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Member Since Sep 08, 2001

Real Name T J

Age 32

Gender Male

Last Login 16 mins ago

Location Boston, MA

Relationship Status Involved/Partner

Dating Preference Female

Race Black/African American

Ethnicity Haitian

Education Professional

Primary Job Category Legal

Astrological Sign Leo

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WELCOME!!! SIT BACK, RELAX, AND MAKE YOURSELF AT HOME!!!!



~Welcome to my realm of Eternal Bliss!
~Where you will surrender yourself to long lasting pleasure for your mind.
~Where you will be stimulated mentally to the point of invigorating cathartic cleansing, to inspire the essence of the body.
~Only those who are mentally, physically, and emotionally capable may enter!
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A message for the New Year!

Life: The Championship Game

Life is a game. You never know what the final score will be. All you can do is give it your best, play every minute of it down to your last breath and hope that each play that you make is a great play that will lead you one step closer to your trophy.

As you progress from each round it?s going to get tougher and the defense will play a lot harder. You just got to hang in there. Blood sweat and tears, because when you?re losing your fans will hate you, and when you?re winning they will love you. You just have understand that the person you?re really playing for is yourself.

You?re the one in the field. The defense knocks you down, Get right back up. No matter how many times you fall, get right back up! Eventually the defense will get tired of knocking you down because you have out lasted them. So just as long you get up one more time than when you were knocked down you will prevail and your banner will be raised in the rafters because you have succeeded this game we call life and when they award you your championship trophy, you can hold it up in the air with pride because only you can truly know what you had to go through to achieve it.

This is your year of Victory!

~TJ (2009)
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Well once again we have come to the end of the year and the beginning of a new one. I hope we all have taken the time to sit back and reflect on what 2007 brought for us and I hope for many of us that it was exactly what we had asked for. I know there were hard times because whenever you want something you have to put in the work to get it. We have to fight through the hardships because it never comes easy but understand that the reward is much sweeter knowing that you sacrificed your blood, sweat and tears for it.

I know for me personally there were a few things that I needed to change in 2007. I know that I needed to surround myself with positive minded people, focused on my faith and become closer to the lord. Although I can say I have made lots of progress in my goals I know that there is always room for improvement. I pray that all of you can open up your eyes, but most importantly open up your minds and realize that we all have areas in our lives that we can continue to work on and improve for the better. 2007 has come and gone and for some it was good and maybe not so good for others but in order for 2008 to be great you have to decide right now that?s what you want.

I wish you all a safe and blessed New Year!

~TJ (2008)
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LIFE

It?s amazing how we let life take total control of us sometimes that we don?t realize how fast it?s going until we stop and sit back and wonder where all the time went. I had one of those experiences recently where I happened to hear a song that made me reminisce about past events. It made me remember how happy I was at that moment. It made me think of the people I was around with at that moment and made me wonder where they are now. The reminiscing made me appreciate the little things in life more.

I always hear it said that people come in your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. That is so true. Whether it?s in business or just personal relationships, I have seen so many people come and go, people who I thought would have been around for the long run but life had other plans for them. Regardless of which purpose it is I?ve learned to appreciate everyone I come in contact with because they all play a part in my life and without them I wouldn?t be where I am today or the person I have become. And because we never know how long a person will be in our life that makes it all the more reason to appreciate that person despite their flaws, if any.

The worst feeling to ever have is the feeling of regret. The feeling of ?if only I had done this? ?if only I took that opportunity.? ?If only... if only... if only.? Understand you can?t go back and change the past. You can?t go back to the ones you love once they have been lost. You can?t go back and say what I meant to say, what I meant to do, etc. We have to take every moment and cherish every minute as it comes. Let the loved ones know what they mean to us. Take the time to simply say ?Thank You? or even ?I Love You.?
Live today as if it was your last because tomorrow is never promised.

~TJ
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Believe you can, and you can. Belief is one of the most powerful of all problem dissolvers. When you believe that a difficulty can be overcome, you are more than halfway to victory over it already.
~Norman Vincent Peale

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Your positive affirmation for today is:
I believe I can.

Repeat this positive affirmation to yourself as you go about your day.
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"Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Choose your words, for they become actions. Understand your actions, for they become habits. Study your habits, for they will become your character. Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny!" People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered; Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway. If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies; Succeed anyway. If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; Be honest and frank anyway. What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight; Build anyway. If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous; Be happy anyway. Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough; Give the world the best anyway. You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God; It was never between you and them. Live today as if its your last day. Live for God and never dwell on the past. Pray for the negative people and embrace the positive ones. Associate with the elite, then dominate them. Never let fear control you. Let others fear you. Brace for the surface, and indulge in the heart. Infiltrate others emotions and utilize them to your advantage... Success is Yours!!
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Message: January 01, 2007

This is the year of new beginning. It's time to start thinking BIG so you can have BIG results. Let`s not continue to do the things that are hurting us. 2006 has come and gone and if it did not turn out the way you wanted it to then realize that you have to change what you do Now in 2007 in order to have a better 2008. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. If you want something different in life you have to be willing to do something different.
Now I know some may say 2007 just got here so why are we already talking about 2008? Well that`s because there is a process to get to your desired goal. It`s not going to happen right away and It`s not going to come easy but only those who don`t quit and are committed will get there. I once heard that "Success is not giving up even though common sense tells you to." You must Never quit! Think Big and Aim for the moon so that if you miss it you will at least be amongst the stars.

~TJ (2007)
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Who am I?

I am highly motivated and goal orientated. I'm all about business but I know when its time to kick off the shoes and have fun. I?m always looking to network and making new friends; business or social. I love to travel, go out to eat, movies, shoot some pool, bowling, but also don't mind spending quality time at home with that special someone.


What I look for in a partner?

I was always told that when you are looking for something you will never find it. Instead I am going to step back and stop looking. I am going to leave it up to God to send me the woman I destined to be with. Hopefully she is someone who is smart, caring, independent, beautiful, knows how to have fun but also knows when to be serious. Someone who is not afraid to speak her mind and express her emotions. Someone with a heart of gold.
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Message: August 18, 2006

Procrastination is one of the most common causes of failure.

"Most of us go through life as failures, because we are waiting for the 'time to be right' to start doing something worthwhile. Do not wait. The time will never be 'just right.' Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along."

-Napoleon Hill
Think & Grown Rich
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Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant,
gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking
so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine, as children do.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously
give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear,
our presence automatically liberates others.
- marianne williamson
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Message: August 1, 2006

Understand that even though things are not going as good as you would like them to just know that it's all a test. See you can't have a testimony without going through the test and so in life we will go through different stages of a "storm." You are either entering a storm, in the storm, or coming out of a storm and once you come out there will be nothing but sunshine at the other end. The most important thing is that you continue to hang in there. You are a strong individual and God is only testing your strength to see if your shoulders are strong enough to handle all the blessings that he is about to pour onto you.

~TJ
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Too often we don`t realize
What we have until it`s gone.
Too often we wait to late to say
"I`m sorry, I was wrong."
Sometimes it seems we hurt the ones
We hold dearest to our hearts,
And we allow stupid things
To tear our lives apart.
Far too many times we let
Unimportant things get in our mind,
And by then it`s usually too late
To see what made us blind.
So be sure that you let people know
How much they mean to you.
Take the time to say the words
Before your time is through.
Be sure that you appreciate
Everything you`ve got,
And be thankful for the little things
In life that mean a lot.
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"Woman was created from the rib of Man. Not from his feet to be walked on by him, nor from his head to be looked down upon by him, but from his side to be equal to him and near his heart to be loved by him."
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"The person who cares the least in a relationship has the most control"
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"The person who takes no chances generally has to take whatever is left when others are through choosing."
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Message: July 23, 2006

A lot of us are hurting right now. We are stuck in places where we really don't have to be. Whether it's a bad relationship, a job, or just frustrated with life. People always talk about trying to make ends meet but don't realize that ends don't meet. They are called ends for a reason. In order for things to change you have to change. And so it's time to realize that you don't have to hurt, you have choices and options to do something about it. If you want a different result, a different outcome in life, then you have to be willing to do something different in the present time so that your past doesn't have to dictate your future.

~TJ
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FOOD FOR THOUGHT:

"~Keeping focused on your long term goals will help you through short term setbacks.
~You aren`t defeated when you lose, your only defeated when you quit!
~Do not give up on what you want most, for what you want at the moment.
~A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
~Determination today leads to success tomorrow.
~All glory comes from daring to begin.
~Don`t judge those who try and fail. Judge those who fail to try.
~Love not what you are, but what you may become.
~Don`t let yesterday`s disappointments overshadow tomorrow`s dream.
~In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.
~If you have tried to do something but couldn`t, you are far better off that if you had tried to do nothing and succeeded."
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"The secret to success is to learn to accept the impossible, to do without the indispensable, and to bear the intolerable."`
- Nelson Mandela
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Message: January 23, 2006

I believe that everyone in life has a purpose. We all have a destiny that has already been planned out for us. I know that my purpose in life is to help as many people as I can accomplish their goals and turn their dreams into reality.

If a book was being written on your life would people want to read it? Would people write a sentence, a paragraph, chapters, or a novel about you? How many lives have you impacted? Understand when you are born you are crying and everyone around you is smiling. Live your life so that when you are gone, you are the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

~TJ
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"You change for only two reasons:
You learn enough that you want to or
You hurt enough that you have to."
--Randall D. Worley
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"Your Appointment With Destiny Is Already Set. It`s Up To You To Get There."
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The Two Choices We Face
by Jim Rohn

Each of us has two distinct choices to make about what we will do with our lives. The first choice we can make is to be less than we have the capacity to be. To earn less. To have less. To read less and think less. To try less and discipline ourselves less. These are the choices that lead to an empty life. These are the choices that, once made, lead to a life of constant apprehension instead of a life of wondrous anticipation.

And the second choice? To do it all! To become all that we can possibly be. To read every book that we possibly can. To earn as much as we possibly can. To give and share as much as we possibly can. To strive and produce and accomplish as much as we possibly can. All of us have the choice.

To do or not to do. To be or not to be. To be all or to be less or to be nothing at all.

Like the tree, it would be a worthy challenge for us all to stretch upward and outward to the full measure of our capabilities. Why not do all that we can, every moment that we can, the best that we can, for as long as we can?

Our ultimate life objective should be to create as much as our talent and ability and desire will permit. To settle for doing less than we could do is to fail in this worthiest of undertakings.

Results are the best measurement of human progress. Not conversation. Not explanation. Not justification. Results! And if our results are less than our potential suggests that they should be, then we must strive to become more today than we were the day before. The greatest rewards are always reserved for those who bring great value to themselves and the world around them as a result of whom and what they have become.

To Your Success,
Jim Rohn
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Looking For Financial Freedom? Are You Goal Orientated? Open Minded? Do You Have A Burning Desire To Succeed And A Willingness To Change? If So, Ask Me How You Can Be On Your Way To Success? (OnlyThose Who Are Truly Serious May Apply!!)

~TJ
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