Born in Oklahoma City,been living and Arkansas for about 10 years. Ready to get away from here. Hard working man that love his JOB. I have spontaneous humor. I'm always tying to keep a smile on my face. Happiness does not cost a thing(go ahead an smile for me,"it's free''). You can call me a JACK-OF-TRADES,there is almost nothing I can't do. Fix you if your broken, if you like. I will go all out to please my partner by all means necessary. Young at heart,wise an the mind. Look me up and let's get together.
What I Do With My Free Time
I enjoy reading, writing, drawing, painting, study/research, walking, mountain hikes, swimming, walks on the beach, museums, planetariums, picnics, hot springs, stargazing, sight-seeing and traveling to both traditional and non-traditional sites of interest.Personality
I'm usually rather quiet, soft-spoken, introspective, extremely sensitive and studious. I'm more of an observer, thinker and listener. Though, as I said, I do like to have fun and have been known to be spontaneous.
I become bored easily with small talk, and like to get to the meat of an issue, which isn't to say that I haven't been known to ramble. However, although I can be serious, I can also play practical jokes (so watch out! you never know when I will strike!), as well as relentlessly, but good naturedly, pick on those for whom I care. I'm half extrovert and half introvert. I try to be compassionate, caring and loving, and am also extremely intuitive and empathic, sometimes to a fault. Yes, I am a contradiction in terms, but think of the adventure!
I was born a poor black child.. no, sorry.. that's another story... :-D
I absolutely LOVE to travel! Don't like moving, but I love to travel. I've been to several different states here in the States. WHO I'M LOOKING FOR
About You
Are you someone who is, first and foremost, Spiritual as opposed to religious? And/or are you metaphysical, yet down-to-earth without being a continual cloud dweller or other-dimentionalist? Are you open minded, and as balanced as one can be in this crazy world? Having baggage is ok...we all have it, but are you dealing with it in a way that keeps it from adversely affecting your life? Are you willing to accept another for who they are without attempting to change their belief systems or put them down for their differences?
Are you genuinely warm, caring, have a sense of humor and/or are you silly, sincere, trustworthy, inquisitive, intelligent (though being a rocket scientist is not required)? Are you aware that common sense is not just the name of a Ben Franklin publication? Are you aware that it is? Are you fairly organized, tidy and conscious of your hygiene (yes, do you keep yourself clean!)? When hearing the song "Rocky Mountain High" are you reminded of your libido or a state of mind?
Are you willing to put me before anything else except children, when necessary, and obvious emergent problems and still be able to use common sense in differentiating? I don't wish to be placed on a pedestal...I am aware that I, too, have my faults. However, it would be nice to be respected, cherished and acknowledged, as I am prepared to do for the right one.
I want to spend quality time with this person, yet I would encourage her to have their own interests, as well. I'm looking for someone who is just as comfortable either being by herself as with friends, and be comfortable with me doing the same.
Though I like some sports (football, soccer, sometimes baseball and a few other sports) I'm not interested in becoming a sports widow, nor the significant other of a work-aholic.
A plus would be someone who is realistic(!!), yet imaginative, creative, loves to travel, is adventurous, a dreamer who lives her dreams of, say, climbing K-2. I want someone who wants to experience life to the fullest, and is yet, simultaneously balanced.
If you're at least most of these things (hey! no one's perfect!), then I'm definitely interested!
Please provide the following info: name (rank, serial number, no.. seriously, lol) age, physical description or a picture, characteristics and attributes, employement status, living situation (who lives with you), how you feel about children (I have a teenager), whether or not you have pets (I love animals, but don't particularly want a zoo) , whether or not you're willing to relocate.
Tell me about your goals and ambitions, both short-term and long-term, your philosophies, your relationship requirements, your likes and dislikes, what YOU want in a mate, and any other pertinent information you feel you'd like to share. And please do not say that you can provide all this as we get to know each other over time. If you're not willing to think about and enumerate these things to me now, you probably don't really know what you want from life, nor, more than likely, do you care to go to the trouble of figuring it out or want anything more than a fling. Therefore, we would both be wasting our time. Supplying this information will give us both an idea of whether or not we want to meet, or if we want to go any further. Once we do meet, this information will give us more of a base from which to begin, something to talk about.
Sound like a resume is required? Well, just about! Let's be realistic, though: since I'm not just looking for a one night stand, but rather a possible long-term romance/relationship, I want to make sure that the person I choose is also looking for the same things, and that we're as compatible with each other as possible. One of the reasons there are so many marriages/intimate relationships which end up in divorce or separation, is because we don't take the time to get to know this stranger we're planning on spending the rest of our life with. Nor are we, usually, sure of just what it is we want ourselves!
