ugetwatugive Why do you people from Ghana think that the people in America are stupid enough to send you money???? - Mar 17 add/view comments (0)

What's good everyone. It has been a short minute since I have been here. So no, I am not new here. I just had to leave for a minute so that I could put some things in perspective. Things got crazy and I needed a cool down period. However, now I am back and on some new improved stuff. No time for games, no time for childish mess, so if that is what you are bringing then "KIM" in other words (Keep It Moving) My relationship status is still single. Well, single and waiting actually. No I am not looking. I know now that I will have to wait for my true Queen to find me. So until then, I will be patient and be vigilant.

Things to think about before contacting me or even thinking about wanting a relationship with me. I know that it all sounds harsh, but I have to do what I have to do to make sure that I don't go through anymore bullvine fecal matter.

Think:
1. Am I the type of woman that will tell a man that I will call him on a certain day at a certain time and then don't call him? If this is you then you don't need to contact me.
2. Am I the type of woman who will set up a date with a man and then not show up or call(Stand him up)and then expect him to understand or give you a second chance when you don't deserve it? If this is you then you don't need to contact me.

3. Will you flip and try to think that you can control me once I agree to committ to serious relationship with you? If this is you, you don't need to contact me.

4. Do you think that I have issues from what is written here? If so, then you don't need to contact me!!!


5. Do you feel or think that you should be able to call me a Nigger, Nigga, Nigra, Negro, or any other derogatory term as such? If so, Keep it moving for for real, kick rocks, go to school, get an education, and then learn how to grow up. I am not going to accept you calling me a %#&@$!, nigga, nigra, or negro. I don't care if that is just how you talk. Keep it moving if you can't talk like an educated person. Being black doesn't mean we have to be ignorant.

What I have written are just a few of the behavioral issues that a lot of women have. These are definite red flags for me.
If when you meet a man and the first thing that comes out of your mouth is "Well, I am a Christian woman." Keep it moving and definitely do not contact me!!!!!!!!!!
Any woman can be a good woman, it doesn't matter what your religious affiliation is. You telling me that you are a Christian woman tells me nothing but the fact that you are a hypocrite and I can't trust you no further than I can throw 1000 lbs.

I am not here to judge you, it doesn't matter to me what your religious affiliations or cultural affiliations are in my book. I look at, observe, and determine by the content of your character and your abilities or inabilities to satisfy me. It is not how much money you have, or make, it is not what you have and or don't have. Trust me it is not about that. However, what it is about is what we can build together. Let me know if you feel me on this.

I just had to put this up. Too many women think that their religious, cultural affiliations exonerate them from bad character, bad choices, and keep them from being included in with the rest of the hood rats.

I am self employed! Which means that I work for my self. However, that doesn't mean that I am rich and have money to spend and splurg on trivial things. I keep it simple and try to save my money for more important things. Like taking care of my children, saving to buy a house, car, pay off bills, keep my business running, and making sure that I have what I need. If these are things that you can't understand then by all means KIM and Kick Rocks. One!!!!