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Whenever I make the time to post a blog to this site, I sit and let the events of the world marinate in my mind to find material. I try not to get heavy or condemn anyone for something that is personal to them, i try to keep these things to the things that are isolated to me and my world as not to offend anyone. In that marinating process, an old evil arises. I have ignored it for a long time, but recently it has been so pervasive to 'The Planet' that I can no longer ignore it or brush... (continue reading)

Coming from a pre-cellphone, pre-internet generation, adapting to the times takes some getting used to. I was taught the game and developed my own spin based on human interaction, ie if you smiled and she smiled back ... or how she said yes when you asked her to dance. There were times when a intimate connection was made while the long version of Prince's <i> International Lover </i> and sustained through a rooty tooty fresh and fruity at IHOP before even getting a last... (continue reading)

As a single dude at 40 plus, I am very particular. I know what I want and what I will settle for, but when I settle let it be understood that it is not necessarily what I want and if such a thing comes along I may pursue. I have gotten critisized for this attitude. Some have called me shallow, others have said it was my insecurity that drove such actions. I say that I am pass a point to accept what I may not be totally happy with - and I am good with it.

I recognize that as... (continue reading)