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Hello B.P !  

I hope that all is well with each and every person that visits my page.

To the Men and Women serving our country:

Thank You!!!

 Here is a quick run down about the things that makes me, me:

I am a super SINGLE super laid back 29year old mommy of 2 lil ones...(pics in my album). I am an INDEPENDENT, HARD WORKING, LOYAL, EDUCATED, HONEST, INTELLIGENT, FUN LOVING, POSITIVE, DRAMA FREE, CARING, PEACEFUL, HUMBLE, OUTGOING,  RESPECTFUL and COMPASSIONATE woman with a big heart and an even bigger smile!!

I DO NOT SMOKE at all, and I will drink socially or durring a football game! (Football is may favorite sport hands down but I will watch or go to other sporting events also)

I am not on this site looking for a sex buddy nor a one night stand, so if thats what you are about, please refrain from contacting me in anyway, shape or form....

I am also not on this site to play games with people.  Bull%#&@$! is my pet peev, and I refuse to put up with it point blank, period.

Im looking for friends with substance...( that doesnt mean substance abuse y'all..) lol On a serious note  though, I do not like smokers.....regardless of what they smoke.  I dont do drugs of any type and Im looking for the same in a friend.

 Not to sound rude or mean but I also dont care for guys who are shorter than 6ft tall....only because, I am a tall woman  who wears heels anytime I feel like it... and I dont want anyone with a complex about a woman being taller than he is. 

I am seeking someone who is completely INDEPENDENT, has his own place, car, job etc such as I have.  This person should be College Educated and a high school grad with a good upbringing, great morals and values, a great head on his shoulders and an honest heart.

Past that, I am really not all that picky....If you would like to know more including things like what I do for fun etc,...leave me a note AFTER you have read the rest of this page..cool? 

Thanks for reading this.. 

If anyone is interested in what Im about, Please read the following section in its entirety.

• Structure

I am all about the build of ones self. Self worth,  Morals, Values, Mind set, Integrity etc.

• Relationship with God

Trust and believe I am nowhere near perfect, nor do i claim to be. I have many many issues reguarding living in my flesh sometimes. I am a human, still working on my spirituality.  I am just now starting to realize that in order for me to be stronger in the lord, I need to surround myself with God fearing people whom also have a personal relationship with God. 

• Goal Achievement

Look I have & have had goals in life, some of which i have achieved and others that Im still working on.  I need the people I converse with to be the same.  This doesnt just mean have goals-  this also means achieve them.  Im not interested in the average person that sets a goal, starts it, but never achieves it or is still talkn about a goal  years later but does nothing action wise to reach it.  Actions speak louder than words.  I need a Go Getta like myself.

• Positivity

I think lightly.  Im usually happy and tend to keep an open outlook on most things hence the screen name UNIQUEOUTLOOK.  Please dont shatter my peacefulness with your negitivity.         ( I think I just made up a word... but you catch my drift)

• Realism

Yes I said It!!!   I am comfortable in my own skin.  I feel no need to portray myself to be something or someone im not.  I am secure.  What you see is what you get and if you dont like it,  there's some rocks you can kick on the way out of my life........ What im saying is Be you. Be the best you, you can be and if that isnt good enuff for You, change the way you depict yourself to you, and not others.  Keep things 100% ALWAYS.

• Character

This goes again with what I just said above this.  With character comes sincerity. Im not going to promise you the world or give my word if I have no intentions on following through.  Be the same.

• Honesty

Does this really need an explanation???? Come on Y'all, lets be Grown for a min!!!

• Physical appearence and hygine

Oh my gosh y'all..... I have gone there and will continue to go there until I have stopped seeing the following:

1. Nasty Dreads, Sisterlocks, and Locs.

I understand the "Southern" look, the messy and "fresh outa bed" style... But Damn It... Be clean with yours or dont say crap to me!!!!  Theres no such thing as not being able to wash them!!!!  There are products for that.. Trust me I know about every last one!!!  Keep them up fellas. Dont just let them go by the wayside cuz you're to lazy or broke to take care of them!!  Thats nasty and looks like rats have been sleeping in them...eeeeewwww!!!!  Step your Grown and Sexy Man game up and take care of your hair.  If you cant, cut that crap OFF!!!

        2. Hole infested clothing and shreaded bottoms of pants legs.

Really Men??  Is this a Bad joke? What the Hell?  Fellas,  If you didnt purchase the clothing with manufactured holes in them.... Stop wearing old, worn out, raggs to dumpster clothing!!  this goes for everyone.. Including smokers!!!!   Its not cute, sexy nor  a new trend!!!  Guys theres nothing wrong with having pants that are long... but for crying out loud, dont drag them!!!   If they do rip, fine. Cut the threads off and make sure it doesnt happen again ok?  Geez

      3. Pants sagging.

Looks like you have on a DIRTY diaper..... Dude, NOT Grown and Sexy. Period. End of story.

      4. Dirty or overly sprayed clothing.

Everyone knows what Im talking about.  That shirt you only wore to dinner, Thoes jeans you just ran to the store in, The basketball shorts you washed the car in..etc.  Look, Fabreeze isnt an excuse to re-wear thoes items.  If you have put them on your body for more than a 5min look in the mirror, THEY ARE DIRTY!!!!  Wash the clothes and wash your ASS!!!  ( see, I told yall i need Jesus!!! )   FaBreeze is great for bathrooms, sports equiptment u cant wash, furnature, closets with old smellin shoe funk, garages etc.  We all know clothes fit in the washer so WASH THEM.  The same thing goes for people who use cologne.

      5.  Nasty Teeth and Breath.

Its not funny when someone ends a date or has to offer you gum, mints, or the business card to thier local dentist.  Need I say more?  Mouthwash, a toothbrush, toothpaste and a Dentist works just fine. Thank you for your time...lol

      6. Dirty Face, Nose, or  Ears.

UMMMM where to begin?  y do I wanna look at your dirty face with sleep in your eyes, crumbs on your mouth( or even worse- last nights p***y juices from your one night stand), and lint in your eyebrow hairs?  Cleanliness  is next to God... so ima need you to get there.      Washcloths with your choice of soap or bodywash is cool for your face.. For the metro sexualls- cotton balls, facial scrubs and sponges can make you feel like a new man!!!  Q-tips for my type of men who dont dig in their nose , are great for gettin thoes nasty boogies off your nostral hairs..(lol) And lets start using the Q-tips fpr ears too.

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7.To be continued..... I am currently updating this info however ive got to cool off for a min. stay tuned and   please come back for the rest of my " blogging" lmao!!!  God bless.

 ======================== =================== ===================== ------------------------------ ------------------------------ ---- The dumbest BP question of all time: "Why are you on here"? Huh, really? This is a social networking Web site! Which part of that don't you understand? I guess that some people think asking irrelevant questions is a substitute for having a real conversation, but it's not. I don't mean to sound like an @sshole, but there really are some ig'nant people on here. Men and women alike. *Sigh* ------------------------------ ------------------------------ ----------------------Thought of the moment: Nothing ------------------------------ ------------------------------ ---- Rant of the moment: Why does 99.9999 percent of the people on BP seem to think that just because someone takes a look at their profile that something is going to jump off?-------------------------- ------------------------------ ---- I mean, yeah, there are some good looking people on here as well as some not so good looking. Then again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I've lived long enough and experienced enough in my life to know that, when it comes right down to it, looks don't mean a damn thang. They sure do help though!!!I believe that personality and looks are what counts in the long run. Besides, no one is ever as fine as they think they are. I truly think most people are simply delusional!------------------- ------------------------------ -- Why does it matter what a person looks like if they have no conversation to go with it?? Well, maybe some people don't mind a person who is as boring as watching paint dry, but it bothers the hell out of me.--------------------------- ----------------------------- Over the years I have found out that most people on here really don't have much to say about anything. Every once in a very rare while someone interesting will come along, but for the most part most folks on here seem to just be ig'nant and only care about TRYING to project some sort of gangsta mentality. IG'NANT! When did it become cool to be stupid, ignorant and uneducated? ------------------------------ ------------------------------ ---- Oh, my original reason for posting this rant was to say, just because I look at your page doesn't mean that I want you and just because you come to my page doesn't mean that I think you want me! If I decide to say hello to you or pay you a compliment, then that's all it is! Nothing more, nothing less. ============================== ============================== ====================== Thank you for your time!! ------------------------------ ------------------------------ ---- <!--<!--<!-->--> ;