4_the_first_time

Hey well here you are ,looking for that good man you have dreamed about, you have seen many, but something just not right, what could it be.
Maybe he is not tall enough, or sexy enough or maybe he does not know what to say to you when you need to hear what it is you want to hear or may be he lied, cheated, called you out of your name or just for got about you,well I am sorry for that, he not only hurt you, but now he has hurt me, now I am to hard for you to see, because I remind you of him, but I am not him.
If I was him you would not be here, it?s many men who are fools, they have you and don?t know what to do, with you.
But I do, I will kiss you, just to kiss you, I will hold you, just to hold you, I will talk to you about what ever it is you want to talk about, just to hear your voice, and your heart.
I will find out what makes you smile and give that to you, I will be your friend and your man.
I will take your heart and put it with mine, and keep them both safe.
I understand you have heard it all before, so you know when you are being lied to ,do I sound like I am lying to you.
If so leave and continue your journey.
But to you that have stayed, I want to start by empting your heart, taking all the pain and hurt and confusion and set it free, it?s not needed here.
You can?t smile, if you steady crying, if you holding on to the pain.
Right now, you have the chance to start over, the way you want things to be, they can be.
You can love and be loved, you can be happy even though, you heard that it?s to late, no matter how many kids or baby fathers that you have, no matter how many mistakes you have made.
You can still have what it is you want, just remember you also have to be right too, you have to be a woman to a man.
You have done what you have done to get your home, car, what ever it is, you must also do what you got to do to get your man or keep him.
Family, it?s all about family.
Wanting a man by your side to understand and respect you, to show he care, to show you he really love you is normal.
You are not crazy, because you want to be love, you are crazy for not letting him love you, that want to love you, because of the things he do not have, as long as one of you have it ya?ll have it, my fault it?s not like that not more, it?s new rules.
He who has nothing is nothing, right!
Wrong, the table has been set, so why must something be brought.
What would you do, when you are in love, anything.
Well, why want you do anything, to get that love and keep it.


I am a good man, with a good heart.
I know what to do, if I am wrong, you will only be where you have started, just with more understanding.
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I AM EVERY MAN YOU HAVE DEALT WITH AND WILL DEAL WITH,I AM THE ONE YOU HAVE LOVED AND HATED,I AM ALSO THE ONE WHO HAVE HURT YOU AND HELP YOU,YOU CAN LOOK BACK AND SEE THE FACE'S AND WHAT THEY HAVE DONE GOOD OR BAD.I UNDERSTAND BECAUSE I LOOK AT ME THE SAME WAY YOU DO,AND I SEE WHAT YOU SEE AND FEEL WHAT YOU FEEL AND HEAR WHAT YOU HEAR AND THATS HOW I AM ABLE TO MAKE YOU SMILE,BECAUSE I KNOW NOW....MANY MEN SAY THEY UNDERSTAND,AND THEY KNOW BUT WHAT IS IT THAT THEY REALLY KNOW,BECAUSE IF THEY KNEW WHAT WE KNEW,THEY WOULD BE ME....AND I AM ME