msslimcaramel

Hey Planet,



*UPDATE* To all the guys out there that have and/or will probably try to speak to me, I am not interested and I am not trying to be your *friend*. I already have a man that is a MAN!!!! So Do Not come at me with ignorant sh*t.




I just wanted to say hello to everybody on the Planet. I am a 5`8, brown-skinned, long-legged black woman. I currently live in Colorado.I like what I`ve seen so far since I arrived here. Still trying to find what Colorado is all about and the people in it. Good luck to me!!! LOL! I`m originally from the great state of Texas.

Here are a few questions I would like to have answered.



1. How come when my girls and I go to the club, we try and dance and some guy will just come up and start trying to grind up against us? Do they not know that is disrespectful?



2. How come I can`t go out and be dressed sexy but conservative & some guy comes on to me with some nonsense?



3. How come when all these men sit around and say they want a good woman and when they actually get one, they act like a freakin fool!? Vice versa for you females out there.



4. Why do you select few females mess over a good man and the rest of us have to pay the price for your ignorance? Why do you select few so-called men mess over a good woman and the rest of the men have the pay the price?



5. Why is it that some females girlfriends let them come out of the house looking any old kind of way? You are supposed to be her friend. Let her know that what she has on is not cute.





5. How come when a man wants you to stay in a relationship with them, they don`t do a thing to make you want to stay? Same goes for women. Or they don`t realize they had a real and lasting relationship until its too late?



Granted it sounds like I`m being a hater but I`m not. Also, those questions go out to both males and females. I just had a lot of questions swirling around in my head.I was wondering if there were any people out thinking what I was thinking?





Here is a poem to make you think about promises people make but don`t keep:



PROMISES...PROMISES

I don`t like to make promises, because that means there is reason to doubt.

But sometimes that extra reassurance is something that we can`t live without.

So I make a promise to you to be faithful, and If you need more I will do.

I promise to always be caring, open, and honest to you.

I promise to never take you for granted, and to never play you cheap.

Although promises are made to be broken, mine are made to keep.

I promise to stand beside you, never behind or out in front.

I promise to do everything within my power to give you what you want.

I promise to be right there with you when It`s time for us to sleep.

Although promises are made to be broken, mine are made to keep.

I promise to come to you with the problems that our love may face.

I promise to never, ever let another take your place.

I promise to never hit you, or to be demanding.

I promise to be here to listen when you need some understanding.

I promise to keep these promises, because I hold them in my heart so deep.

Although promise are made to be broken, mine are made to keep.



Markess A. Wilder ¿ 1998



Here is what my sign PISCES is all about:



Pisceans possess a gentle, patient, malleable nature. They have many generous qualities and are friendly, good-natured, kind and compassionate, sensitive to the feelings of those around them, and respond with the utmost sympathy and tact to any suffering they encounter. They are deservedly popular with all kinds of people, partly because their easygoing, affectionate, submissive natures offer no threat or challenge to stronger and more exuberant characters. They accept the people around them and the circumstances in which they find themselvesrather than trying to adapt them to suit themselves, and they patiently wait for problems to sort themselves out rather than take the initiative in solving them. They are more readily concerned with the problems of others than with their own.



Their natures tend to be too otherworldly for the practical purposes of living in this world as it is. They sometimes exist emotionally rather than rationally, instinctively more than intellectually (depending on how they are inspected). They long to be recognized as greatly creative. They also dislike discipline and confinement. The nine-to-five life is not for them. Any rebellion they make against convention is personal, however, as they often times do not have the energy or motivation to battle against the Establishment.



Pisceans tend to withdraw into a dream world where their qualities can bring mental satisfaction and sometimes, fame and financial reward for they are extremely gifted artistically. They are also versatile and intuitive, have quick understanding, observe and listen well, and are receptive to new ideas and atmospheres. All these factors can combine to produce remarkable creativity in literature, music and art. They may count among their gifts mediumistic qualities which can give them a feeling that their best work comes from outside themselves, "Whispered beyond the misted curtains, screening this world from that." Even when they cannot express themselves creatively they have a greater than average instinct for, and love of, beauty in art and nature, a catlike appreciation of luxury and pleasure, and a yearning for new sensations and travel to remote, exotic places.



They are never egotistical in their personal relationships and give more than they ask from their friends. They are sexually delicate, in the extreme almost asexual, and most Pisceans would want a relationship in which the partner`s mind and spirit rather than the body resonated with their own. Unfortunately a lover who courts them delicately and in marriage makes them unhappy by a coarser sexuality than they expected can easily mislead them. They are nevertheless intensely loyal and home loving and will remain faithful.



In their employment they are better working either by themselves or in subordinate positions. Their talents are individual in a commercial business or similar undertaking. They would be afraid to manage more than a small department, worrying always that they would fail in a crisis. They can make fair secretaries and bookkeepers. Their sympathy equips them for work in charities catering for the needy, as nurses looking after the sick and as veterinary surgeons caring for animals. As librarians or astronomers they can satisfy their mental wanderlust, and their fondness for "faraway places with strange-sounding names" may turn them into sailors or travelers. Many architects and lawyers are Pisceans, and when the creative abilities are combined with gifts of imitation and the ability to enter into the feelings of others, Pisceans find their fulfillment on the stage. Their psychic and spiritual qualities can lead them into careers in the church or as mediums and mystics.



They may find an outlet for their creativity as caterers, and are said to make good detectives because they can imagine themselves in the place of criminals and understand how their minds would work. In technical occupations they are well employed in dealing with anesthetics, fluids, gases and plastics. Because of their lively versatility and inability to concentrate overmuch on any one project, Pisceans often simultaneously follow more than one occupation.





Thank you for stopping by. Hope you enjoyed your stay. To those who send me notes, please be respectful towards me. That`s all anybody asks for is some respect. Don`t forget to hit my G-Spot. Bye for now.