Personal InfoMember Since December 01, 2003 Age 43 Gender Female Last Login Location Auburn Hills, MI Relationship Status Divorced Dating Preference Male Race Black, White Education Vocational Primary Job Category Administrative and Support Services Astrological Sign Cancer |
CashmierQTBOTTOM LINE: If you have a wife/woman/girlfriend/live-in lover or any thing of the sort, do NOT try to holla at me! I am an honest and direct woman. I have no time or patience for lies, games and CHEATERS so please respect your relationships. If we all treat one another the way we ourselves would want to be treated, this would no longer be an issue...nuff said. I am looking for a SERIOUS relationship, I`m in my 40's...I`m not interested in booty calls, long-term casual dating or a 13-year BOYFRIEND! LOL I want a MAN (and I do stress the word MAN, and if you don`t know what that entails, move on), who is ready to move forward with me towards marriage, (and note that I did say MAN, for those of you with other sexual preferences...I ain`t the one! ya heard?). Now, if this isn`t you, feel free to exit stage left and move on to the next profile. Otherwise, feel free to read on... I apologize in advance if you are offended by the tone of this profile, however I do not apologize for what was/is said, I mean it. First, trust that I am NOT in the least stuck up or self centered. Some will say that I`m bitter and they have a right to their own opinions, I say... I`m BETTER (and wiser). I am a very happy individual with a pretty fulfilling life, lots of family and friends who love me, but I am fed up with men who abuse my kindness (if this doesn`t apply to you, then disregard). I know what I want and I am not accepting anything less than what I deserve, again I apologize in advance if this is offensive to anyone but this is 2008, it`s time to do ME! So if I don`t respond to your note, it`s probably because I`m not interested. Feel me? Now, with that said... Hey BP, allow me to introduce myself. You can call me "Cash" or "Cashmier". I`ve updated my page a lil bit for the `07, couple new pics n` such. Hope you enjoy. Oh, I guess I do need to reinstate...if you have no picture to offer, please don`t bother sending a note, it`s only fair. One thing you must absolutely know about me: I live by the words "I give as good as I get"...do not expect to receive what you are not willing to offer. Treat me like the Queen I am, and you will be treated like the King you are...Nuff said Anyhoo folx, enjoy your time on THE planet and THIS planet because tomorrow is definitely not promised. God Bless  ******************************************* WHEN I SAY..."I AM A CHRISTIAN" When I say..... "I am a Christian" I`m not shouting "I`m clean livin" I`m whispering "Iwaslost" Now I`m found and I`m forgiven. When I say... "I am a Christian" I don`t speak of this with pride. I`m confessing that I stumble and need CHRIST to be my guide. When I say.... "I am a Christian" I`m not trying to be strong. I`m professing that I`m weak and need HIS strength to carry on. When I say.... "I am a Christian" I`m not bragging of success. I`m admitting I have failed and need God to clean my mess. When I say.... "I am a Christian" I`m not claiming to be perfect, My flaws are far too visible but, God believes I am worth it. WhenI say... "I am a Christian" I still feel the sting of pain, I have my share of heartaches So I call upon His name. When I say.... "Iam a Christian" I`m not holier than thou, I`m just a simple sinner who received God`s good grace, somehow. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ IF TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME... If tomorrow starts without me, and I`m not there to see... If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me; I wishso much you wouldn`t cry the way you did today, while thinking of the many things, wedidn`t get to say. I know how much you love me, as much as I love you, and each time that you think of me, I know you`ll miss me too. But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand... that an angel came and called my name, and took me by the hand; and said my place was ready, in heaven far above... and that I`d have to leave behind, all those I dearly love. But as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye... for all my life, I`d always thought, I didn`t want to die. I had so much to live for,so much left yet to do... it seemed almost impossible, that I was leaving you. I thought of all the yesterdays, the good ones and the bad... I thought of all the love we shared, and all the fun we had. If I could relive yesterday, just even for awhile, I`dsay goodbye and kiss you, and maybe see you smile. But then I fully realized, that this could never be... for emptiness and memories would take the place of me; And when I thought of worldly things, I might miss come tomorrow... I thought of you, and when I did, my heart was filled with sorrow. But when I walked through heaven`s gates, I felt so much at home... When God looked down and smiled at me, from His great golden throne. He said "this is eternity, and all I`ve promised you... Today your life on earth is past, but here life starts anew. I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last... andsince each day`s the same, there`sno longing for the past. You have been so faithful, so trusting and so true... though there were times you did some things, you knew you shouldn`t do. But you have been forgiven, and now at last you`re free... So won`t you come and take my hand, and share my life with me?" So when tomorrow starts without me, don`t think we`re far apart... for everytime you think of me, I`m right there...in your heart. ********************************************* 10 THINGS TO KEEP YOU YOUNG 1) Throw out non-essential numbers: this includes age, weight& height. 2) Keep only cheerful friends: the grouches pull you down. 3) Keep learning: learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. "An idle mind is the devil`s workshop", and the devil`s name is Alzheimers. 4) Enjoy the simple things. 5) Laugh often, long and loud: laugh until you gasp for breath. 6) Tears happen: endure, grieve and move on. The only one who is with us our entire life is God. Be alive WHILE you are alive. 7) Surround yourself with what you love: whether it`s family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants or hobbies. Your home is your refuge. 8) Cherish your health: if it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help. 9) Don`t take guilt trips: take a trip to the mall, to the next county, to a foreign country, but NOTto where the guilt is. 10) Tell people you love that you love them at every opportunity. ALWAYS REMEMBER: Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. *********************************************
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