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Why Love Is So Hard to Keep Love is so hard to keep because one cannot keep and maintain something that grows with each passing day. I have learned that love must be shared not loitered. I also believe the real answer lies in what a person considers love to be. The reason why love is so hard to keep, is simple. Love is a constantly changing, always evolving entity, manifested by the moment. Each day, love takes on a new form, and that same love is never repeated, only complimented. I learned that love is something that changes daily, and with each passing day, we must appreciate the newly-found reasons for being in love, not expect to relive what was. When we cling onto the things such as these, we begin to hear negative dialogue such as; "You don't do (fill-in-the-blank) any more....." We can never love the same as we did yesterday, nor should we try. We can never make love, exactly the same way we did before. Each day, we must appreciate what defines our love, and realize that development gives way to change. In the quiet moments of my room, sitting down thinking about life; thinking about love; thinking about plans, is when I understood "Why love is so hard to keep."