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I'm 4'-11" tall, some call me thick, I have short - med length hair, and two kids. Yes, I come with a package. Their ages are 9 and 10. And I like to think I have minimal babydaddy drama if any. I have many faces: first and foremost I am mother at all times, I can be a friend to lean on, I can be your support group (just don't take advantage of the situation cause a sista will get ugly), I can be your friendly ear, I can be one of the fellas, I can be your best friend, I can even be just a friendly ear. I like to think I am the poem below:
Only A Woman of Color
ONLY A WOMAN OF COLOR Can work full time while finishing school, raising respectful and intelligent children, be active in the PTA, be the pastor's secretary, and the choir president and a make it all seem effortless.
ONLY A WOMAN OF COLOR Can make a $1.00 out of 15 Cents
ONLY A WOMAN OF COLOR Can go from the boardroom to the 'hood and "keep it real" in both places.
ONLY A WOMAN OF COLOR Can slap the taste out of your mouth.
ONLY A WOMAN OF COLOR Can live below poverty level and yet set fashion trends.
ONLY A WOMAN OF COLOR Can fight two struggles everyday and make it look easy.
ONLY A WOMAN OF COLOR Can make a child happy on Christmas Day even if he didn't get a darn thing.
ONLY A WOMAN OF COLOR Can be 75 years old and look 45!
ONLY A WOMAN OF COLOR Can make other women want to pay plastic surgeons top $$$ for physical features she was already born with.
ONLY A WOMAN OF COLOR Can be the mother of civilization.
Yep that's me!! (LOL). I think another important thing that you should know about me is that I don't know how to do anything half way. I have goals and I am slowly re-evaluating those goals and moving towards them at my own pace.
Enough about me lets get to what I'm looking for. What I look for in a guy? I look to see how he treats his mother or is sisters. I believe how you treat the women in your life is a peek to how you will treat your woman. I look for him to bring to the table what I bring at the least and that is ambition, drive, sincerity, and honesty. Some MUST haves are: a JOB, his own crib (not his own room in his peeps house with a separate entrance), and his own ride. I don't always want to be the one driving and if we stay in we will not always be at my spot. If we go out on a date do I expect you to pay? On the first date yes, I do after that we can establish how thing will go from there. I have no problem with paying for a date. If you want to go dutch that is okay too. Just don't expect a sista to pay for everything all the time!! And I won't expect the same from you.
Yours truely,
Sexy
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