they_b_like_dam Feelin Real Good... Ready to chill - March 21, 2009 add/view comments (0)

The first thing you must understand. Theres no easy way to love a man. You've got to figure him out. Learn what he's about. And know hes someone you can't live without.

Then kill him with kindness. Shower him with sweetness. But never let him mistake your kindness for weakness.

 It's hard for him to give himself to you. So be appreciative of the little things he tries to do. Let him know he can confide in you. And in return he wont have to hide things from you.

So be supportive. Be his friend not his foe. When he makes mistakes dont say I told you so. Be understanding not demanding. Let him unwind. He faces the world of rain. So be his sunshine.

 Dont get too cozy in the comfort zone. Hell take you for granted and youll end up alone.

Keep love exciting and new. Go the extra mile. Keep finding new ways to make him smile.

Remember to be sexy without a doubt. He wants to be proud when he takes you out. Dont let yourself go. Dont forget about you. Love yourself and he will love you too.

 Dont smother the man let him breathe. The tighter you hold on the faster he will leave. And when you love him, Love him all the way down! Dont be afraid to explore him pound for pound.

If you dont give him what he needs to feel, I guarantee that someone else will. Be honest, Be patient, and Demand Respect. And a wonderful man is what you will get.

Show him your pride. Stand by his side. Let God be your guide and love will abide! Because no man is worth your tears and the only one that is, will never make you cry. But for love, hes wortha try.

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I am a GROWN WOMAN!
Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

 Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he`s truly hers, he doesn`t need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn`t.

Girls try to put a man `on lock` by using sex. Grown women know that it`s the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to `lock` you down

Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Grown women say, "Just stop", get up, get dressed and walk out.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignorethe bad guys.

Girls make you c^m.
Grown women make you come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.

Grown women know that they are pretty and good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man`s time (i.e, don`t want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil` bit of space makes the `together time`
even more special -- and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and `tell` their man so.
Grown women `show` him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate
w/o fear of losing his `manhood`.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection,
ignoring all `signs`.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don`t always love you back -- and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women !!
So, do you want a girl or a GROWN WOMAN

Befor going on,I dont deal with to many men who are under 25, if you gon hit me up and say some stupid sh!t save that for the next one!! so regardless if you 18 or you 38 please men be 21 with your sh!t!! and if bein open about sex bothers you get to steppin Im a very sexual person and Im also very proud!! no Im not a ho but,I am a woman who knows what she likes and dont like!! so step like you talkin to a woman and you might get treated like a man
so with that bein said. < Im a very independent woman I work full time, drive my own sh!t, live by my damn self & no kids. I love music, men, and pets Im not really lookin for a man but homie, lover, friends are always welcome but, please believe when mr. right comes along he wont be over looked I try not to be shallow and judge off looks however looks do matter, physical is the first attraction so lets just be real!!! Im a very down to earth female most of my friends are guys and they are just friends!! but you know every body got a cut buddy Im also very outspoken, I dont bite my tounge for no one. I think its good to be like that because then you dont have to wonder.... damn what does that person think of me. As for me I could care less what you think of me, cause dont nobody take care of me but me Im gonna always be real with you!! You might not like what I have to say about you but the truth hurts. Now dont get me wrong Ima very nice, and kind hearted person I just refuse to take sh!t from anyone be it a man or woman please dont think Im that b!tch with her a$$ on her shoulders, Im not that one Im the b!tch thats gon have your back always, Im the b!tch thats gonna tell you that the outfit dont look good when you ask instead of tellin ya yeah its straight then you be wonderin why aint nobody hollerin at yo a$$, Im that b!tch that if you need it, and I got it, you can get it, Im the b!tch that men love to love and hoes love to hate im that b!tch thats bout herpaper and do what I have to do to take care of home with that said Im movin on hatas stay on ya job its motivation all real folk holla at cha girl I HAVE TO SAY THIS to the ladies if you have or get a good man dont take advantage and, hold on tight (not to tight damn let him breath)i think we all know there hard to come across and then when we do get them were so use to bein treated like sh!t we dont know how to act ...... just know ladies always take care of home first forget everything else until YOUR man is taken care of at all times and on the foreal tip ladies i hear alot of women callin these men dogs but just so you know if you feed that dog , show thatdog love and treat that dog good he will always come home : ) at least mine do.Just stop naggin him let that man take care home whateva it takes feel me!! be on a dont ask dont tell basis for those who dontknow that means if you dont ask i wont tell cause foreal as long as he doin good for you fukk them otha hoes what you dont know wont hurt you..... you keep on pressin him if you want to you bound to get your feelins hurt as long as he takin care of home and you know you takin care of him you dont have nothin to worry about now on a brighter note...

 im still in da bangem 904 to fullest jacksonville for those who dont know UPDATE 12/10/2007
alright yall my pics are comin just chill out im gettin it done slowly but surely. Im 24 now and still no babies and NOT TRYIN EITHER WE LIKE SAFE SEX ROUND THESE PARTS :) and one more thing I used be like damn its wrong that people with no pic gets no love but I see now why ive definatly learned from my mistakes so fellas no pic no reply i dont care how fine you say you are all others holla at cha girl

SHOUT OUTS!!!
My home boys

POKEY ( A TRUE FRIEND FOR LIFE )

FAT BOY (I LOVE YOU BABY YOU AND YO CRAZY ASS COUSIN)

MAN MAN (LET ME GET THAT)

D (WELL WE TRIED)

B (BOY IF WE WASNT COOL THE THINGS I WOULD DO TO YOU )

MAKEVELI ( IF YOU SMACK ME ON MY A$$ ONE MORE TIME I KNOW SOMETHIN)

DY-MOND ( THEM HOTEL PARTIES BE OFF THE CHAIN ILL SEE YOU NEXT WEEK SAME TIME SAME PLACE
SAME ROOM AND TELL MAKEVELI TO STOP DOIN THAT : )

CALVIN ( CANT WAIT FOR YOU TO GET OUT YOU KNOW WE GON LOCK DUVAL DOWN WE ALL MISS YOU BABY )

LIL MAN WHY YO CRAZY ASS HAD TO GO AND DO THAT DUMB %#&@$! WE MISS YOU TO

MAN (TELL YOUR GRANDMA WE COMIN OVER FOR DINNER TONIGHT DAMN THAT LADY KNOW SHE CAN THROW DOWN)

SCOOBY ( YOU BETTER DO HER RIGHT OR IMA GET AT THAT ASS )

RAHMEIR ( ILL SEE YOU SOON )

MY HOMEGIRLS

DEBBIE ( WHAT UP HOOKA : )
BIG SUE ( ITS BEEN AWILE )
ERIN (ILL SEE YOU AT WORK TOMORROW B!TCH)
ANGELINA ( B!TCH YOU JUST A %#&@$! BUCKET BUT YOU COOL)

I have to pay my respects to the one and only love of my life ANDRE WILLIAMS may 26,1976- june 6,2004, I love you baby! you will always be missed as a lover,friend,and daddy I missyou so much!!!! there will be others but none that will ever compare to you I loveyou baby!!!!

Heavy Duty Beauty

Beauty is diverse and complicated
Beauty is not what you put on, it can't be duplicated

Beauty starts inside and works its way out
Beauty says nothing but sounds like a shout

A beautiful woman is a wonderful thing
But a Heavy Duty Beauty is better than anything

A Heavy Duty Beauty is beautiful in so many ways
She has the type of beauty that could be admired for days

Her smile is one that will warm your heart
She's a joy to be with, with her you'll never wanna part

Her eyes can smile at you just as bright
Her personality is like warm sunlight

The thickness of her beautiful curves are amazing
Her beauty is not meant for glancing but gazing

From the top of her head she is truly beautiful
Down the path of her big curves to her toes she is wonderful

There are other beauties, but none like this one
Many try to compete but she has already won

Her combination of beauty and pure thickness can't be beat
And just think her personality is just as sweet

She is a queen, magnificent and wonderful
Sweet and sensitive, caring and loveable

It is obvious that there is not one beauty
That can hold a candle to a "Heavy Duty Beauty"


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