Hello my friends and welcome to...
Da Bear`s Den
Sit back, relax, grab some iced tea on the table, and I`ll be right with you. In the meantime here`s my resume` for you to glance over. Don`t get too deep, you may get caught up in it`s complexity.
My name is Bryan. My friends call me Tteddyy and I live on the Southside of Chicago. I am an honest, intelligent, down-to-earth, BHM (Big Handsome Man).
Statistics:
6`4", 41 Years old, 450+ LBS. I Don`t drink, smoke, or take drugs.
As I told you before, I live on the SouthtSide of Chicago, but I don`t have that "thug mentality". I don`t call women hoes, or b1tche$. That's not my style.
My interview process has begun again. I am taking applications for those who truly want a good man in their lives, and are willing to accept me for me. If you can`t do that, then please move on to a lesser man.
These ladies will continue to be thorn in my side, and need not apply...
Women:
Who don`t know what they want in a man. If you don`t know, then you should ask somebody. I am not the one to ask, because I don`t know what you want either.
With drama
with closed minds
with too many men in their life
with seperated husbands who still come to see them
with Immaturity
with a cheating heart
with no communication skills
with no taste
with no manners
with no common sense
who aren`t honest
who aren`t trustworthy
who lie - If you are a liar, please step on. I will find out. Anything done in
********** Pet Peeves ***********
1. Liars.
2. People who stand you up without a gooood excuse.
3. Beggars.
4. Thieves who steal from people who don`t have a damned thing themselves.
5. Cheaters! It doesn`t mater what they cheat at, whether it`s taxes, cards, or relationships, I hate `em all.
6. Stupid people.
7. Close-minded, small-minded people.
8. Racists.
9. *bleep*s...If you want to know that I mean by *bleep*s, ask Chris Rock.
10. Ghetto people. Not those of us who do ghetto things from time to time, but those people that you can`t take ANYWHERE without them showing just how ghetto they really are.
11. Ghetto people who work at McDonald`s, Burger King, Wendy`s, or anyother fast food joint. I mean they must work, but why let them deal with the customer. Put them in the back until they learn common curtesy and respect.
12. People who purposely gives you the wrong number in place of their phone number. Why even bother in the first damned place. I`d rather you tell me you aren`tinterested.
13. People who give you their correct phone number, but when you call them they are always busy, brush you off, or never return your calls. What the HELL did you give my your number for in the first place?
14. Women who play games, and cannot be honest with a brother.
15. Hustlers, players, and player haters, and *bleep*-blockers.
16. Drug users, dealers, and suppliers.
17 People on Yahoo, MSN, Black Planet, Black Voices, and any other "dating service" who are married. I put dating service because that`s what they pretty much are used for. To get to know people. And if you get to know someone, and he happens to live in your town, you will go see him/her eventually. If your ASS is married, get out of the chat rooms, delete your BP page and go talk to your significant other.
18. People on BP that have html code on their page that automatically add them to your friend`s list.
Question to those people...Do you need a friend that bad?
19. People who misrepresent themselves. If you are a freaky person then be that. If you are a prude then be that. Don`t misrepresent. If your name is I_WANNA_LICK_YOU_UP or I_LIKE_TO_CHOKE69, don`t have a picture of your baby on the damned page. Put your ASS on the screen, so we know you are a freak. If your name is MAN_OF_GOD or THE_TRUE_EVE, DON`T put your ASS on the screen, next to the scripture. LOL. Again, you are misrepresenting.
20. Judgemental people who think they know what`s best for you as if you can`t figure it out for yourself. Hell, leave me alone. I think I can decide for myself.
... this list will always be under construction...
Disclaimer for those who always have something negative to say: These are my opinions people, and if you don`t like them or don`t agree, I don`t care. Please don`t send me a note saying that you disagree. Save it for the chatroom. Invite me, I`ll show up. LOL.
On of my favorite poems...
Dance Like No One`s Watching
Just a little inspiration. . .
We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren`t old enough and we`ll be more content when they are. After that we`re frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage.
We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire. The truth is, there`s no better time to be happy than right now.
If not now, when? Your life will always be filled with challenges. It`s best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.
One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D Souza. He said,
"For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first,some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life".
This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness.
Happiness is the way.
So, reassure every moment that you have. Treasure it more because you shared it with someone special,special enough to spend your time...and remember that time waits for no one...
So stop waiting until you finish school,
until you go back to school,
until you lose ten pounds,
until you gain ten pounds,
until you have kids,
until your kids leave the house,
until you start work,
until you retire,
until you get married,
until you get divorced,
until Friday night,
until Sunday morning,
until you get a new car or home,
until your car or home is paid off,
until spring,
until summer,
until fall,
until winter,
until you are off welfare,
until the first or fifteenth,
until your song comes on,
until you`ve had a drink,
until you`ve sobered up,
until you die,
until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy...
Happiness is a journey, not a destination.
Thought for the day:
Work like you don`t need money,
Love like you`ve never been hurt,
And...
Dance like no one`s watching.
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