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I`m Henry, for those that don`t know me. My picture will be back soon too! Just give a little time to figure all this new stuff out. I`m looking for good friends! I Don`t trust a lot people! It dosen`t matter anyway, it`s how I conduct myself around others that matter. Maybe we all need to go through a period when everything wrong seems to be right. It`ll take something or someone to help you understand what it is that you`re going threw. What I`m trying to say is seek help from GOD first! Before you do something you`ll regret later! I only hope I was on time. Trying to raise two kids on my own is not easy. I thought that all I have to do is feed and clothes them. I was wrong! You got to protect, teach, and listen in order to understand what they are going through. My father past away when I was little. I had no male role model in my life but my mother. She taught me the value of a strong black woman and to put your family first. Now I know what I got to do, that is to STAND UP A BE MAN! I thought life was easier as you get older? This midlife crissis stuff is for real. I didn't believe the hype until it hit me. As a father, raising two kids by myself is hard. Two teenagers, one wants to be 21 and want everything to go her way! I'm not for looking love, I want endless friendship, the kind without sex involve, but if it happen it happen we all got needs. Like money, sex is a root to all greed. It seem to take over your thoughts and your ability to live a normal life. Its like being addicted. There's something about being in love, that seem to be wrong. If it just you in love with the other person that you thought or they seem be to in love with you, but deep inside you the feeling isn't right. You can ask the question all you want, it the same answer yes I love you too! But why do I feel this way? I tried to convince myself that maybe it me. All I wanted was for someone to love me back! I'm not a PLAYER! It just seem that way from other people perspective. If you don't truly know that person and the things that is going on in and around that person live, stop to ask! If I feel like talking, I'll tell you! A player is someone looking to get something in return, if you ask me. Thinking they all that! Deep down inside they know they are lonely. But put on an act so you think they are the coolest and the smoothest. Players cry, players cry alone! Wondering when they are going to stop and settle down. By that time they might have three, four maybe six kids all by different ladies. Going on The Maury Show saying that not mines! Until the results are read SHUT UP! You are not only hurting the mother but the child as well. Hearing their daddy saying all those things about their mother. You must had to liked her before you laid down with her, even if it was an one night stand! Those kids didn't ask to come here and yet alone to some bull%#&@$!! Come on now, STAND UP AND BE A MAN AND A FATHER! recent blog postsFriendship!Posted
I been a member here for 10 years now. I thought making friends would be easier to share my thoughts with or just saying "Hello,How are you doing!" But instead it gotten difficult! It seem like people are trying to get members points by adding you as a friend or to come see their other sites or webcam! I don't care about member points or other sites! The Blackplanet started with a good ideal, for blacks people to enjoy and learn from one another! Now it's about how you look and what... (continue reading) |
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