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It seems to me that a lot of people use these sites as meat markets,but I feel ,you make it what you want it to be. I'm not interested in webcaming to become anyone's personal porn star,lol. Everyone has their own reason for being here,and whatever the reason it boils down to being sociable. Hopefully a friend or two can be filtered out of the rest. I'm looking to meet friends. A FRIEND IS A GIFT, IT'S NEVER JUST ONE THING... A SPIRIT-LIFTING CHAT, A SOFT SHOULDER, A WISE WORD, A JEWEL OF INSIGHT, OR A SHARED MOMENT OF LAUGHTER. IT'S A MAGICAL BLEND THAT IS ONLY FOUND IN A SPECIAL FRIEND. I'm not interested in anything of a sexual nature. What I would like if possible,is a friendship that is nonjudgemental,and honest.
 quote;BOY VS MAN" A boy imitates the movies, Always trying to be a "mac", Men possess the inner strength, To love a woman back. A boy looks at your body, When a man can see your soul, He knows you have much more to offer, And with you, he can grow old. A boy will ask to spend the night, But a man wants to share your life, A boy hunts for a "piece", As a man yearns for a wife. A boy will leave you insecure, While you wonder where he is, With a man you`re always reassured, Because a man takes care of his. Boys can give you moments, While a man brings memories, He values things such as trust, and honor; and in you, he will believe. A boy will trust his friends words While a man will trust you, unconditionally. It`s just you, and him! ???????????????? In life it's not the breath you take, But the moments spent with that special person that takes your breath away. No one falls in love by choice, it is by CHANCE. No one stays in love by chance, it is by WORK. And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by CHOICE. Put God first in every decision you make.
  In our quest for happiness we must be sure that we don't settle for a Playmate when God has a Soulmate waiting for us. Sometimes this is a hard distinction to make. Playmates are tricky. They are so much fun to be with that even the smartest of us will be fooled into thinking ,this has to be our Soulmate. Worse yet too many of us attempt to make a Soulmate out of a Playmate. The danger of this is that later, after years of playing we will meet our Soulmate, but it may be too late. We may have already made a Lifemate of our Playmate ,and created life-long bonds (emotional, children, etc.). Or we may have been hurt from playing so hard that we are in no shape ourselves to be anyone's anything. How can we distinguish between ,The One, and just another one? First, we must be open with ourselves about who we really are and what our soul yearns for. Only you and God know what is truly in your heart, and mind. Only you know what will make you truly happy and whole. In order to find your Soulmate you have to know you, first. You must be willing to listen to that inner voice. And is that voice telling you that the nerdy person you enjoy talking and sharing your thoughts with, they could possibly be, The One? What about that friend who is always willing to go the extra mile for you when no one else will? Oh no! She's/He's too short or too tall, balding or too hairy, and on and on? Just too ordinary looking for me! Then there's that man/woman who makes you feel so special when you're around him! /her, but he doesn't match that ideal you have conjured in your head. She's/He's too short, not slender enough, not light or dark enough, not in shape enough, not attractive enough, and on and on. He/she just couldn't be for me! So what if he/she doesn't look like Denzel Washington or Halle Berry? Halle's looks have not kept a man yet. Something to think about. Is he/she going to treat you like the jewel that you are? Not only that, his/her soul and yours will commune in ways you never imagined possible! In order to heed that voice, we have to put on the back burner our own superficial thinking. Could it be that your inner desire is for a truly genuine person with a good heart? If yo u enjoy playing, stay on the playground. There are plenty of Playmates out there to occupy your time. But don't spend too much time playing or you may play your life away,or your heart. Eventually the playing loses it appeal and your soul begins to crave a deeper, more meaningful connection. Your soul begins to crave your Soulmate. Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Be more concerned with your character than your reputation. Your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely ,what ? What other s think you are. What is it we struggle so hard for in life if not to look into the eyes of another and know true love? If you're lucky enough to find it, hold on...life is a series of moments remembered, nothing more. Make them unforgetable! Time wasted is lost forever. |
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