swtvanillaboo Dont ask for something good if u cant give something good in return! - January 11 add/view comments (0) |
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First of all...NO messages from Ghana, Nigeria ect. men that pretending to be in the US, Germany ect. Please stop your scaming!!! I dont have time for senseless fantasies nor childish games...I am not on here searching for something I might be missing offline. I am here to chat, I have no desire to entertain you. If u dont have quality manners n respect dont even contact me. I do not want to chat about sex nor ur di*k size, i do not want u to call me or asking me to call u so we can talk about ur "skills" in bed. Chances are if u need to talk about sex on here...u should log off immediately and go purchase some pu** y!? Im a loyal n laid back kinda woman n i know very well what i want in life n im not willing to go for less anymore. im on here to meet real,str8 up n down to earth kinda peeps...im simply sick n tired of dealin with yall fakers out there that "think" they know what they want in life but actually dont have a clue. so respect me for that n u will get da same respect in return...always! Trust must be earned not given! Never allow someone to be your priority,while allowing yourself to be their option. i date black men only cause im attracted to them not because i feel a need to fit in anywhere! Someday my black king will come he just took a wrong turn, got lost, and is to stubborn to ask for directions. not interested in Mr.RightNow! no need for another macho on a ego trip with lame excuses. im not on here to get chased by anyone nor to chase anyone. IF A MAN WANTS U Pt.1: nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.The only person you can control in a relationship is you.Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. IF A MAN WANTS U Pt.2: Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. IF A MAN WANTS U Pt.3: Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Please don't send me an "friend" reques t if you have not even sent me a note first n had some communication with me! |
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