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FYI:
The people I love most in the world call me Kennie or Mom.
I am the most proud parent of two GOD given Marvels
Separated, but have an immense affinity for my husband.
I am a Massage Therapist by profession
My hobbies are:
Listening to and collecting music,
Writing,
Reading,
Creating (anything)
Singing
Pet Peeves:
Lying,
Stealing,
Children who don't receive the necessary yearly allowance of azz whippings
Women that gossip incessantly
Men that gossip -- at all (not a good look)
The new "Hip Hop" lol
Romantic Deal Makers:
Attentiveness,
Respectfulness,
Honesty,
Kindness,
Intelligence,
Communication,
Passion (in all it's forms),
Shoulder/Back Rubs (smile)
Playing in my hair- OMG! (see attentiveness)
Romantic Deal Breakers:
Addictions
(Drugs-any type)
(Alcoholism)
(Smoking)
(Gambling)
(Abusiveness)
(Lying)
(Ass)id Breath
Lack of effort
Pretty Boys
Bi-Sexual Men
Three words I'd use to describe me:
Strong,
Loyal,
Intelligent
Things I'm most proud of:
My faith in The Most High and the Savior,
My children,
The GOD given gift of resilience
Relationship with my parents
Not being a "freak" and sharing myself with numerous men.
Three Regrets:
Not beginning my life's work sooner, I'd be accomplished by now.
Not apologizing to someone I wronged before he passed away. I'm still sorry for that.
Letting my high school/college sweetie Tyrone B. get away -- Can I get a do-over.
  
INTRODUCING: A TREASURE
Hello to all my fellow BP Planeteers (reminiscent of the Mickey Mouse Club or something). The above personal information was less an introduction and more an attempt to weed out would-be suitors who are unprepared to experience the treasure I consider myself and my "circle" to be. To experience a bonding together of spirits (friendship) is to truly find treasure.
If in fact your eyes are scrolling this portion of my personal message, I will conclude that you are either a viable suitor or you are someone (friend or otherwise) that I'd like to experience in my life. In any instance, I welcome you to my world and bid you stay as
long as you'd like and visit as often as you choose. I welcome kinship and friendship in just about all of its facets.
Notice to the Daughters of the Diaspora
I am character and composure. I am strength and wisdom. I am articulate and clever. I am honor and respect. I am dogged determination. I am Motherwit personafied.
I am pain and struggle. I am fierce competition.
I am jealousy and rage.
I am postured and opposing.
I am impatient, impudent defiance.
I am defense.I am intense.
I am confusion and bewilderment. I am sorrowful.
I am DAMAGED.
I am soft and quiet. I am yielding and humble.
I am contemplative.
I am understanding and forgiving.
I am loving and affectionate.
I am warm consideration.
I am good company and companionship.
I am integrity and fairness.
I am the pride in my people.
I am deserving of the best.
I am Grandmother, Mother, Aunt, Sister, Daughter, Friend, Neighbor, and Stranger.
At my best I am MAGNIFICENT, WONDERFUL, and GRANDE!
At my worst, I am out of order and completely wrong.
I am more than most people thought.
I am even more than others could imagine.
I am at my King's right hand, sharing his history and his mission.
I am decended of Queens,
inheritant to a birthright of royalty.
I am just like you.
I am a BLACK WOMAN!
--Tillimdone
On personal quirks,attraction, and admiration I speak with authority because I was nursed on self-esteem. I was taught very young "Don't sound as though you doubt yourself even if secretly, you do."
I have a tight knit circle of very few, but extremely close friends. I call them my family -- my brothers and sisters, if you will. Ones may be privileged enough to join this circle, but NONE may corrupt it. I believe in taking care of relationships with those who are close to you as you would tend to a garden, carefully and dutifully. Needless to say, I love, value, and trust my friends. So much that I have told others, "If ever one of my "family" says you did it, you did it." I have no need of second guessing or questioning their motivation behind an accusation. This has held true because those very few close knit individuals are merely an extension of myself.
I am a passionate, creative type bent on the perfection of my work as both massage therapist and print shop operator. I don't like to be or appear unprofessional by any standard. I am committed to whatever mission I embark upon, especially that which bears my name or brand. While Tillimdone is my legal brand, I am known also as Mama Zen and DEEPER. The latter two are only online aliases but they represent different planes of consciousness for me.
What attracts me.....Beauty in all its forms. Whether it be male or female, nature or man-made. If it catches my eye, it is attractive and I will observe and occasionally speak on it. I am not flirting when I do this. But I like the idea of admiring GOD's masterpieces openly. If you have a talent in an area and it's bananas, I will let you know because I personally feel we don't show as much approval as we do disapproval and/or envy for the next person's abilities and talents. I am truly proud of my people's contribution to civiliation in all areas of advancement, and acknowledgement is the very least I can do to show my grattitude.
In my personal life, on my own time, I am very laid back and low maintainance. My greatest burden when I'm alone is maintaining peace within -- which is fairly simple. I enjoy my own company and relish the opportunity to get to know myself better with each passing day. I own some extroverted characteristics but am a definite introvert by nature of the "recharge/socialization" theory. I generally love who I like and stay far from those I don't care for. My mission is to achieve inner as well as social balance and harmony. I shy away from chaotic and toxic personalities because like cryptonite, they make me sick. I would most like to see my children grow up to be spiritually and socially responsible adults who contribute to the progression of our culture. I would like to exit this existence knowing that we were well on our way to achieving the pride and greatness we once owned.
Men that intrigue me are........Mostly dark skinned bald men with facial hair -- this would be my so called "type". I'm not that narrow or closed minded, it really just seems to work out that way. Usually, they're big guys as that is one of the ways I associate strength. Another is by intelligence -- a very underrated quality, also very attractive. They are caring and open with their lives. Not shrouded in mystery and closeted by past transgressions, even if they have them. They tend to be progressive and creative also. Silly. I don't mean silly as in ridiculous, but able to laugh with, laugh at, and be laughed at. A good laugh, like a good cry, can save your life. LEADERS, not followers. I admire strong willed men who stand on timeless values and principals. "Family first" and "the children are our future" types of values. Men who fear and acknowledge GOD and order is a lifestyle they easily embrace. Not necessarily religious, but spiritual men. Love HIM, trust HIM, and acknowledge HIM in all things. Disciplined men who have not allowed their surroundings to condemn them to immaturity. Teachers, for how else will boys be able to replicate this standard. That's a short list of the attributes that pique my interest, but I must say that all my brothers who stand in the spectrum of any combination of those attributes, will always warrant some level of attention from me.
Inside the confines of time and space travel, there are no confines. Let us journey into music's past and peek into it's future. It's all good music-it's all relative. Allow me to introduce you to TILLIMDONE'S TIME MACHINE. Relax, and let us float on a musical continuum. Enjoy your ride.
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