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seriouslynoseriously

@seriouslynoseriously

A Balanced life is the key to a happy life!

A Balanced life is the key to a happy life!

Blackplanet logoSince 2016

Farmingville

915 followers

127 following

1.1k posts


I love me no matter what hair color I'm sporting!

I love me no matter what hair color I'm sporting!

GROWN FOLK EATING~Went to brunch with my friend of 30-plus yrs! Now I'm ready for a nap LOL

GROWN FOLK EATING~Went to brunch with my friend of 30-plus yrs! Now I'm ready for a nap LOL

So for those who hasn't realized but this is my back up account if I get locked out of my other account. This was my only account until I got locked out and had to create a new one. I do periodically check this one because I noticed some ppl was still liking and posting comments on posts on this page.

So for those who hasn't realized but this is my back up account if I get locked out of my other account. This was my only account until I got locked out and had to create a new one. I do periodically check this one because I noticed some ppl was still liking and posting comments on posts on this page.

This was so hilarious to me! Team Aries

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This was so hilarious to me! Team Aries

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GROWN FOLK TRAUMA~ So am I wrong~ Met a dude on one of my SM sites, he approached me wanting to get to know me. So we swap numbers after chatting online for a few. Vibe is good on both sides. We text & talk regularly. So I get a missed call & a text “wassup stranger” 👀👀 I give ppl the same energy they give me, that said I was the last one to text after a call. So naturally I assume they would hit me up when they seen the text, when they thought about me or had something to say~correct assumption right? So when they didn't text or call I assumed they're busy or one of the previous situations. So when I got the whole stranger thing, I'm thinking you pursued me so you should be initiating most of the interactions until we get to that space of it doesn't matter. So am I wrong in thinking this way?

GROWN FOLK TRAUMA~ So am I wrong~ Met a dude on one of my SM sites, he approached me wanting to get to know me. So we swap numbers after chatting online for a few. Vibe is good on both sides. We text & talk regularly. So I get a missed call & a text “wassup stranger” 👀👀 I give ppl the same energy they give me, that said I was the last one to text after a call. So naturally I assume they would hit me up when they seen the text, when they thought about me or had something to say~correct assumption right? So when they didn't text or call I assumed they're busy or one of the previous situations. So when I got the whole stranger thing, I'm thinking you pursued me so you should be initiating most of the interactions until we get to that space of it doesn't matter. So am I wrong in thinking this way?

GRWN FOLK TALK~ Our first snow

GRWN FOLK TALK~ Our first snow

GROWN FOLK TALK~ my surfing on point! Hope this helps someone!
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GROWN FOLK TALK~ my surfing on point! Hope this helps someone!
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GROWN FOLK TALK~Can I quietly leave this here?😅😅

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GROWN FOLK TALK~Can I quietly leave this here?😅😅

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July's Very Own on TikTok

GROWN FOLK TALK~🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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GROWN FOLK TALK~🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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GROWN FOLK THOUGHTS~ You see well I see a lot of ppl prepping themselves to be their best selves not only for themselves but for a relationship. whether marriage, lifelong partners or lifelong casual dating. Or even lifelong solitude with occasional “friends”. (But we're talking relationships today!😅 LOL) On this journey does one stop to think are they really ready to stick it out with one person? we tell ourselves, that when this happens I will be ready. But is that true or do you subconsciously keep moving the goal post? You say that you're open to it but only when the right one comes along~but are you really? For the other folks who want to casual date for a lifetime or be single for a lifetime, why? Why did you make the decision to cut yourself off having a relationship? I don't want to hear because I love my peace~all your relationships were not trash from beginning to end! Let's talk about it Fam.

GROWN FOLK THOUGHTS~ You see well I see a lot of ppl prepping themselves to be their best selves not only for themselves but for a relationship. whether marriage, lifelong partners or lifelong casual dating. Or even lifelong solitude with occasional “friends”. (But we're talking relationships today!😅 LOL) On this journey does one stop to think are they really ready to stick it out with one person? we tell ourselves, that when this happens I will be ready. But is that true or do you subconsciously keep moving the goal post? You say that you're open to it but only when the right one comes along~but are you really? For the other folks who want to casual date for a lifetime or be single for a lifetime, why? Why did you make the decision to cut yourself off having a relationship? I don't want to hear because I love my peace~all your relationships were not trash from beginning to end! Let's talk about it Fam.