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THE ME U CAN'T SEE

(Update** couple of pics back up at the bottom for a moment) Tired of useless conversation predicated on the way I look! So please lets not get caught up in the picture thing. If the interest is only there because of my Picture or Not there because there is No Picture!! That tells me alot! I feel the same way about a Woman with a beautiful picture and she says nothing about herself, I am not here killing time! My goal is meeting good people( OK due to earlier notes) Let me say WOMEN!!!! Now about me!


Whats Up, Ladies? And I do mean ladies, mature head out of sand ladies!!!! My interest in a woman is motivated by how well she and I see eye to eye! If we share goals, thoughts, beliefs, love of life, and family! That is what I am looking for I have lived the "Thug Life", the "College Frat Life" and the "Family Life". And I must say the Family is for Me.

I don't Club anymore only shadowy Jazz, R&b, or Dancehalls! Even then I keep a low profile! I date or as we say kick it here and there but no serious relationships. I am very spiritual not religious even though I minored in Theology. My Time is spent working, learning, and loving my family! Now if that is something U can dig give me a holla.

I am not hard to please but I am a "Old School" Bros. I respect all those around included kids, but I also demand that same respect, back! Which to some seems domineering. But what I will say simply is that I can not and will not compromise my place as Man in this world. In my opinion Women are as strong as Men if not stronger. They can Not be controlled but they will allow one that proves himself to call the shots or lead the way. I consider that allowance a preveledge. The only thing a Man can make a Woman do is Smile, if he cant do that he may not be a Man!

Too many of my Bros. have slipped and left sisters(and Hell for that matter their own Kids) to there own devices and I intend not be one of those. This is why I cling so tight to my kids, and adopt those around me without guidance. I am not the only Good Man out here there are plenty besides me, at least I hope. But It seems Women will have to change the rest, we only react to what Women request as a whole. Demand more of Us, if women demand real Men and real Men only. Trust me the 30+ year old Boyz will grow up real quick, if their choice was be alone. Men know there place but that place means tireless work its not the role thats Feared but the Work!

If Women let men know they care more about his Mind than his Rims, more of his Morals then whats his pocket the rest will follow. Cause I bet if he has that together he is doing fine financially, trust me I know. Believe me anyone can be wealthy or rich! However the things attained mean nothing if one considers how it was recieved. If Jesus refused to Judge then I would not consider it myself, but we should judge ourselves. And how we do that tells the truth of who we are! One of favorite quotes"Life has gotten itself in a big ole hurry and noone slows down to Live anymore!" When U constantly focus on the Future U cant see what is happening Right Now!!!!! The key to the cosmos is "Balance".

Oh, by the way Ladies try something for me. Try not to demand as requirement of Bros. anything that U do not possess Urself! What I mean is don't frown on Bros. still trying to find success in their endevors. I have that personally but some of my bros. still working on it dont forget them.Your preference is cool but being a realist is better! There was'nt any Black Folks on Fantasy Island, so lets keep it Realer. Give U'll an example my "potna" been friends since "Gits". He is not the most attractive or even average Cat. But He demands the best looking woman, and he gets Heated when they dont Holla. I ask is that realistic behavior for Males or Females!

It has always baffled me how Woman run down there list of requirements and they may have half, less, or none of the things they require of a man! Trust this is No excuse for a Bros. not to have it together or at least on his way. But for most Woman this is the only time equality of the sexes does Not Apply, but half is the Law! LOL No ill intent just a thought! Remember the Mind is like a good Book, it is Useless if it is Not Open!!! Be good to each other Bros.and Sistas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MONTHLY DROP OF WISDOM
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Please Bros. and Sister Question all things have clarity of Mind and Spirit. Believe nothing Question All things and Discern. Faith and Belief can be Tested even Shaken and at times Shattered. But Knowing in Your Spirit can not be moved. Knowing is Spirit it is Eternal, it is Unwaivering! Let No Human tell U anything of God ask him directly, Ask and U will recieve! And then if Ur answer comes by man U will know its Truth. A Slave or Servant can Not ask anything of their Master! But a Child of God may ask the Father Anything and Receive the answers to the Universe! Please ask of Him and no other, and he shall give unto Freely!

The TRINITY of Relationships Man and Woman, and there are Two!!!!!!!!!!

1. A Man must be Father(Guidance and Provider) A woman must be a Mother(Nurturer and Encourager)
He must be Brother(Listener and Comforter) She must be Sister(Listener and Comforter)
as well as Lover(Sexual and Mental)

If either Party refuses to give or recieve anyone of these Roles the Relationship is Doomed to fail!!!! For all these things make up the Family of One!

2. In all relationships there is the second Trinity they must be present as well or the relationship will fall before it Stands.
Financial Stability
Love
Physical Relations
As with the first Trinity, lack just One and it will Fail in the End and in most cases before it begins!

As Christ commanded I plead " Love One Another as U love Urselves"

"BLESSED IS HE WHO BECOMES THE BLESSING TO OTHERS "
When Your Eyes are Watching GOD you can see straight through Man!