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I thought to up date my profile. Well this is 2009 a New Year and a new begging for me, to start out about me. I am a man up in age, and yes I am a man. I need to lose a couple of Lb and inches and I am working on that. I am not tall dark and Handsome, and I Know that is the Kind of man most woman are looking for. But i am Handsome, not as Handsome as you think I should be, But I am, and I know how to Love and respect my woman. My Job is to Love her, respect her and tread her like the most importation person in my life other then God. I do want that special person in my life, that I can Love and share my life with, I have a couple of goals this Year and that is one of them. it has been said that there are not any good black men out their. I don't believe that is a true statement because when their is a good black man out their like myself who has had an job of 23 Years a car and doing something with his life and want a good woman it seem as if all the woman will pass me by as if i was invisible, or if i had two heads or something or if i had something on my face or they look at me as if that black man doesn't make enought money for me or they wiil find every reason why they don't want to be with that man and that is a shame. I have some female friends but that's waht they are to me friends. I want someone more then just a friend! Someone I can hold, kiss and do things with that i can't do with my friends. So don't Judge me befor you get to know me.
These are my belief and what i am hoping to find in my life this year. A woman who will respect me as her friend, her Man and Lover, what ever we are to each other, it is what it is, I don't need no B.S. in my life. I am a good person with a big heart; I do have a good Job and work very hard for the things i want, i have not dated for a while and I would like to go out to Dinner and a Drink, maybe to a movie or we just can go and hang out. I want to start out by saying no man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry. and when i say I Love you not because of who you are, but because of who i am when i am with you. to the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world. and never frown, even when you are said, because you never know who is falling in Love with your smile. and don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
I'm hoping that someone might find the truth in thase words, (1) (hurt) hurt is a wword that many people do and don't care who they do it to, the word hurt is harmful,ugly, repulsive and trouble. so why associate yourself with this word (hurt). (2) (Love) Love is a word that everyone has used one time or other, the word Love give you Laughter, optimism, victory and encouragement. and most of all you live longer when you Love other as God Loved us.
Live life to the fullest and marry a man/woman you Love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other. when you say, "I Love You,' mean it. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' Look the person in the eye. Believe in Love at first sight. in disagreement, fight fairly. No name calling. Remember that great Love and great achiements involve great risk. Remember the three R'S: Respect for self; Respect for other; and Responsibility for all your actions.
for all who knows don't let the devil leave his bags? For years I let him leave his bags. and now I learn that when you get out of a bad reationship because it was bad, but still resentful and angry (you let the devil leave his bags). you said, I forgive you, but you seem to forget and have peace with that person, (you let the devil leave his bags). you told your unequally yoked mate that it was over, but you still continue to call, (you let the devil leave his bags). you broke off your relationship with that hurtful, abusive person, but you are suspicious and distrusting of every new person you meet. (you let the devil leave his bags). you secided to let go of the past hurt from growing up in an unstable environment, yet you believe you are unworthy of Love from others and you refuse to get attached to anyone. (you let the devil leav his bags). when you put the devil out, Please make sure he taks his bags!
the last thing i would like to say is the needs of a woman! Her need for personal affirmation/appreciation. He praises her for personal attributes and qualities. he extols her virtues as a girlfriend, wife, mother, and homemaker. He openly commends her, in the presence of other, as a marvelous mate, friend, Lover, and companion. She fells that to him no one is more important in the world. (Proverbs 31:28-29, Song of Solmon 4:1-7, 7:1-9)
Her need for personal affection. (Romance). He showers her with timely and generous displays of affection. He also tells her how much he cares for her with a steadfast flow of words,cards,flowers,gifts, and common courtiers. Remember: affection is the environment in witch sexual union us enjoyed and a wouderful marriage develops.
Her need for intimate conversation. He talks with her at the feeling leave (heart to heart). He listens to her thoughts (i.e. her heart) about the events of her day with sensitivity, interest, and concern. Conversations with her convey a desire to understand her, not to change her. (Song of Solomon 2:8-14, 8:13-14, I Peter 3:7
last but not least I would like to say is when you give someone your time you are giving them a part of your life you can't every get back, so when you give your time to someone make sure it is someone who cars about you and respect you, and don'y waste your time on anyone who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
so I guess I can say that i am looking for some good woman to spend my time with, someone who Love life and want to make the best of it. take care and God bless.
P.S. Looking for a good woman!
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