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  • Here For:

    Friends, Casual Dating, Serious Dating

  • Member Since:

    May 23, 2001

  • Real Name::

    Thomas Brown

  • Sex:

    Male

  • Relationship Status:

    Single

  • Last Login:

    Yesterday

  • Education:

    Master's Degree

  • Primary Job:

    Healthcare - Social Services/Mental Health

  • Location:

    Virginia Beach, VA

  • Race:

    Black/African American, Native American, Other

  • Zodiac:

    Scorpio


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A REASON, A SEASON, OR A LIFETIME?

Pay attention to what you read. After you read this, you will know the reason it was sent to you! People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON. . .
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a GOD send, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.

Then people come into your life for a SEASON.......
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life, in whatever capacity. Please know that taking the time to read my profile, YOU have touched my life and I yours. Stop here and just SMILE........... This is to show that I love you and in hopes of understanding and making decisions of our relationships and why thing " IS WHAT IT IS. " Don't feel embarrassed, because only you will get the results. ** PLEASE CONTINUE READING FOR MORE SELF HELP **

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