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Welcome I'm TOMMY
One of my biggest traits is that I love to make people around me feel comfortable and most of all laugh a lot.I'm honest,organized,reliable,a leader not a follower or a fighter,and very compassionate towards all life.No where near perfect but I try hard each day of my life to in-pack others as well satisfy my needs and of course be thankful for the blessings God affords me.Life's not always about what we have or how we do things,but whom we share them with as well.Destiny is not a matter of chance only of choices and then actions.I firmly believe that communication builds all things and without destroys them.I believe in trying & doing almost anything once,twice because of interest,on the third time now enjoying it.Friendship needs a certain parallelism of life,a community of thought,a rivalry of aim.So with positive as well indifferent experiences and strong faith,I understand the meaning of a true commitment.I'm half Hispanic & Italian and as you can tell I'm very oral,but always in a pleasurable way.The time which we have at our disposal every day is elastic the passions that we feel expand it,those that we inspire contract it and habits fill up what remains.
Come walk with me,take my hand so I may hold your smile.
Love of beauty is taste and the creation of beauty is art
have eyes the brain knows nothing of.
Enjoy your journey thru my heart & eyes.
To The World You Maybe Only One Person
But To One Person You May Be Their WorldHoney I Miss You And I Would Love To Be With You
If Only I Could
R I P
My Guardian Angle
Through life Heart's have beat with pure joy and in deep sorrow,with thee
passing of time our Heart's will mend when filled again with absolute love.
Faith and destiny will bring a new Heart filled with unconditional commitment
in their beliefs,strong self-worth,honesty and compassion for all life.
My wish is that we all seek and obtain our
One of thee most important things in our lives are our freedoms.Freedom from fear and injustice and oppression will be ours only in the measure that men & women who value such freedom are ready to sustain its possession,to defend it against every thrust from within or without.
Dreams have lives,like you and I.
They are born,and they can die.Encourage dreams to learn to walk they speak in whispers before they talk.
Listen closely to what your dreams say,they know Truth and can show you the Way.
Raise them with love and deepest care.Protect them from those who kill,steal and maim.Those in bondage wish all to be the same.For there are those whose own dreams have died.That is what happens when the heart is denied.They cannot bear the sound of dreams in flight,of laughter and dancing and goals in sight.So they crush dreams on the sly.And laugh as children cry.And truly,do not know why,they are depressed and forever sigh.You are free to dream,free to soar,high over the veldts where lions roar.Alone and wild with unending joy,forever a precious girl or little boy.Adults are children who cannot play,they have forgotten their dreams of yesterday.Every moment focused on the morrow,never seeing that is the source of their sorrow.No one can tell you what to do there is no authority,no ruler over you.
Hold them close and pierce the Sky
For they have lives,like you and I.
Dreams are born,and dreams can die.
KING OF POP
8/29/1958 * 6/25/2009
Education is a controlling grace to the young,consolation to the old,wealth to the poor,and ornament to the rich.
There is a reason Jesus asks us to believe in him with the heart and eyes of a child.The heart of a child has not been damaged yet by life so the heart of a child has unsurpassed capabilities for trust,love and total belief in goodness.A child's eyes have not been tainted or influenced by people or life.They see life everyday with new eyes full of wonder,excitement and anticipation for new things that have yet to happen.
As that every Child should be given the Wish & Dream to Learn.
Don't Turn Your Head Or Look Away
>>>STOP ABUSE<<< Make The Call !
To Subsist In The Well Being Of Their VICTIM
Not settling for less then what you know you deserve in your relationships.Asking for what you want and need from others.Speaking your truth even if it may cause conflict or tension.Behaving in ways that are in harmony with your personal values.Making choices based on what you believe.
Its not the cross you bear its how you wear it
Conditional Love Is An Oxymoron
How many times do I hear it in passing conversations,in the examples
of love set forth by our mass media propaganda peddling machines,in the raised voice of the husband who tells his wife that she would be"nothing" without him,the parent who screams at their child for not living up to expectations.That am I talking about? I'm talking about the attitude," I'll Love you if." I'll love you if you do as I say.I'll love you if you behave in the ways that I expect you to behave.I'll love you if you have sex with me.I'll love you if you do this,if you don't do that.I'll love you if you meet my needs,in the way I want them to be met.I'll basically only love you,if you conform to my expectations of the way I want you to be.That is Conditional Love.And Conditional Love,is an oxymoron.If it comes with terms and conditions attached,it isn't Love.It is Need,dressed up in any fancy,intricate ways that you can make it look like it's something more than that.Unconditional Love,has no need.
It simply Is.It is Free.It has no"strings attached".Unconditional Love,means that I Love you,simply for who you are,and not for who I may wish you to be.It places no demands upon you.Love knows no conditions you see,if you truly Love,then you will always be Free.Clinging on strong,all over zealously,and getting random attacks of outright jealousy,has nothing to do with Love,and lots with need.
Love does not require you to be different.It never needs you to change.Although it will support you in doing so,if you wish to.Love has no need for you to adhere to it's edicts.True,unconditional Love,just accepts you,as you are,right now.Love expects nothing from you,and yet gives you everything.It sets you free,and yet it is always there for you.It never withdraws itself,and it never seeks retribution.Love allows you the space,and free will choice,to decide what is best for you.It protects,but takes no prisoners,holding no one captive to it.Love cannot be added to,and nothing can be subtracted from it.It cannot be divided.There are depths to Love,and yet it cannot truly be measured.Neither can it be exhausted.Love cannot be extinguished,though it can be forgotten,forsaken,and turned away from.
And yet,even should you forget,forsake,or turn away from it still,it cannot be erased.It is eternally there,should you ever withdraw the expectations you covered it with.Love does not belong to you.You do not,and cannot,own it.Yet,if you allow it to,it will flow freely though you,and bring enchantment to your world.It will light up your life.You shall take with you an Inner Joy,which cannot be contained.And you will be a blessing unto the lives of all those whom you touch with your presence.
Go your way in Peace my Sisters & Brothers
When we learn to apply more honey than vinegar in our true scent for transparency in compassion for all life.With an unwavering commitment to your faith,family and strong self-worth.Thus acquiring the genuine spirit for life
You will always be in my heart as The Voice Of An Angel
the one and only Whitney that God blessed us all with.
Your Sprite Lives On
Whitney Elizabeth Houston
8/09/1963 * 2/11/2012
If we are to keep our system secure and our society stable,we must all begin to work where all of us work best.And that is in the communities where we all live.
The Strongest Most Generous And Proudest Of All Our Virtues
True Unselfish Acts Of Courage.
Thank You My Fellow Veteran's
Think what a remarkable,unduplicatable,and miraculous thing it is to be you.Of all the people who have come and gone on the earth,since the beginning of time,
NOT ONE of them is like YOU!
No one who has ever lived or is to come has had your combination of abilities,talents,appearance,f riends,acquaintances,burdens,s orrows,or opportunities.No one's hair grows exactly the same way yours does.No one's finger prints are like yours.No one has the same combination of secret inside jokes and family expressions that you know.The few people who laugh at all the same things you do,don't sneeze the way you do.No one prays about exactly the same concerns as you do.No one is loved by the same combination of people that love you,NO ONE.
No one before,no one to come.You are absolutely unique.Enjoy that uniqueness.You do not have to pretend in order to seem more like someone else.You weren't meant to be like someone else.You do not have to lie to conceal the parts of you that are not like what you see in anybody else.You were meant to be different.No where ever in all of history will the same things be going on in anyone's mind,soul,and spirit as are going on in yours right now.If you did not exist,there would be a hole in creation,a gap in history,something missing from the plan for humankind.Treasure your uniqueness.
It is a gift given ONLY to you.Enjoy it,share it ! No one can reach out to others in the same way you can.No one can speak your words.No one can convey your meaning.No one can comfort with your kind of comfort.No one can bring your kind of understanding to another person.No one can be cheerful and lighthearted and joyous in your way.No one can smile your smile.
The gift of yourself was given to you to enjoy but not hoard.Give yourself away.See the uniqueness around you in each person you meet.SEE IT. RECEIVE IT.Let it inform you or nudge you or inspire you or comfort you.There collection of unique irreplaceable beings around you now has never been available before and will not be in quite the same way ever again.
Be thankful of the uniqueness of you and those around you.
This page is dedicated to the Love of Faith & Life itself
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