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Member Since May 17, 2000

Gender Female

Last Login 4 hours ago

Location Atlanta, GA

Relationship Status Single

Dating Preference Male

Race Black/African American, Hispanic/Latino, White

Ethnicity Puerto Rican

Primary Job Category Administrative and Support Services, Healthcare - Support Services, Human Resources, Information Technology

Astrological Sign Virgo

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purrfectpam

The Purrfexionist

>^.^< I dont just pose on bikes...I RYDE!!! >^.^<

purr (pur) n. To utter a low, murmuring, continued sound, as a cat does when pleased. An expression of contentment or pleasure.

Meow!!!

My name is Pamela, which means "ALL HONEY" in Greek. For those of u who may want 2 know, YES, the name suits me 2 a T.

INTRO - OVER 40 & FABULOUS!!!
I`m used to the BS going on here on BP, so if u can`t say anything respectful and positive, take it elsewhere...I am not the one and this is not the page. I am not on here looking 4 booty calls or 1 nite stands...just a decent conversation every now and again and the opportunity to make new friends. 2 ANSWER THE QUESTIONS 4 ALL THOSE ON HERE THAT INSIST ON ASKING, NOW READ THIS...HETEROSEXUAL MEANS THAT I AM STR8 (NOT BI-SEXUAL OR BI-CURIOUS, OR WHATEVER THE TERM DU JOUR MAY BE); NO, THOSE ARE NOT MY BIKES ALTHOUGH I DO OWN ONE...R6 baby!!!; NO, I AM NOT INTERESTED IN MODELING SANS CLOTHING; YES, THAT REALLY IS ME IN THOSE PICS; YES, I REALLY AM 43; YES, I AM TRI-RACIAL: BLACK, PUERTO RICAN, AND GERMAN (OR AS SOME PPL HAVE PHRASED IT..."MIXDID WIT SUMFIN"); NO, I DO NOT SPEAK SPANISH OR GERMAN (IN OTHER WORDS...NOTES IN ANY LANGUAGE BESIDES ENGLISH CANNOT BE DECIPHERED); NO, I DO NOT WANT 2 C PICS OF YOUR ----; NO, U CANNOT C PICS OF MY -----; NO, U CANNOT C MINE`S PERIOD; NO, I DO NOT WANT YOUR OPINION ON HOW U THINK I`M NOT SO PERFECT (DID I ASK U?); NO, I AM NOT INTERESTED IN COMING TO UR PHOTO STUDIO & PAYING U 4 A PHOTO SHOOT...AS LONG AS I OWN SEVERAL DIGITAL CAMERAS, I WILL NEVER WASTE MY HARD-EARNED MONEY ON PICTURES, NO MATTER HOW "PROFESSIONAL" U CLAIM THEY'LL BE!!!; NO, I AM NOT INTERESTED IN ANY NEW BUSINESS OPPORTUNITIES...SO PLEASE DON`T SEND ME ANY NOTES INVITING ME 2 YOUR PAGE 2 DISCOVER HOW I CAN EARN XTRA MONEY SELLING PRE-PAID LEGAL, HANDMADE SOAP, HOME LOANS OR SOMETHING ELSE OF THAT NATURE!!!

Because I have received so many notes where ppl assume that I am being mean and/or "stuck up", let me say this...I show ppl on here nothin but respect and positivity and I expect the same in return. I do so appreciate all the luv I have received from my BP family. I have met some truly wonderful people on here and learned quite a bit from them. It`s those people who keep me coming back (4 those of u who ask me y do I continue 2 log on2 BP). I wouldn`t exchange my experiences on BP (or in life) 4 anything. I am truly a better person because of them. So to all my TRUE BP FAMILY (u know who u are) thanx 4 the luv!!!

A word 2 the unwise (fellas listen up)...learn to separate the BIRDSEED EATERS from the TRUE WOMEN and treat them accordingly. And know this...women really aren`t stupid, they just let u think they r cuz they luv u so much, so when u think ur gettin over on them...think again. U can get a whole lot further with women if u just show them the utmost respect, be honest...and above all, DON`T UNDERESTIMATE THEM!!! (oh, yeah...women don`t like 2 come over 2 your house and see a filthy toilet and/or tub...MAJOR TURN-OFF! If she never returns ask yourself if that could be the reason, then clean that ish 4 the next one plz).
p.s. fellas u might wanna also think about breaking out the razor and shaving some places other than ur face...u dont like 2 c a bunch of hair on our legz, underarmz, bikini area, etc...it's not attractive on yall either! In other words...if ur chest, back, crotch and underarmz r bushy &/or nappy...a shave or a trim would b nice.

On a lighter note...these r some of the things I have questions about on BP...

Y r there so many screen names on here with the word caramel (or some variation of the word; ex. Karmel, keramel, carmell, etc.) or the number 69 in it?

Y do men write notes describing their physical attributes and have no pics on their page?!?!? Fellas, the women on here aren't sketch artists...there is no way we can possibly imagine what u look like simply from a written description. PUT SOME RECENT PICS UP IF U WANT WOMEN 2 RESPOND...me personally, I dont talk 2 ghosts.

Y do ppl claim they don't have pics on their page 4 "professional reasons"? I can't think of an occupation in existance where it would be detrimental to post a nice, clean, fully clothed, classy, respectable pic. It's not like this is a porn site...sheesh.

On that same note, y do planeteers send notes stating that they can email a pic when they don't have any posted AND claim the famous last words "u wont b disappointed". Sadly, I've been disappointed each and every time! Obviously, they didn't know my taste in men like they thought they did.

Y do some men talk about how they hate it when obese women don't know the difference between fat and thyck but then they turn around and claim they have an athletic build and in reality have a keg 4 abs instead of a 6-pack! Explain how fat men can put in bold underline print "no big gurlz allowed" on their page? If they don't find obesity attractive, what makes them think a smaller woman would find their big butt sexy?!?!?

Y do people send friend invites even though they haven't bothered to send any other form of communication first?!?!? No need 4 me to elaborate on this one...it speaks 4 itself!

Y do some females on here assume that I am interested in/sleeping with/hollerin @ their man simply bcuz they c my name on his friends list and choose 2 send me notes asking me about him? GURLS...ASK YOUR MAN, NOT ME!!! U will b wasting both our time & u might not like my response. (I cant stand an insecure woman and by the time I`m finished, she`ll b even more insecure).

When did it become "fashionable" 4 females 2 b bi-sexual? Say it with me ladies...STRICTLY DI*KLY! lol

Y do some planeteers get upset if u don`t respond 2 a note? Understand...it`s very difficult 2 respond 2 each and every note no matter how hard I try...that kind of tyme does not exist 4 me.

Y do some planeteers not catch the hint the first 10 times, and continue 2 "note" and "IM"? Can u say "cyber-stalker"? The persistence is not impressive!!!

Y do planeteers have the same pic in their picture gallery as their main pic...do we really need 2 c it twice?!?!? These r usually the same ppl who have a super huge picture with white space bordering the pic that`s twice as big as the pic itself...if any of yall r reading this, ask me how u go about rotating & cropping the pic and reducing the size. I'm not even gonna go there about the camera phone in the bathroom mirror pics...especially the ones where the flash is shining where the face is supposed 2 b! I should note the slight improvement the fellas have made by replacing the infamous "Bejeweled Pimp Cup" pics with the "WWF Championship Belt" pics. SMH

Y do planeteers ask that the "haters" exit now? What difference does it make if they stay or leave? U still get a page hit and they may even learn something positive from a page in the process. Besides...does anyone really think a "hater" is gonna think to themselves..."Oh, I`m a "hater", so let me click outta this page NOW b4 they "cyber-whup" my a$$!" Most "haters" dont even realize they "hatin"!

Some random things to know about me...I have all the patience in the world for ignorance, but absolutely none for stupidity (feel free to ask me if u'd like clarification) and 2 of my biggest pet peeves on BP are when ppl dont show enuf respect for God by not capitalizing His name and when ppl use this on their page--->"conversate". It`s NOT a word!!! Say it with me ppl..."let's converse" or "have a conversation".

LATEST BP MUSING: I welcome suggestions as to how I'm supposed to respond to the all to familiar 1-click "wink" & "what's up" notes. Am I really supposed to take the time to respond to 1-clicks when the original sender hasn't bothered to take the time to compose a real note? Y would the senders actually expect the recipients to waste their time responding 2 the 1-clicks and if they dont expect responses, why bother sending them in the 1st place? I do like one of the new 1-click responses, but I'd like to suggest a few more 1-click responses...maybe BP should let us click & create one as we go.

To end, let me finish by saying that all of the men in my pics are platonic friends or acquaintances, nothing more!

Favorite Quote: "How empty of me, to be so full of you" - J. Jackson

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Though it may b a bit elementary...here's my lil contribition to the BP poetry community (the first poem I ever wrote).

I AM ME

I am so tired of people asking me what am I
Like that should determine whether I live or die
or be passed on, over, or by
I just wanna know the reason why
they insist on making me cry

Like I`m something they`ve never seen before
A piece of exotic fruit they found in the grocery store
An unfamiliar bug crawling across the kitchen floor
A mutated animal that`s kept behind a closed door
Scientifically created in an attempt to find some cure

As if I didnt belong in this place
They get all up in my face
to find a small trace
a similarity to lace
me with a particular race

Like defining me culturally
would actually tell them all about me
and set them free
from all responsibility
of having to associate with me socially
or professionally
to any degree

Does it really make that much of a difference
Will this knowledge change their life from this day hence
Am I always gonna be forced to sit on a fence
Why must people be so dense
asking a question that makes no concrete sense

Like I could be so easily defined
Like knowing that info would ease their small mind
I wish these people would be a bit more kind

And understand right from the start
That I, too, have a beating heart
That my ethnicity isn`t what sets me apart
or makes me any less smart
What I am is a living work of art

Created by HIM
...just like them.

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