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Member Since Dec 01, 2006

Real Name New O

Age 24

Gender Male

Location Alexandria, VA

Relationship Status Single

Dating Preference Female

Race Black/African American

Primary Job Category Arts, Entertainment, and Media, Computers, Hardware, Computers, Software, Information Technology, Publishing/Printing

Astrological Sign Aquarius

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UPDATE 10-14-09: I'M LEAVING BP, MY WEB SITES WILL BE UP SOON !!!!

UPDATE 05-29-09: On Tuesday 05-26-09 They took my nigga, my cuzin tootie !! He was found shot in the head in New Orleans, Louisiana. He was visiting his hometown of New Orleans when he got into it with someone off the street. They had an altercation and afterwards the gunman shot him once in the hand, and once in the head. He later Died on Tuesday 05-26-09. CHESTER REEDER A.K.A. TOOTIE A.K.A. YUNG HOLLA/BOSS HOLLA !!!

R.I.P. MY NIGGA

UPDATE 01-21-09: ITS OFFICIAL BP !!!!!!!!
MY BIRTHDAY IS TOMORROW EVERYBODY, I'M LOOKING TO CELEBRATE.....ALL WEEKEND, ANY SUGGESTIONS WHERE Y'ALL GONNA BE ??? LET ME KNOW AND THE BAYOU BOY WILL COME THROUGH !! LET'S CELEBRATE TOGETHER !!!

UPDATE 01-20-09: ITS OFFICIAL BP !!!!!!!!
I WAS THERE !!!!! OK EVERYBODY IM DOING A SHORT VIDEO ON THE INAUGURATION AND CELEBRATIONS THAT WERE A PART OF THIS HISTORIC EVENT. HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE PICS VIDEO OR BOTH THAT THEY WANNA SHARE ?? HIT ME UP AND LET ME KNOW.

UPDATE 12-11-08: ITS OFFICIAL BP !!!!!!!!
I HAVE GRADUATED FROM COLLEGE, THE CEREMONY WAS YESTERDAY....... I HAVE A DEGREE !!! NOW IM TRYING TO GET IN THE GOVERNMENT AND WORK FOR OBAMA !! ANYWAY CAN Y'ALL SHOW YA MAN SOME LOVE AND LEAVE SOME CONGRATS IN MY GUEST BOOKS ?? DO THAT AND HOLLA AT ME FOR SOME ARTWORK TOO....... IM HOLLA AT YA'LL WHILE IM OUT CELEBRATING......ANY SUGGESTIONS ??

UPDATE 11-29-08: HEY DID YALL NOTICE ALL THESE DUDES ON HERE NOW WANNA COME TO BP AND CALL THEMSELVES "Bayou Boy " this and "Bayou Boy" that ? I mean come on. Somebody need to tell these lame dudes there can be and there is only one, and it's ME. My email, logo, business name and my tag that i use when i write my stories and poetry are all under that name. Go do something original please !!! AND STOP COPYING MY %#&@$! TO YOUR LAME A$$ PAGES..... stealing aint cool cause when you steal you will kill, and if you kill it was because you was hatin.so in short all haters fall back... oh and in the words of Lil Wayne......" STOP HATIN ON A NIGGA, THAT IS THE WEAK EMOTION, THE LADY OF A NIGGA ".........until next time. oh and i need some models for my book cover ladies. so hit me up ! this is serious.!

UPDATE 11-20-08: WHUUUUUZZZZZHAAAAAAAM BP
TATTOOs anyone ? OK, I need those who are interested to hit me up asap !! I'm throwing a tattoo party on a large scale. so all tattoo artist, tattoo enthusiast (people who love getting tatted), or even virgins to tattoo who wanna get broke in: LET ME KNOW ASAP if you want to be apart of this event. please email me at bayouboyneworleans@yahoo.com In the subject line make sure you put the words "TATOO PARTY INTREST", this way I'll know you not spam or anything like that. I wanna know as soon as possible cause this will happen the week of the presidential inauguration ADN MY B-DAY !!!!!!. AGAIN THIS IS SERIOUS, DONT CONTACT ME IF ITS NOT BOUT THE PARTY !!!!!!!

UPDATE 11-04-08: IT'S OFFICIAL
MY BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE, WE HAVE OUR FIRST BLACK PRESIDENT, !!!!!! HISTORY HAS BEEN MADE.PROUD AND KNOW THAT 200 YEARS OF SUFFERING HAS FINALLY PAID OFF. I LOVE YOU MY BLACK KINGS (NO HOMO) AND QUEENS

UPDATE 10-17-08:
OK EVERY BODY THIS IS GOING TO BE THE FIRST TIME IM OUT FOR HOWARD HOMECOMING SO NATURALLY I WANT EVERYBODY TO HOLLA AT ME IF YOU SEE ME OUT THERE, ALSO HOLLA AT ME AND LET ME KNOW WHERE YOU GONNA BE AT SO I CAN COME THRU AND YOU COULD SPEND SOME TIME WITH THE DUDE !!!!

UPDATE 10-8-08:
OK, LOOK I APPRECIATE THE LOVE IM GETTING BUT YOU GUYS NEED TO CHILL OUT WITH THE COPYING MY WRITINGS, STATEMENTS, POEMS, ETC.......THIS IS A WARNING, ALL OF MY WORK IS COPYRIGHTED.... IF YOU ARE CAUGHT CLAIMING ANY OF THESE WRITINGS AS YOUR OWN (lame men who don't have sense to write stuff of their own, who use my literature to pick up women) I DO TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY AND YOU WILL BE PROSECUTED TO THE FULL EXTENT, THIS IIS NOT A JOKE, I DONT WANT TO HAVE TO WASTE MY TIME IN COURT BUT I WILL, AND I WILL WIN !!

UPDATE 09-3-08:
OK ladies and gents, i noticed that all have been on my page recently and from all over the country, i thank you all and continue to spread the knowledge on my page. ALSO.... I wanna know who will come to my new website. It is independent and will not be part of a bigger web host like BP or Myspace. How many of you think i should embark on getting my own web page and also who would support me if i published a book of all of what you see on here as well as any other issues/topics that you wanna hear about ??? LET ME KNOW IF U ACTUALLY PAY ATTENTION TO WHATS ON THE PAGE .......

Good morning BP, Good afternoon DMV, Goodnight America
How is everybody doing ? I am a 23 year old African-American
born and raised in the land of the free, state of poverty, and the
home of the Saints. I am product of NEW ORLEANS Louisiana, and
now in the DMV area. I am in school for graphic design and i plan to
continue that field of study as a career after i graduate this year. that's
right I'm bout to be done with my first degree and on my way to my second.
As of now i do graphic design as my major source of income, not a whole
lot of money but it gets me through school. When i grad I plan to be making a
nice way of life for myself though. And now to clear up some things....................
To any women trying to get to know me, if the conversation doesn't work out
then just be cool about it. Don't turn into one of the psychopathic sadistic crazy
women who slanders someones name because you mad at your self for it not
working out the way you thought it would. Just because we can be friends and
we cool don't mean i want to be a homie/lover with you. So don't expect what'S NOT
there. If it grows and something happens then that's whats up, but to be honest i
can't stand women who force themselves on someone because of the way they
look, talk, or because of there bright future.,,,,,,well I'm for the B.S. so come correct !!!!
I chase no one, and i really don't expect to be chased. So it is what it is. Holla at me.

IF YOU WANT TO ACTUALLY TALK HIT ME UP

Yahoo Messenger: bayouboyneworleans

MY MYSPACE URL IS : http://www.myspace.com/luvandabullet
OR
SEARCH 4 ME BY EMAIL: rsimmons5o4@yahoo.com

THIS IS FOR THOSE WHO REALLY WANT TO TALK WITH ME

I'm a January BABY !!!
***EST 1-22-1985***
for those who don't know what "EST" is, it means established...u know,
as in birth date....Damn come on nah i cant help you all the way !!!!

OK I SAID I WAS GOING TO LEAVE BP BUT IT SEEMS A LOT OF Y'ALL DON'T WANT ME TO GO ???? SO I'M GOING TO KEEP WRITING AND TEACHING OUR BLACK PEOPLE....OH AND FOR THE WOMEN WHO ACTUALLY TAKE TIME TO READ MY PAGE, THANKS.... YOUR WORDS ARE A BLESSING. BUT TAKE MY WORDS AND SHARE THEM WITH MALES OUT THERE SO THEY TO CAN GROW AS I HAVE ALSO GROWN. SO Y'ALL SAVE ME AS A FRIEND ON HERE AND MYSPACE....................OH AND I MAY GET MY OWN WEBSITE GOING SO Y'ALL TELL ME IF Y'ALL THINK I SHOULD !!!!!!!!!!!!!

*****SOMETHING NEW*****

I'm me, whether you like me or not, I'm me.... I'm not asking you to like me (although that would be nice) I'm still not gonna try to make you like me. I am what I am and I am what you read, since what you read is real, then what I am is real and what is real is truth ...... and since people hate what they fear and fear the truth then terrified they must be.... of what I be, and what I be is me.

PAY VERY CLOSE ATTENTION TO THE FOLLOWING SLIDES AND THE WRITINGS !!!!!!!!! PLEASE DON'T LEAVE WITHOUT WATCHING AND READING .....................THANKS BP !!!!!!!!

NOT A HURRICANE EVACUEE ANYMORE !!!!!!!!!! I'M JUST AT WAR WITH THE WORLD !!!!

NOW I WANNA SHOW YOU A DIFFERENT VIEW OF KATRINA !!!! THOSE THAT WERE LEFT BEHIND, AND FORGOTTEN......................................REST IN PEACE. BP PLEASE IF U DON'T READ OR LOOK AT ANYTHING ELSE LOOK AT THESE PHOTOS !!!!!

OK WOMEN OF COLOR, THIS IS AN ISSUE I HAVE WITH WOMEN F#KK!N DUDES WITH MATERIAL THINGS.....I WAS RECENTLY SHOWED THIS VIDEO OF A GUY WHO CLAIMS TO HAVE INFECTED 50,000 WOMEN AND SOME MEN WITH AIDS AND HIV. THIS IS A SAD DAY IN AGE. WOMEN PLEASE DON'T PUT YOURSELVES IN A POTION TO BE DEGRADED LIKE THIS...............AND WEATHER THIS VIDEO IS REAL OR NOT (which it is very possible that he has actually done this) YOU ALL SHOULD TAKE THIS AS A WARNING TO THE TYPE OF GUYS YOU DECIDE TO HAVE ONE NIGHT STANDS WITH, THE TYPE U HAVE AS FUKK FRIENDS AND THE GUYS THAT YOU JUST WANNA FUKK AND FORGET BOUT(don't act like you don't do that too, women you know you do) BUT PLEASE BEAUTIFUL WOMEN BE CARE AND BE PICKY, NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING SAFE..........UNTIL NEXT TIME, BE SAFE

*****WHAT YOU THINK*****

The way my page is set up has meaning. It shows the reason why i elevated to a new mindset....before the hurricane i was just "of age"......after the hurricane i grew up in mentality, realizing what things were important in life and what is short lived. So i guess its showing the transition between growing up and being grown. I'm 23 now and truely on my grown and sexy !!!!!!! No time to entertain B.S. I'm a grown man handling my business !!!!! If u really want a description look at the many pics of me OK...lol....But i guess I'll give y'all a little something something....lol........ I am I romantic....if u don't like it move on.........I'm from New Orleans. I will forever miss my home but the way things are i will never go back. Because of the hurricane I now lay my head in Northern VA, part of the "DMV" (The worste place on earth...lol. I am 23 years old, 6ft tall and about 185 and gaining....Tryin to get to 220(not fat but fit, im working out now so we'll see how it goes) but I'm a chocolate skin tone, short hair. I got 3 tats (currently designing about 10 more,ask and I'll tell). I'm in school full time and working part time at my college. I do IT (information tech) at the school,i also do some odesign work, but anywayz....I also play sports for the school and we're currently organizing our league team. thats whats up. Well my interest are on the side so read on.......A lil past Background: I used to work with a non profit PR company (they were full of BS).I am now an assistant director of productions at a design studio (STUDIO 500) we doing pretty good too, So thats me and what i do, at least until im finished with my Associates degree in DECEMBER this year !!!!

Oh yeah for those who are interested i do do designs, myspace pages, photos, logos, websites (personal or proffesional), artwork, video and anything you need. ALL artist, models, or anyone who need portfolio pieces, business cards, flyers, posters, music video's or documentary films (like "MTV's True Life" films following you on photoshoot sets, video sets, or everyday life.....LET ME KNOW with a note or HIT MY EMAIL and that is:

bayouboyneworleans@yahoo.com

"or"

rsimmons5o4@yahoo.com

Tell me what you need in detail (or as much as you can explain) and 'll get back with you as soon as i can and we can discuss prices.

I'm far advanced for my "Numerical Age"....defining age as a regulation of love and relationships is a cop-out ......Love has no age limit and attraction has no bounds, so why should you ???.
I'M NOT CONCEITED, I'M CONVINCED

just ask if u wanna know the rest !!!!

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"I AM A TRUE MAN"

I am a true man in essence, I got my priorities straight and now that I know what I must do to get where I wanna be.......nothing will stop me. As far as who I am in details, I am a laid back person, more of a homebody and romantic type....lol....I like to go to the lakefront( this was back in the N.O.......haven't found a lake out here yet...lol) chill out by the lake and have an outside lunch (not a "picnic" I'll explain it to you another time), I don't do clubs cause I just wore it out, I love to chill at home and watch movies, love the intimate scenes(even if we're at a bar just as long as it is not one of the typical bars....I like the upscale bars), I like reading to each other, or just cuddling up together and talking.(yes I cuddle, SO WHAT !!! lol) OK I do love sex (just getting it out), I have a high sex drive !! lol.... but anyways I guess I'm becoming a hopeless romantic. But on a more focused note, I'm in school for Graphic Design and Media ..... but when I finish that I'm go back to major in web design and multimedia. I also just recently started working for a government contracting agency. I am Chief Director of Teen Advancement. So yeah I'm focused. I want to get into real estate but not selling houses, I'm trying to own rental and corporate properties. I have been through a lot in my past but I'm glad i did because it has made me who I am today. Sometimes I can be stubborn, but then again who isn't at times.....lol......As far as friends I have a select few because I've learned what true friendship is......To me its not about how many "cool" friends you have, or who's in the "in-crowd", but more about who has your back. A true friend doesn't turn away from you for "ANY" reason unless you do something to ruin the friendship. I also believe that a relationship is more than "dating" someone you like ............. When you in a relationship, you're in a sort of "binding contract". Within certain boundaries of course. It's a 50/50 thing and no other way... To me, the man in a relationship should be the stronghold, the provider. The woman should stay at home and take care of the family........ sometimes its the other way around or its both man and woman doing both. Either of these is fine but a sense of family must be there. Now remember I am only 22 but i am a true man in essence. I have a lot to learn but I also have a lot to teach.

"The Picnic"

In the previous passage, "I AM A TRUE MAN", I mentioned i would not make use of the word "picnic". O.K. let me explain this. Back in the G (way back then)..... slave owners used to have "outdoor-lunches" and what they would do was "pick-a-nigga" and then have a barbecue while they burned the slave at the stake, being a man, woman, or child. So that's where the word "picnic" comes from..... This is just to drop some knowledge on ya and watch what you say if you don't know what it means.

Ive been through a lot lately but I'm finally getting my priorities straight. Just thought I might share some thoughts with you.

4 the ladies,
"Difference between a man and a boy:"

THE DIFFERENCES ARE........

A boy imitates the movies,
Always trying to be a "mac",
A man posses the inner strength,
To love a woman back.
A boy looks at your body,
While a man can see your soul,
He knows you have much
more to offer,
And with you, he can grow.
A boy will ask you to spend the night,
But a man would ask you to share his life,
A boy hunts for a "piece",
As a man yearns for a wife.
A boy will leave you insecure,
While you wonder where he is,
With a man you`re always reassured,
Because a man takes care of his.
Boys can give you moments,
While a man brings memories,
He values things like trust and honor
And in you, he will believe.

"What is a Relationship ???"

* Is it a one-sided struggle or is it a two-sided adventure???
* Is it a bothersome hassle that adds to daily stress or does it relieve all the pressures of long stressful workday ????
* Do you dread waking up to another day of arguing and bickering or is he/she the reason you wake up in the morning ????
* Do you wish you could run away from from it all or do you want to run away with him/her ??
* Do you think of reasons to leave or do you find ways to make it better ????
* Do blame the him/her for all your problems or do you thank him/her for caring enough to get involved ???
* Would you love to leave him/her or would you die without him/her ???
* Would you save your life and leave him/her to die or would you risk everything including your life for his/hers ????
* Do wake up every morning with him/her on your mind ???
* Do you think about how your every move affects his/her life before you make your decision ????

"What King Can Stand Up Without A Queen ??"

OK peoples, Can someone answer this for me ?? I need some insight on this. Most men claim that they can make it without a woman, and this may be true, BUT what man is gonna make it and stand without his woman and can actually say he's happy. Come on brothers, our women are the most difficult women to deal with, But they are the most loving, beautiful, caring, and supportive women.....( WHEN WE DO RIGHT BY THEM). A woman can be so difficult to get along with but at the same time when we need a shoulder to lean on or when we are down in the dumps, who do we go to ??? Certainly not your "Patna's"... No ! You go to your woman, the only one you know you can trust. The woman that has your child, or the one you always go to when something goes wrong, what about your best female friend, what about the one you cool with but you never tried to holla at knowing you love her dearly but never told her. We as black men need to realize the significance of our women. They are the one that bring you into this world, stick by your side when they know you wrong, let you feel like the man you think you are, and love you till the end of time. So why is it that we steadily hurt our women ??? why is it that we think that being a "player" or "pimp" is what a being man is all about. I got news for you , ITS NOT COOL AT ALL !! Get ya stuff together and start treating your woman right.. They are our only true support. We should love our queens and treat them just as they deserve to be treated. They are the one taking care of our children by their selves cause some of us don't wanna take responsibility for our own actions........Just imagine if every single mother didn't wanna deal with the sons that were left for them to fend for. We would be in some deep %#&@$!. What bout when you went to jail, who put money on ya books ?? Who picked you up from the jail on release day, who held the gun and took the charge cause u had a warrant, who stuck by you when u was hustling, who took care of you when you had no job or no money, who gave you all of her even though she was hurt before, who talks "to" you and not "at" you, who is there as a lover and a friend, who let you back in their life when u cheated, who looks over all your flaws, who is there for you when the whole world has turned its back on you ?? These are our "QUEENS" and we need to treat them that way. So next time you think about calling her a %#&@$!, or cheating on her, or just leaving her after you've had your fill, Think about this. She is a queen, she is your queen and there will never be another like her !!!!

********JUST SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT ********

* a BOY dreams of life but only a MAN lives his dream !!!!

* any male can be a daddy but only a MAN can be a FATHER !!!!

* Onlya man`s WOMAN can correct him. But only a MAN can admit when he is wrong and correct his mistakes !!!!

*A Man can "survive" his whole life with a woman by his side. But no man can ever realize how "precious life is" or "how to live and enjoy life" without that same woman.

* Only a poor rat makes one hole !!! ****What this means is that when a man has a job and is to heavily dependent on that one job and doesn't have any other options, when that job comes to an end he will have no where to go and will eventually run out of money. On the other hand the man who kept his options open will always have somewhere to go and in which case will always have a source of income. Don't be a poor rat !!!!!

* You can attract more bees with honey than you would with Vinegar !!! ****what this means is that in order to get a positive response or to attract the "right" kind of attention you must be kind and respectful and you will get that in return !!!!

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"Ways to make a girl smile . . . . ."

*1 . Tell her she is beautiful, not hot, fine or sexy.
*2 . Hold her hand at any moment even if it just for a second.
*3 . Kiss her on the forehead.
*4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
*5 . Always tell her you love her at any and all times.
*6 . When she is upset hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
*7 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
*8 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.
*9 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
*10 . Write her notes. {she loves them}
*11 . Introduce her to family and friends as your girlfriend.
*12 . Play with her hair.
*13 . Tickle her and play-wrestle with her.
*14 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.
*15 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just tell her jokes.
*16 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night just because you missed her.
*17 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.
*18. Carve your names into a Tree.
*19 . If she`s mad at you, kiss her.
*20 . Make her cards.
*21 . Bring her Flowers just because.
*22 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you?re alone.
*23 . Look her in the eyes and smile.
*24 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
*25 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn`t any music playing.
*26 . Kiss her in the rain.
*27 . If you?re in love with her . . . Tell her

I WILL BE ADDING SOME SO IF YOU GOT ANY SUGGESTIONS LADIES, LET ME KNOW !!!!!

All these writings are from me, meaning i wrote it and this is all me !!!! But these writings that you are about to read took the most thought even though they flow out of me like water....................These are writings that came from deep in my heart....tell me what y'all think !!!!

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"OLD LOVE"

Out of the ash it rises..... fueled by the oxygen of past relations, it burns as bright as it did when it first lit. not wanting to put it out, I sit and stare at it in awe, trying to trace back to the moment the fire first ignited........ Was it when i was cold and lonely or just in need of a flame ??? Or was it a desire for something deeper ?? Why did i light that fire ?? I think it was the curiosity of of being burned.......or hurt, or to become one with the flames. Being connected with the flames for eternity till u burn out together or your oxygen is cut short. But lighting the fire I'll never regret. For when it burned it burned with a magnificent flame, as bright as the northern Star !!!! And for all who were in it immediate presence, it was a great fire....fighting to exist, fighting to have meaning, fighting for the right to burn as freely and with out restriction as does the sun. So putting out the old flame is not an option. In fact its forbidden. I'll let it burn and even add fuel.........just to see.......just to see will it survive......will it blaze as brightly as it did when when it first ignited ..........But until then its still an old flame, loved just the same, but still an old flame.

"I wanna understand you women !!!!!"

What made me wanna understand you is.....i went over my past relationship of 4 yrs, and i could not see what i did wrong,but i saw things i could change. So i concluded that i didn't wanna make any mistakes in the next relationship i got into. I also had to understand y i hurt so much cause of not just past relationships but because of the past family and life issues that Ive had. i want to be the man and father i never had in my life. i want to a better husband than what my father as to my mom. i want my wife to say "that man is my morning sun and evening star". I want my kid to say " I love my daddy" even when their grown. I want to give the love i never got. But in order for me to that i had to understand that I'm am only half of what i desire to be without the righteous woman by my side.....the woman is a mans backbone and life force. So that's why i wanna understand you, cause i wanna learn....learn to love, learn to care, learn to live........will u teach me ???

"Why I Cant Cal U My "Boo", "Babe", or "Shorty" ???"

Someone told me she don't like to be called these names because she doesn't like nor does she except disrespect. She only wants respect and she gives the same back. if She's the woman on your arm then she likes to be treated as a lady not a chicken head or whatever y'all calling them now. ...........................................................................................................................................................................MY RESPONSE IS SIMPLE: One man can call u his boo meaning u just a girl on the side and another can call you boo meaning your the love of his life. One man can call you shorty meaning that you one of the average chicks he holla's at on a daily basis and another man would refer to you as shorty because you intimidate him and he doesn't know how to approach you , because to him you are the most beautiful woman hes ever seen. Babe to one man might refer to u as being again, just the average chicken head, bu to another man it might describe your sex appeal, body, language, and/or mentality( all these can make you a total babe)

"BEWARE OF THE SNAKES IN THE GRASS"

And out of the bushes i crawl and several snakes in my hand, but not mine. Just revealing those that have surrounded family and friends. But were not visible until the grass was cut short.

"BEWARE OF THE SNAKES IN THE GRASS"

They are like lions lurking in the grass hunting gazelle. Waiting in the grass, hungry not for a meal but for disaster !!! Is it their purpose to cause friction in relationships and friendships ??? Be careful of who you keep in your company for they might be snakes, well camouflaged to look like friends.

"BEWARE OF THE SNAKES IN THE GRASS"

Their venom not of poison as you think it but it is poison to the minds of those who fall victim to thier lies and deceit. Their diets not consisting of mice and small critters, but of friendship, peace, love and morallity. Bonds that were considered to be unbreakable made easily digestible in the bowels of hate, greed, jealously, and desecration. Biting into to love and venom of not poison but deception. Spreading like a vile infection breaking up couples and friendships, destroying marriages and feasting on the frailties of love.

"BEWARE OF THE SNAKES IN THE GRASS"

But amongst these false friends and haters I rise from the bushes, from the woods, from the grass, and from the shadows with snakes grasped in each hand and a warriors smile. Showing the rest if any left, that they cannot break me, make me, or shatter my dreams.

So i warn you ........." BEWARE OF THE SNAKES IN THE GRASS"

OUT OF THE BUSHES I RISE WITH SNAKES IN BOTH HANDS

When it comes to women What should i do ????? I find myself asking these questions all the time........ ARE THEY ANY WOMEN LIKE THIS OUT THERE ??? ALL I WANT IS A GOOD WOMAN BY MY SIDE !!!!!!! CAN I GET THAT ??? THAT'S ALL I WANT FOR CHRISTMAS !!!!!!!!! SOMEBODY PLEASE TELL SANTA !!!!!! HE JIPPED ME LAST TIME AND GAVE ME A HEADACHE !!!!

"SHOULD I ?"

1-Touch their waist
2-Talk to them
3-Share secrets
4-Give her your jacket
5-Kiss them slowly
6-Hug her
7-Hold her
8-Laugh with her
9-Invite her somewhere
10-Let her be with you when you're with your friends
11-Smile with her
12-Take pics with her
13-Pull her onto your lap
14-When she says she loves you more, deny it. fight back
15-When her friends say I love her more than you, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends. It makes her feel loved
16-Always hug her and say I love you when you see her
17-Kiss her unexpectedly
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST!!!
19-Tell her shes BEAUTIFUL!!! not sexy!
20-Tell her the way you feel about her!
21-Kiss her on the lips
22-DON'T ask her to buy you stuff. YOU!!! Buy HER stuff
23-TELL HER WHAT FEELS GOOD
24-Make her feel loved
25-BUY her stuff. small things can still help
26-DON'T lie to her
27-DON'T cheat on her
28-Take her anywhere she wants
29-Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
30-Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).
34. While in the movie, put YOUR arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. DON'T ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her...
36. When people diss her,STAND UP for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always Remind her how much you love her.

AGAIN IS THERE ANY WOMAN WHO LIKES THOSE THINGS OUT THERE ??? IF SO CAN I HAVE YOUR HEART ???

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Hey Ladies !!!! CAN I ASK YOU SOME QUESTIONS ???

Would/will you?
[_] come to my house to do nothing at all but chill?
[_] fight me?
[_] ........ me?
[_] kiss me?
[_] lick me?
[_] let me kiss you?
[_] watch a movie with me?
[_] go out to dinner with me?
[_] let me drive you somewhere?
[_] take a shower with me?
[_] drink with me?
[_] take me home for the night?
[_] let me sleep in your bed?
[_] Sing car karaoke w/ me?
[_] re-post this for me to answer your questions?
[_] Lock me in your room and take advantage of me?
[_] let me make you breakfast?
[_] help me with homework?
[_] tickle me?
[_] let me tickle you?
[_] stick up for me if i was being put down?
[_] instant message me?
[_] greet me in public?
[_] hang out with me?
[_] bring me around your friends?
[_] be down with me no matter what?
[_] go to prom with me?

D0 Y0U...
[_] think I'm cute?
[_] think I'm serious?
[_] think I'm a good person
[_] think I'm conceited?
[_] want to kiss me?
[_] want to cuddle with me?
[_] want to hook up with me?
[_] want to *Do* me?
[_] think I would do you?

AM I...
[_] smart?
[_] cute?
[_] funny?
[_] cool?
[_] romantic?
[_] a *freak*?
[_] gangsta?
[_] lovable?
[_] adorable?
[_] trustworthy
[_] compassionate?
[_] great to be with?
[_] attractive?
[_] mean?
[_] well known?

HAVE Y0U EVER...
[_] thought about hooking up with me?
[_] found yourself wanting a kiss from me?
[_] wished I were there?
[_] had a crush on me?
[_] wanted my number?
[_] had a dream about me?
[_] been distracted by me?
[_] wanted to see my private part?
[_] looked at my page more than ten times?

ARE Y0U...
[_] happy you know me?
[_] horny?
[_] thinking about me? [Obviously doing the quiz.]
[_] wanting to call me to talk about these things?
[_] going to re post this?

Copy this and send me answers in a note. I would like to know who is actually paying attention to me ??

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"WHAT IF"

If you find somebody your compatible with then do what it takes to make it work. Love is not far away !!! Its hard to find love but when you do you'll be happier than u will ever be. Even if you got to fight to make it work, do that and you will notice life will be a lot more pleasant. If that person down for you then be down for them. Keep them close to you and love them and then u will see that true love overcomes everything........ So love hard and love strong, they will do the same and you'll never love wrong !!!!!!!

Well maybe if women would make more time from there man, then maybe, just maybe there would be more time to have a real mentally stimulating convo. Women are so caught up on what they want and how they want their life to go that, that they forget its a 50/50 thing. If you want to have a more in dept convo....talk to us, BEFORE 10 p.m. Make time out of your busy schedule, no matter how stressed you may be, just to talk to us about your day. Even if its like "hey baby, just called to tell u I'm busy doing work and I'll call u after I'm done". That sh!t right there is enough for us to know you not doing us wrong and that you're thinking bout us. You know if y'all was on the other end y'all would want us to do the same....Riiiiiiiiight ???? Well all I'm slaying is that y'all need to hold y'all end of the bargain. If you so desperately want someone to treat you right then try treating us right too..........................

Why is it that women get mad when a man is a little to tired or busy to talk like usual ???? I mean U knoW we out there to make a better situation for both sides. Or maybe we might be in love and afraid to admit it and pull away to be safe. We might be scared of a negative reaction from y'all. Y'all know y'all be trippin bout that "LOVE" thing. Y'all always afraid to share ya true feelings and never wanna be real with us. So don't be surprised if we become distant. Lets get it strait we wont hurt you but if u be strait up with us then the relationship will be the same as the day it began.

Ladies, one question for yall.

OK Why must we suffer for the bad ??? I know some random "nigga" might have done you wrong, But why do you make us suffer ??? Now you know we might be the best thing going for you now and u will still refuse to let the past go. Y'all will treat us if we bout to do wrong, like we were the ones that did u wrong in the first place. C'mon nah. Y'all need to realize that this might work. Give us a chance to prove to you that were not like the preceding "niggas". We are the right man. Mr. "Mutha %#&@$!in" Right, Ya heard me !!!

So get at me and leave some comments on this one

Despite the hurricane Katrina events and then moving back and forth from VA to the N.O. and back again, I am getting back on my feet. And I`m still planning on doing big things !!!! Guess What Y'all, I`m Single and looking !!!! Soooo, "Holla at cha boy" !!!!!!!

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My heart goes out to all my fellow Katrina Victims. We will rise again and when we do we will be more powerful than before.

Big Shout Outs to my peoples in da504, 9th ward, and da whole Down town New Orleans.

And to ma peeps

Edd aka. Kole-(Best Friend)
Los aka. THE GENERAL
Jerry aka. J-ROC
Daniel aka DAPPA (Ladies especially need to cop my dawg album, the music is off the chain)
Nina-(you know u mah big sista for real and always)
MeatHead-(what can i say bout you???lol......Been my dog and will be till the end)
Diamond Baby-(we still gonna drop the album)
Bobby aka.-(big ups and respect to you for doing the father thing the right way)

Say, y'all i know we split for the Storm but we WILL be back together !!!

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DON'T PLAY WITH ME ........SIGN THE THE G-BOOK OR GET NO RESPONSE !!

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