness, insomnia, apenia, loss of sexual drive, depression, mental problems. Negative stress just don't deal with it at all. Life is to short for stress. It can literally kill you. Trust me I know. I have been to the edge. You don't want to go there. If it wasn't for the Lord God himself my friend I meet and this site, I would be dead or in the nut house. I believe that you either lead by example or fail by following. There is not sitiation to grim or to bad that we can`t get out off. We are the outcome and choices in which we have made in life. If you are unhappy with what`s going with you or things in your life it`s up to the person in the mirror to rise up and make a change for the better even if it requires you to take drastic measures to improve your situation. You along with the help of the LORD can conquer anything for all things are possible through him @ nothing is possible without him. We are the controllers of our destiny in this world of only the strong survive and anybody tell you different is a lie.
Leave your graces on the G-BOOK.
I`ll get through with this page eventually.

What makes a man a man.
Is it the things in which he has obtained. Is it the things in which he has achieved.Is it his status in man`s eye. Is it the amount of money that he has or the amount of women he has slept with. Is it the kind of car that he drives or the house that he lives in. Is it his ability to spit game or drop a dolla. Is it his ability to please a woman or people in general. Thoes are some interesting Questions.
A man is made just that by lifes trails and tribulations. He takes those trails and tribulations and uses them as stepping stones to become greater as a person to excel to higher levels. I believe that man's character makes him a man
Any idiot can screw, make love, or have sex. But will he be there when the sun rises,when there are littles ones made, to hold you tight, or to comfort you to let you know that things will be alright. Or can he be there to help raise and nuture his offspring. A man knows when to be firm and when to be soft. Knows how to romance a woman both mentally and sexually. he knows how to stand fast and handle his with out backing down or running from responsibilities. He knows and loves God and knows that Jesus died on the cross for him and rose on the third day for those who believe and accept him. A man is just that a man. Mighty, Astonding, and Nimble. He confident in who he is and where he is going.
Holla back to give insight both men and women. If anybody think I`m wrong I`m open to opinions and thoughts into changing the words on my spot A lot of people judge success by the amount of money a person has, his or her statue in the eye of the public, things in which she/ he has accomplished or obtained in life. I believe success will come when others and I can stand before God on the day or judgement and here him say welcome home my child you may enter my kingdom I have a place for you here. All other success is pointless