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    thaslett

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  • Member Since:

    June 22, 2004

  • Real Name::

    Tim Haslett

  • Sex:

    Male

  • Dating Preference:

    Female

  • Age:

    46

  • Relationship Status:

    Single

  • Education:

    Doctorate

  • Primary Job:

    Education, Training, and Library

  • Location:

    Detroit, MI

  • Race:

    White

  • Ethnicity:

    British

  • Zodiac:

    Pisces


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You might rightfully wonder what is he doing on BlackPlanet.com? (joined in '04, actually spent time since Sep. 07) I wouldn't go to a Black church social or hang around in a Black barbershop, salon, or beautician. There are two principal reasons. The first is that I have grown up and gone to school in majority Black settings, in the US & UK, through high school. I have then worked and socialized with Black folks for longer than I can remember. To be frankl, I feel more comfortable around most Black folks. I have also been dedicated to total Black liberation for many years and my education in Black history and culture began when I was in high school in the UK (there, the high schools teach a *lot* of black history!) then getting a BA in Black Studies and am now getting a Ph.D. in the same field. I am a very active in the Black Reparations movement, and a member of N'COBRA. I teach classes for whites on the evil of white supremacy and how whites can understand their own white privilege and begin to unlearn it. I am also an active anti-racist, anti-white supremacist and anti-homophobia activist.


I am an active, freelance music journalist and critical writer; as well as writing erotica. With regard to reading, another of my passions, I read a lot of Black feminism, womanism, critical race theory, and Afrocentric scholars.

Another reason I am here is that I find the Eurocentric model of so-called 'beauty' to be totally unacceptable. I feel that the West African concept of beauty is the truer one. A Black Woman must be respected by all and treated with dignity, never be insulted, abused, or degraded--and not viewed as a mere sexual object. I understand that some will consider this to be akin to "jungle fever". As a white man, it is not for me to judge Black peoples' various opinions about that.


I am very much hoping to meet and connect with politically like-minded folks who I otherwise might not meet, and in general meet people and broaden my social world.

 

I am NOT here for the following reasons (these are all heard or overheard and said by white men & women):

"I love Black music. Black people are cool. If I join, I can be down with the sistas and brothas, dude"


"I wanna hook-up with a hip-hop honey like the ones in Ludacris videos."


"I've always wanted to try being with a Black chick, just to see what they're like."


"Nowadays, it doesn't make any difference if you're white or black, not like with segregation"


"Black women have it made now, with affirmative action, they can do anything they want."


"I know a black woman and I just wanted to touch her hair, but she was offended. It's no big deal, what's her problem?"

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Posted December 11, 2007


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Kharma1976
Kharma1976

Female, Age Private, Upper Marlboro, MD

Posted November 13, 2007


Thanks for the add!


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Posted October 17, 2007






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Posted October 17, 2007



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Posted October 14, 2007


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