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Wassup BP...



It`s like Butta Baby!!!



Okay, it`s been forever and a day, but I finally put a pic up for you all to see. As you can see it`s only my face, but that`ll have to do for now. A full body pic will be up soon enough... till then...



I`m tall (6`1" to be exact)honey compexion, thick, dk.brown eyes, brown hair. I attend SUNY Buffalo majoring in Nursing.

No i`m not a rydeordiechik...or a hot girl. I`m 100% real. As long as you keep it real with me i`ll do the same in return.



Lately, it`s been the case of the fake people. There`s not a lot of real people left out there in my opinion. People front like they`re about something, when in actuality they`re just as fake as the next one. Those "people" know who they are too, so just know that I know the deal. It`s okay though, what goes around comes around ten times worse. That`s why I`m moving on to bigger and better things.



Loved by few, Hated by many, Wanted by most, Envied by plenty...



To the ladies: "No Man Is Worth Your Tears, and the One Who Is Wont Make You Cry."





Enough about the negative stuff...Here`s a little something for all the black men out there, just so you know that ALL women don`t have the same negative attitudes towards you that many do.



I didn`t come up with this myself, but I wanted it on my page...so enjoy...



SALUTE TO BLACK MEN



Everyone reading this either:



1. Is a good black man

2. Has a good black man

3. Will be blessed with a good black man soon



* Good Black Men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets, in the malls and the halls at work. Most we can`t see because we don`t know what a good man really looks like.



* He usually isn`t flashy enough or rich enough to turn our heads. He might not wear a suit or push a Lex. He might not have a "body like Tyson with a Denzel face."



* But, as you mature, you realize it`s better to find someone who`s got your back than someone who turns

your head.



* A good man doesn`t agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. He doesn`t just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn`t declare how sensitive, sweet, caring,

sincere, yadayada he is (he won`t have to because it

shows).



*He has his own opinions and you may clash, but he doesn`t have to degrade you to prove he`s right. He

even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same.



* A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is human with frailties and faults mixed

in with all of his wonderful, strong attributes.



* He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that you don`t live to "catch" him doing something wrong so you can declare, "Uh huh, I new you were a dog!!"



* He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Don`t judge him by TV standards. No one is really

living a fairy tale. You`ll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth that our men are no good.



* IT`S JUST NOT TRUE.



That goes out to the real men out there...if you don`t fall under that category, then there`s nothing wrong with changing.



To all you men who are looking for a real woman just remember: "An AVERAGE woman makes love for an hour, A REAL woman is love ETERNAL, WE make love for a LIFETIME"



If you feel like you just can`t do right by you`re woman, and she`s just not feeling you at all, check this out:



18 WAYS TO PLEASE A WOMAN



1. KISS HER



2. HOLD HER



3. COMPLIMENT HER



4. CARESS HER



5. LISTEN TO HER



6. LAUGH WITH HER



7. UNDERSTAND HER



8. MAKE HER SMILE



9. MAKE HER SCREAM YOUR NAME



10. APPRECIATE WHAT SHE DOES FOR YOU



11. SUPRISE HER



12. AROUSE HER



13. EDUCATE HER



14. ACKNOWLEDGE HER



15. ACCEPT HER



16. BELIEVE IN HER



17. WANT HER LIKE NO ONE WANTS HER



18. BUT ABOVE ALL, LOVE HER LIKE YOU WOULD WANT TO BE LOVED--LOVE HER LIKE YOU LOVED YOUR FIRST LOVE.











But that`s basically all there is for me to say right now...any questions or comments send me a note and i`ll get back to you ASAP. . Till then yall do the right thing and hit up my G-spot, and I`ll return the favor. One love BP........