But when I finally found the words to say, I wanted to run away; simply run away...
Listen ladies, every man isn`t a thug, a bad boy or talks mostly with slang. Some, like myself, speak somewhat proper & with refinement. Our dress code is fresh and clean. We enjoy fine cuisine, history and the arts as well. Travel and leisure are integral parts of our world. We believe in family and friends. We carry ourselves with integrity, act like gentlemen & treat women with respect. We rely on our strengths when our weaknesses threaten to bring us down. We understand that a sound mind and body is not an option; it is a necessity. We don`t shy away from responsibility but instead confront obstacles with the patience, care & diligence each one deserves. We have aspirations, ambitions & dreams and we do not want to mistreat you but instead show you how good we can be. We revel in your success & offer support when times are hard. Your smile is our motivation & your happiness is our goal. We know life is a blessing and we live it as such. We think, not on a local level but on a global scale. We can be street, we can keep it hood, but it`s that very mentality that has many of you complaining about us most. There`s a better way & it`s been acknowledged. Everywhere you look you see the same kind of men, hear the same kind of lines & feel the same kind of dissapointment. I think it`s time for a change, I know it`s time to step up & quite honestly I think I`m already there......
.....It took me getting into one of the worst messes of my life to make me realize that I could get a lot further being smart & intelligent in my actions rather than making unwise decisions. All the drugs & drinking, women & wine, money & fights only blurred my vision of what I wanted out of life. I took it upon myself to begin a transition. Remember life is all about change, opportunity and challenges. Prepare yourself for any and all of the above.
ON WITH THE SHOW...I appreciate you stopping by. Let's get acquainted. My name is K and I'm in the military(The U.S. Army) but originally from Tallahassee, Florida. As part of my job I`ve done alot of traveling to different areas of the country and I love that. I have a special place in my heart for the state of Oklahoma because my little girl lives there as do many of my friends. I like to go out, shop, play sports & travel, but it's kind of hard sometimes with the schedule we keep in the military. I guess the main thing I want to do with this page is to meet new people and make new friends. Life is too short and plan to live it like that. If you're down for or with that then shoot me a note & let's exchange some thoughts & words. Many people on BP say on their pages don't send notes if you're this or that or if you don't have a picture or whatever; but forget about that. If you have something positive to say or you just have a question, by all means, send it through. This is my page & I refuse to put a limit on my expression so why would I limit yours? I`d like you to come back again & again & again.
I'm glad you decided to stop by but don't leave just yet, Hit my guest book up with something(hi, hello, anything) and I'll definitely return the favor.
A lil` more about KC
I'm 6`0, I work as a Data Analyst/Human Resources Manager for the military. I'm currently working on my degree in Criminology. I love working under pressure. I read alot(Politics, true crime, biographies, whatever I find interesting). In recent months I have consider trying my hand a politics when I leave the military. I think I can help and I think I can make a difference. I love all kinds of music and theater. I love being a leader and having my Soldiers look to me for guidance. I love to travel, been around the world & back and nothing compares to Europe. If you`ve never been, plan to go.
My favorite CDs are: Jodeci-Diary of a Mad Band, Mary J Blige-My Life, Erykah Badu-Mamas` Gun, Love Jones the Sdtrk, R. Kelly-TP2.com & Anita Baker-Rapture. Favorite movies are Love Jones, The Usual Suspects, and the Godfather trilogy.
In 2003 I was involved in a very bad car accident. My car was totaled but I walked away with only a little soreness and I know this was all due to wearing my seat belt and the grace of GOD. If you care about yourself and the people who love you please buckle that belt. I know you all are grown and you're going to do what you want, but just be careful out there. There are people way more reckless than the guy that cut me off. Just be safe.
!!!!!!!!ATTENTION!!!!!!!!
Here are a few rules(let`s call them guidelines)for men and women to live by, specifically, in your relationships. Even if you only follow half the stuff below I guarantee your relationships will see nothing but good times. Now I know other factors contribute to a good union(sex, finances, social skills, etc) but these rules are applicable in any stage of said union. So please, read on....
UP FIRST, RULES FOR MY BROTHERS
1.CALL HER THE NEXT DAY(dating 101)
2.TELL HER TRUTHFULLY THAT YOU WANT TO SEE HER AGAIN
3.OFFER HER A BACK RUB WHEN SHE`S TIRED(if you know what i know, hit those feet too)
4.CALL HER JUST TO LET HER KNOW THAT YOU WERE THINKING OF HER
5.BRING HER FLOWERS JUST BECAUSE
6.BRING HER A TEDDY BEAR & SOME SOUP WHEN SHE`S FEELING SICK
7.SLOW DANCE WITH HER, NOT JUST ON THE DANCE FLOOR(be creative)
8.SEND HER A HAND WRITTEN LOVE LETTER
9.ALWAYS REMEMBER ANNIVERSARIES AND OTHER SPECIAL DATES(relationship 101)
10.KISS HER IN THE MIDDLE OF A SENTENCE(be spontaneous)
11.TELL HER SOMETHING ABOUT YOU THAT NO ONE ELSE KNOWS
12.REMIND HER THAT YOU THINK SHE`S BEAUTIFUL(cute, pretty, whatever)
13.SURPRISE HER ANY SURPRISE(who doesn`t like surprises?)
14.NEVER STOP TRYING TO IMPRESS UP0N HER THE FACT THAT YOUR LOVE IS ALL HERS.
15.TELL HER YOU LOVE HER ALL THE TIME, DON`T JUST EXPECT HER TO KNOW
16.GIVE HER GREAT BIG HUGS ALL THE TIME(all women love to be held especially with meaning)
17.WAKE HER UP EVERY MORNING WITH A KISS(if your breath isn`t right only deal with the cheek & keep you mouth closed!)
LADIES!! I HAVN`T FORGOTTEN ABOUT YOU. I HAVE A FEW RULES FOR YOU TOO.(And they`re real basic. These few things could take you from Ike and Tina to Jay and Beyonce)
1.KISS HIM. NOT ALL THE TIME BUT ALOT
2.HOLD HIM
3.COMPLIMENT HIM(but don`t blow our heads up)
4.CARESS HIM(what man doesn`t enjoy a woman`s touch?)
5.LISTEN TO HIM(we want to feel like you understand us which leads to # 6)
6.TRY TO UNDERSTAND HIM
7.LAUGH WITH HIM ALWAYS(we think all our jokes are funny, you should too.) NOTE: farting & burping are not funny. If he finds humor in that mess lose his a_s quick
8.TRY TO MAKE HIM SMILE
9.MAKE HIM SCREAM YOUR NAME(it`s never happened to me but you`re welcome to try(SMILE))
10.ALWAYS APPRECIATE HIM(and let him know he`s appreciated)
11.SURPRISE HIM
12.AROUSE HIM(nuff` said)
13.EDUCATE HIM(not school work. teach us about you. to me a woman is an ever evolving test of feelings, emotions, etc.. prepare us for any pop quizzes)
14.ACKNOWLEDGE HIM
15.ACCEPT HIM(no explanation needed)
Please don`t forget to give every man or woman a fair chance. Many of us have become so stubborn and/or frustrated by love that even the smallest thing a potential mate does that we disagree with just makes us give up. Allow mistakes, show compassion and be open. You just may be surprised at the results, ONE.
I`ve been to: Ontario, Quebec, Newfoundland, Ireland, Cyprus, Kuwait, Iraq, Qatar, Germany, Spain, France, Luxembourg, England(London), Mexico, Japan, Korea, Slovakia, Panama, Italy, Belgium, Iceland, Crete, Romania(Bucharest) and all over the US. A very well traveled young man if I do say so myself.
I also want you all out there to understand something. Yes I`m in the military but that doesn`t make me pro war or anti-peace or anything like that. We have a duty to follow the orders of the President of the United States & the officers appointed by him to lead us. No rational person wants war & a great many service members are opposed to the conflicts in Iraq & Afghanistan. Still, it stings when people rise & sleep under the very blanket of freedom we help provide & then question the manner in which we provide it. You laugh at us and our way of life & then cry for us when the enemy attacks. Our job is to protect you against the people who would bring harm to your very doorstep. Trust me, you want us on that wall. Sleep peacefully in your bed tonight because men like me stand ready to do violence on your behalf. All we want is your support. Do you care? We do; but no one seems to care about us until the enemy is at the front gate.
*People I can`t stress this enough; get your money right. Get some stock, some bonds, some real estate. Live within your means, save, budget, go without, do whatever. There are plenty of resources to help you reach your financial goals and goals require dividends & funding. No one wants to hear what-ifs or empty rhetoric, they want to know if you have a plan. So go get that money. (I highly recommend INGDirect.com for your banking needs. You draw a competitive rate of interest and you can move money when you need it. Go check it out)
****Quick Note**** If you're having trouble saving money here's a simple way to start. It worked for me and with discipline it can work for you too. Start off saving 50 dollars a month into any bank account you choose. After 6 months you boost that ten dollars to 60 dollars. After 6 more months you boost that ten more dollars to 70 and so on and so on. Do that for 4 six month periods and then you start back at 50 or just keep going. I've done this for 12 years saving for my daughters graduation and trust me; her savings account is ridiculous because early on I moved the monies into an account that was drawing a minimum of five percent on the interest rate. Don't procrastinate, start up as soon as possible and you will thank yourself later. The Lord told & explained to Jonah that the essence of love is to labor. One loves that for which one labors & one labors for that which one loves. Lord thank you for all your blessings. Shield me father from those who would do me harm. Let me be patient, let me be kind, make me unselfish without being blind. Though I may suffer I`ll envy not & endure what comes because you`re all that I`ve got. I may have faith to make mountains fall, but if I lack love then I am nothing at all. I can give away everything I possess, but left without love then I have no happiness. I know I`m imperfect & not without sin but now that I`m older all childish things must end. I`ll never be jealous & I won`t be too proud, cause love is not boastful & love is not loud and I may have wisdom & knowledge on earth but if I speak wrong then what is it worth? See what I now know is nothing compares to the love that you showed when our lives were spared.
Don`t knock what I say or how I act. I sweat & bleed just like everyone else. The only difference is what it is I`m willing to do these things for. Send me your thoughts and let's build together. Take care, K 
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MY DATING PROFILE: A little about me... I am more than what you see. I want the same thing that many of you want. Someone with some sense, who is willing to work on themselves, work with me and work on the relationship. It took the process of natural maturity but I realized that ultimately I just want to be happy. I want to come home, see my woman and just be happy. I grew tired of running, cheating, making up lies to cover other lies and watching it all come crashing down on my head. I know there's a woman out there who's thinking the same thing that I am. I know many of you are just tired and just wanted someone you can count on, to be good, to trust, to love and respect and have that love and respect returned. Most men won't tell you this but when you're by yourself, and making it by yourself, living by yourself and existing by yourself; things can get lonely. You find yourself looking at all the times you messed up and the good women you let get away because because of so many stupid reasons. I want to take someone home to mom and to meet my family and to meet hers, get those blessings, make memories, connect on all levels and live in comfort and security. I'm trying ladies. I have work to do but I'm trying. .
What are you looking for in a partner? .
Maturity, loyalty, kindness, tenderness, respect, compassion and understanding. Courage, faith, experiences, aspirations, inspiration and fiscal responsibility, just to name a few.... Also a great sense of humor is a plus. I'm sure that social and sexual compatibility is a requirement but if the interest is there then these things can certainly be worked on. .
P.S. I know that some women find it shallow to put pictures of myself on here with no shirt on but to them I say that I'm proud of my body and prefer to show it and then let you make the decision of whether you would like to contact me. It's funny though. This is what we've been reduced to in society. Men and women have to get half naked in order to attract the opposite sex. It seems that those that refuse to conform to what society deems acceptable get left behind. Maybe I'm wrong but my eyes tell me different. It also seems that men and women no longer want someone that thinks instead choosing those that just act. .
I'd just like to add... .
I know that everyone has their own criteria when it comes to dating. Whether it be mental, physical, emotional or financial; please don`t forget to give every man a fair chance. Many of us have become so stubborn and/or frustrated by our past relationships that even the smallest thing a potential mate says or does that we disagree with just makes us give up. This whole dating thing has just become so mentally time consuming and confusing that the slightest step outside the parameters we set for ourselves(your comfort zone if you will)has become just cause to call it quits. I know they say go at your own pace but also find his or her pace and try to find a balance. The most successful companies, that award winning book, the best slice of strawberry cheescake(message ladies...lol), they all took time, patience and a keen understanding of what was being dealt with.
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