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so you say you want a good man ;and when it comes to finding one you wont.because when it comes to really wanting one ladiesyou dont. you say you won't a good man one that will always give you hugs.But everytime i turn around to embrace you you're always chasing after the thugs. But you always seem to say you want a good man but youre always doing the things to chase him off.So what do you really want that good man you are waiting for are that thug you cant seem to live without. Because lord knows i am a good man..........Good men are all around u yall pass us on the streets in the mall and even at work.Most of you cant see us cause you dont know what a good man looks like were not flashy enough or rich enough to turn your head.We dont wear suits,or drive a lexus.we might not have a body like Tyson and a face like Denzel.But as you mature you will realize its better to find someone who's got your back rather than someone who can turn your head.......................... .............A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist.We are human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of our wonderful strong attributes. we needyour love and respect we to feel that you live each day to catch us doing something so you can declare AHA!! i knew you was a dog. A good black man doesnt necessarily have to give you a huge birthday or valentine gift.Cause we show our love in ways that are comfortable to us. dont judge us by tv standards no one is really living a fairy tale youll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth that we are no good its simply not true.A good black man doesnt agree wholeheartedly with everything you say.We just dont tell you what you wanna hear and do opposite.We dont declare how sensitive,sweet,caring,sincere we are (WE WONT HAVE TOO BECAUSE IT WILL SHOW).We have our own opinions and we may clash but we wont degrade you to prove were right.We even admits at times when we are wrongespeciallu if youre willing to the same.......................... .......... oh yeah the football players at the bottom of the page are my nephews look for them in the league in about 3 yrs the other two is yours truly the other is my little brother tricky t {rest in peace bro} i love you and miss you 02-01-72 to 1-28-07 thanks for stopping by and may god bless you Vince .............................. .............................. .............................. .............................. ......................( BOYS VS. MEN) A BOY IMITATES OTHERS ALWAYS TRYING TO BE "BOSS" MEN POSSESS THE ABILITY,TO FEEL A WOMANS TRUE DESIRE.A BOY LOOKS AT YOUR BODY FIRST,WHEN A MAN CAN SEE YOUR INNER SOUL....HE KNOWS YOU HAVE SO MUCH TO OFFER,AND WITH YOU HE FEELS HE CAN GROW.A BOY WILL ASK YOU TO SPEND THE NIGHT;BUT A MAN WANTS TO FULFILL YOUR EVERY NEED.A BOY HUNTS FOR A "LITTLE PIECE" WHILE A MAN YEARNS FOR A SOULMATE.A BOY WILL LEAVE YOU FEELING INSECURE,WHILE YOU WONDER WHERE HE IS:BUT WITH A MAN YOU'RE ALWAYS REASSURED BECAUSE A MAN TAKE CARE OF HIS........................... .............................. .............................. .............................. .......... [ LOVE IS SIMPLE-WE MAKE IT HARD WITH OUR TRAPPING.WE MAKE LOVE DIFFICULT,PAINFUL,HURTFUL,AND REGRETTABLE,BECAUSE WE KEEP TRYING TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO DO LOVE RIGHT.IN ORDER TO DO AND GET WHAT WE THINK IS THE RIGHT KIND OF LOVE, WE PLACE DEMANDS,RESTRICTIONS AND CONDITIONS ON OUR LOVING AND THOSE WE SAY WE LOVE.SOMETIMES IT WORKS USUALLY IT DOESNT AND WHEN WE GET HURT.WE BLAME LOVE.LOVE DOESNT HURT FLLING INTO THE TRAPS WE SET FOR LOVE,MAKES US HURT OURSELVES.BECAUSE LOVE JUST IS -IT IS THE EXPERIENCE OF JOY WE HAVE WHEN WE HAVE THE COURAGE TO TELL THE TRUTH,BE EXACTLY WHO WE ARE AND ALLOW THOSE WE LOVE TO DO THE SAME.LOVE IS NOT WHAT YOC'VE BEEN TOLD WHAT YOU'VE HEARD IN THE STORIES OR SEEN IN PICTURES .LOVE IS NOT A TOOL OR WEAPON;LOVE IS THE KEY.IT IS THE KEY THAT ALLOWS YOU TO SEE MORE IN YOURSELF AND ABOUT YOURSELF THAN YOU DARE TO SHOW TO THE WORLD.LOVE IS SIMPLE YOU SIMPLY GIVE LOVE OR YOU DONT YOU SIMPLY KNOW LOVE OR YOU DONT YOU SIMPLY GIVE LOVE OR YOU CONTINUE TO FALL INTO THE TRAPS THAT MAKE YOU HURT YOUSELF BECAUSE YOU DONT ACKNOWLEDGE YOURSELF AS THE LOVE THAT YOU REALLY ARE .

WHEN WHEN I ACT SHY -SAY SOMETHING TO MAKE ME LAUGH WHEN I WALK AWAY FROM YOU - FOLLOW ME WHEN I PUT MY FACE NEAR YOURS - KISS ME WHEN I SAY DON'T TOUCH ME - HOLD ME TIGHT WHEN I AM SILENT - I'M PRAYING YOU WON'T HURT ME LIKE THE OTHERS, SO DON'T WHEN I IGNORE YOU - I WANT ALL OF YOUR ATTENTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!! WHEN I PULL AWAY - GRAB ME BY THE WAIST AND DON'T LET GO WHEN YOU SEE ME AT MY WORST - TELL ME I'M BEAUTIFUL! WHEN I SCREAM AT YOU - TELL ME YOU LOVE ME AND MEAN IT WHEN YOU SEE ME WALKING -SNEAK UP BEHIND ME AND KISS THE BACK OF MY NECK WHEN I AM AFRAID -HOLD ME AND TELL ME EVERYTHING WILL BE OK BECAUSE I'M WITH YOU WHEN I LOOK LIKE SOMETHING IS WRONG - KISS ME AND TELL ME NOT TO WORRY WHEN I HOLD YOUR HAND - PLAY WITH MY FINGERS IF A MAN WANTS YOU If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then HELL NO, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you are always readily available to him he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, GO FIGURE.