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Member Since May 01, 2004

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Location Houston, TX

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Education Some College Coursework Completed

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SOOOOOOOOOO

Someone will always be prettier.
Someone will always be smarter.

Some of their houses will be bigger.
Some will drive a better car.

Their children will do better in school.
And their husband will fix
more things around the house. So let it go, and
love you and your circumstances. Think about it!

The prettiest woman in the world can have hell in her heart.

The most highly favored woman on your job may be unable to have children.

The richest woman you know, she's got the car, the house, the clothes~ might be lonely.

And the Word says, 'If I have not Love, I am nothing.' So, again, love you.

Love who you are.
Look in the mirror in the morning and smile and say,

'I am too Blessed to be Stressed and too Anointed, to be Disappointed!'

'Winners make things happen~~ Losers let things happen.'

Be 'Blessed' Ladies and pass this on to encourage another woman.

'To the world you might be one person, to me you are special!

HAPPY NEW YEARS TO ALL MY WONDERFUL SISTERS OF MINE

AND MAY OUR HEAVENLY FATHER CONTINUE TO OPEN YOUR HEARTS AND MINE TO LOVE OF OTHERS, TO BE GIVERS, SPREADING HIS WORD AND THAT YOU RECEIVE ALL THE BEAUTIFUL BLESSINGS HE HAS IN STORE FOR YOU.

Life should NOT be a journey to
the grave with the intention of

arriving safely in an attractive and

well-preserved body, but rather to

skid in sideways, chocolate in one

hand, wine in the other, totally worn

out and screaming 'WOOO HOOOOO

what a ride!' To the Girls !!

The hardest years in life are those between ten and seventy. ~ Helen Hayes (at 73)~

I refuse to think of them as chin hair. I think of them as stray eyebrows. ~ Janette Barber~

Old age ain't no place for sissies.
~Bette Davis~

Thirty-five is when you finally get your head together and your body starts falling apart.
~ Caryn Leschen ~

If you can't be a good example ~ then you'll just have to be a horrible warning.
~Catherine~

I'm not going to vacuum until Sears makes one you can ride on.
~Roseanne Barr~

Behind every successful man is a surprised woman
~Maryon Pearson~

Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission.
~Eleanor Roosevelt~

When life hands you lemons, ask for tequila and salt and call me over!

To the Girls !!

A White Rose

The red rose whispers of passion,
And the white rose breathes of love;
O, the red rose is a falcon,
And the white rose is a dove.
But I send you a cream-white rosebud
With a flush on its petal tips;
For the love that is purest and sweetest
Has a kiss of desire on the lips.

Before you send roses this Valentine's Day, check out
the meaning of the various rose colors below
to find the one that most perfectly represents your true feelings.
The color and number of roses that you give have special significance. Learn what each color represents, and how many you should give to express your innermost feelings. Find out the true "Meaning Of Roses"!

Lets look at the meaning of color first.

Red Roses ; love, passion, I Love You;Red: roses given says "I love you still" ~~White Roses innocence, purity, reverence, humility White: They also represent youthfulness and charm.~~Pink: To give pink roses shows grace, joy, and gratitude.~~ Pale pink also has the meaning of fun attached to it.~~ Pink Roses, grace, gentility, perfect happiness~~Light Pink Roses admiration, sympathy~~Dark Pink Roses gratitude, appreciation

Peach Roses passion~~Orange: Desire and enthusiam. These would be a great choice to give to someone if you
want the relationship to develop further.~~Yellow Roses joy, gladness, friendship, platonic love
Yellow: don't specifically show love. They can also represent starting over,or a new beginning. Yellow tipped with red shows friendship falling in love
Red & White Roses unity~~Burgundy Roses beauty
Blue Roses mystery~~Green Roses calm, fertility, fruitfulness~~Purple Roses protection, paternal and/or maternal love~~ Lilac and Lavender roses also show these feelings~~Lavender Roses falling in love at first sight
Black Roses death of old habits, renewal of spirit

Yellow & Red Roses friendship, falling in love

How Many To Give?The number of roses that you give is important. Convey the right message by giving the correct number of roses!~~1:Love at first sight - you are "the one"

~~2:Mutual love and feelings

~~3: Also says "I Love You".

~~7: Together for ever

~~10:Represents perfection. To give someone
10 roses shows you feel that way about them.
~~12:The standard for "be mine". Often given on
Valentines day, when for a married couple,actually
~~7 or 10 might be a better choice. (slightly cheaper as well! ;-)

~~13:A sign of enduring friendship

~~15: Im sorry

~~To give a mix of red and white roses.
This shows unity, and togetherness.

~~Pink and red rosebuds. Young and lovely...perhaps
the perfect gift for a young lady?

Other Rose Meanings:
A single rose of any color in full bloom means I love you.
~~Two roses put together to form a single stem means an impending engagement or marriage
.~~A single red rose in full bloom paired with two red rosebuds means secrecy.
~~One red rose combined with several yellow roses
means joviality and is an invitation to excitement and fun.

Rose stem leaves are a symbol of hope.
~~Pale colored roses symbolize friendship rather than romantic love.
~~Red rosebuds symbolize youth and innocent love; I love your innocenc
~~Pink rosebuds symbolize a love of youthfulness; I love your youthfulness
~~White rosebuds symbolize a heart that is too young for romantic love or a heart that knows no love.
~~Moss rosebuds symbolize a first confession of love.
~~
White rosebuds that have dried or died symbolize fleeting beauty.

...

.Best Friends to the End
Take away all the idiots, losers, and psychos in the world?

?plus, all the annoying people in the world?

Plus, all the people you thought were nice, but actually weren't?

Plus anybody you don't know (because they don't count)?

?and who do you have left?...

How to Identify An Idiot

(1) He spends twenty minutes looking at an orange juice box because it said, "concentrate".

(2) He puts lipstick on the forehead because he wanted to makeup his mind.".

(3) He gets stabbed in a shoot-out.".

(4) He sends a fax with a stamp on it.".

(5) He tries to drown a fish.".

(6) If you gave them a penny for their intelligence, you'd get change.".

(7) He trips over a cordless phone.".

( He takes a ruler to bed to see how long he slept.".

(9) At the bottom of the application where it says "Sign Here", he puts "Sagittarius".".

(10) He takes 2 hours to watch "60 minutes".".

(11) He invents a solar powered flashlight.".

(12) He heard that 90% of all crimes occur around the home, so he moves.".

(13) He misses the No. 14 Bus, and takes the 7 twice instead.".

(14) He takes you to the airport and saw a sign that said, "Airport left", and he turned around and went home.".

(15) He got locked in a furniture shop but sleeps on the floor.".

(16) He spends time reading thru the above 16 points and analyses if he is an IDIOT!!! ".

If you want to make a woman nervous, just put
her in a room with a hundred hats and no mirror
..... :
that you should Never argue with an idiot.
The people watching might not know the difference.

-That true friendship continues to grow, even over the
longest distance. Same goes for true Love.

-That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

-That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt
you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

-That my best friend and I can do anything or
nothing and have the best time

-That it's taking me a long time to become the person
I want to be.

Never let anyone tell you it can?t be done.

-That you can keep going long after you can't.

That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

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-That either you control your attitude or it controls you.

-That regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship
is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

-That heroes are the people who do what has to be done
when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

-That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

-That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

-That money is a lousy way of keeping score.

-That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

-That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last
time you see them.

-That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.

-That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

-That maturity has more to do with what types of
experiences you've had and what you've learned from them
and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

-That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache

-That our background and circumstances may have influenced
who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

-That just because two people
argue,it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

-That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret.
It could change your life forever.

-That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

-That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

-That even when you think you have no more to give, when
a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

-That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

-That just because someone doesn't love you the way you
want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

-That you should send this to all of the people that you believe in...I just did
IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck

(written after she found out she was dying from cancer).

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go
into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.

I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.

I would have talked less and listened more.

I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.

I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room an d worried much less about the dirt
when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.

I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.

I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.

I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because
my hair had just been done.
I would have sat on the lawn with my kids and not worried about grass stains.

I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.

I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was

guaranteed to last a lifetime.

Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized
that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.

When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, 'Later. Now go get washed up for
dinner.' There would have been more 'I love you's' More 'I'm sorry's..'

But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute ; look at it and really see it . .
live it and never give it back. STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!!!

Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more, or who's doing what
Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us.
If you don't mind, send this on to all the women you are grateful to have as friends.
Maybe we should all grab that purple hat earlier.

Kept Woman:
HELLO! I Am a 'Kept ' Woman You see, there were a few times when I thought I would lose my mind, But GOD kept me sane. (Isa. 26:3)
You [God] will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast [stayed on thee, KJV], because he trusts in you.? There were times when I thought I could go no longer, But the LORD kept me moving. (Gen 28:15)
At times, I've wanted to lash out at those whom I felt had done me wrong, But the LORD kept my mouth shut.. (Psa. 13)
Sometimes, I think the money just isn't enough, But GOD has helped me to keep the lights on, the water on, the car paid, the house paid, etc.., (Matt. 6:25 -34)
When I thought I would fall, HE kept me up. When I thought I was weak, HE kept me strong! (I Pet. 5:7, Matt. 11:28-30)
I could go on and on and on, but I'm sure you hear me!
I'm blessed to be 'kept ' Do you know a 'kept ' woman? If so pass it on to her to let her know she is 'Kept '
I'm "Kept" by the Love and Grace of God Have a Blessed Week ALL!
Let's keep encouraging one another in these tough times!

Like Deborah, I will serve the Lord in power
and speak His word without fear.

Like Esther, I will intercede for God`s people
before the throne.

Like Abigail, I will humble myself to wash
the feet of the servants of the Lord.

Like Sarah, I will respect my spouse and his
ministry to the Lord.

Like Hannah, I will dedicate my children to the Lord.

Like Priscilla, I will explain the way of God more
perfectly to those who are seeking.

Like the Shunamite widow, I will trust God in the
day of adversity.

Like Lydia, I will be a worshiper of God and open
my home to His ministers.

Like Tabitha (Dorcas), I will always do good
and help the poor.

Like Joanna, I will use my wealth to support the
ministry of Jesus.

Like Mary, the mother of Jesus, I will hear the
word of God to me and answer,
"Be it unto me as you have said".

Like Mary, the sister of Martha, I will know the
voice of Jesus and hear his words.

Like Mary, the mother of Mark, I will make my home
a haven for the followers of Jesus.

Like Mary, the Magdalene, I will keep at the feet of Jesus
and love him unto death.~~ Author Unknown

somebody is thinking of you.

somebody is caring about you.

somebody misses you.

somebody wants to talk to you.

somebody wants to be with you.

somebody hopes you aren't in trouble.

somebody is thankful for the support you have provided.

somebody wants to hold your hand.

somebody hopes everything turns out all right.

somebody wants you to be happy.

somebody wants you to find him/her.

somebody is celebrating your successes.

somebody wants to give you a gift.

somebody thinks that you ARE a gift.

somebody hopes you're not too cold, or too hot

somebody wants to hug you.

somebody loves you.

somebody admires your strength.

somebody is thinking of you and smiling.

somebody wants to be your shoulder to cry on.

somebody wants to go out with you and have a lot of fun.

somebody thinks the world of you.

somebody wants to protect you.

somebody would do anything for you.

somebody wants to be forgiven.

somebody is grateful for your forgiveness.

somebody wants to laugh with you.

somebody remembers you and wishes that you were there.
somebody is praising God for you.

somebody needs to know that your love is unconditional. By Claudia Mair Burney For centuries they've inspired,
enlightened, and empowered us. With their unadorned faith, the women of the Bible
continue to teach us how to live authentic, God-touched lives. No matter what our spiritual
traditions are, we can find ourselves in their stories. Here are 11 Biblical women
whose lives are as relevant today as they were when they were first recorded.
Eve, the Mother of All Living Genesis 2:4b and 3:1-24 Eve's story reminds us that
women can be both creative and destructive She teaches us to weigh our choices
carefully, tempering our desires with wisdom.

Hagar, the Stranger Welcomed by God
Genesis 16:1-16 and 21:1-21
If you are disenfranchised, despised, or despairing, listen for the voices of
angels. You may find your courage is only a prayer away.

Rahab, a Harlot with a Heart of Gold Joshua 2:1-24 Lest you think her actions were
manipulative, consider how offering assistance to the spies put her own
life in peril. But Rahab recognized the divine favor that rested
upon the men. She boldly asked for and received what she desired. Rahab teaches us
to use our wiles effectively and with great love. After all, the life you save may be your own.

Deborah, the Warrior Princess Judges 4 & 5 Deborah inspires us to trust our
wisdom and instincts and to humbly accept always remember and respect the power of a woman.

Jael, the Ordinary Woman with the Heart of a Lion Judges 4:17-22 and 5: 6, 24
Jael's story lets us know sometimes a girl has to slay the giants in her life,
using whatever crude tools are available. Jael's hands may have been bloodied in the
process, but Israel experienced 40 years of peace because of her lion-hearted act.

Ruth, the Lovely Friend The Book of Ruth Ruth's lesson to us? Steadfast love and loyalty may
just lead you into a glorious destiny.

Bathsheba, from Lust Object to Queen Mother 2 Samuel 11:2, 3, 12:2, I Kings
11:31, 2:13-19, I Chronicles 3:5
Bathsheba would be remembered not only for her early indiscretion,
but also for her wisdom and leadership as Queen Mother. She teaches us that mercy
can be the beginning of a brave new life, and that we all must carry our grief, release it, and live again.

Esther, a Clever Queen The Book of Esther Esther reminds us to be imaginative,
as well as courageous. We don't always have to fight to get what we want;
sometimes we just have to outwit our adversary.

Mary, the Mother of Jesus Luke 1:26-38, 1:39-56, 2:1-7, 2:21-38, 2:41-52, 4:16-30, 8:19-21
Mary was the first disciple of Christ. She had to believe in him before anyone else.
Her faith in Jesus was not a product of her extraordinary actions. It was a gift
. Her lesson to us is that we must let go of the notion that we create .
faith based on our works. God gifts us with faith, which makes our good works possible

Mary Magdalene Matt. 27:55-56, Mark 14:40-41, Matt. 28:1-9, John 20:18
With Mary as our example, we can follow our passions with everything
within us, fearlessly, no matter what obstacles we encounter.

Photini, the Woman at the Well John 4: 1-30 Living water must have sounded good
to the ex-wife of five, now shacked up with a sixth paramour. She took a long,
deep drink, never to thirst again. Photini became one of Christianity's
earliest evangelists, telling everyone she knew what Jesus had done.
She teaches us that no matter how parched our dry soul places,
love can make a surprising appearance and quench all our thirsts
.

somebody values your advice.

somebody hears a song that reminds them of you

somebody wants to tell you how much they care.

somebody wants to share their dreams with you.

somebody wants to hold you in their arms.

somebody wants YOU to hold them in your arms.

somebody treasures your spirit.

somebody wishes they could STOP time because of you.

somebody praises God for your friendship and love.

somebody can't wait to see you.

somebody loves you for who you are.

somebody loves the way you make them feel.

somebody wants to be with you.

somebody wants you to know they are there for you.

somebody's glad that you're his/her friend.

somebody wants to be your friend.

somebody stayed up all night thinking about you.

somebody is alive because of you.

somebody is wishing that you noticed him/her.

somebody wants to get to know you better.

somebody wants to be near you.

somebody misses your advice/guidance.

somebody has faith in you.

somebody trusts you.

somebody needs you to send them this letter

somebody needs your support.

somebody needs you to have faith in them.

somebody will cry when they read this.

somebody needs you to let them be your friend..

A good woman is proud of herself.

She respects herself and others.

She is aware of who she is.

She neither seeks definition from the person she is
with, or does she expect them to read her mind.

KUJICHAGULIA - to define ourselves, name ourselves, create for
ourselves and speak for ourselves!

She is quite capable of articulating her needs.



A good woman is hopeful.



She is strong enough to make all her dreams come true.

A good woman has a dash of inspiration,

She knows love, therefore she gives love.

She recognizes that her love has great value and must be reciprocated.

If her love is taken for granted,

it soon disappears.

a
dabble of endurance.


She knows that she will, at times,
have to inspire others to reach the potential God gave them.



A good woman knows her past,

understands her present

and moves toward the future.

A good woman knows God.



She knows that with God the world
is her playground, but
without God she will just be played.

A good woman does not live in fear
of the future because of her past.

Instead, she understands that her life experiences are merely lessons,

meant to bring
her closer to self knowledge and unconditional self love.

...

Beautiful Women`s Month
Purple Hat Day

Age 3: She looks at herself and sees a Queen.

Age 8: She looks at herself and sees Cinderella

Age 15: She looks at herself and sees an Ugly Sister (Mum I can`t go to school looking like this!)

Age 20: She looks at herself and sees "too fat/too thin, too short/too tall, too straight/too curly"- but decides she`s going out anyway.

Age 30: She looks at herself and sees "too fat/too thin, too short/too tall, too straight/too curly" - but decides she doesn`t have time to fix it, so she`s going out anyway.

Age 40: She looks at herself and sees "clean" and goes out anyway.

Age 50: She looks at herself and sees "I am" and goes wherever she wants to go.

Age 60: She looks at herself and reminds herself of all the people who can`t even see themselves in the mirror anymore. Goes out and conquers the world.

Age 70: She looks at herself &sees wisdom, laughter and ability, goes out and enjoys life.

Age 80: Doesn`t bother to look. Just puts on a purple hat and goes out to have fun with the world

SO LET`S GO OUT AND GET OUR PURPLE HATS EARLY

Divine Openings

Creativity Freedom

Heart's Desires Relationships

Fulfillment Fun Love Happiness

Liberation Prosperity Manifesting

Healing Quiet Mind Inner Peace

Personal Relationship with God

Business Success Ease & Flow

Emotional Mastery

Enlightenment

Guidance

Clarity

Joy

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The only survivor of a shipwreck was washed up on a small, uninhabited
island. He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him. Everyday he scanned
the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming. Exhausted, he
eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect him
from the elements, and to store his few possessions.
One day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find his little hut
in flames, with smoke rolling up to the sky. He felt the worst had

happened, and everything was lost. He was stunned with disbelief, grief,
and anger. He cried out, "God! How could you do this to me?"
Early the next day, he was awakened by the sound of a ship approaching the island!
It had come to rescue him!
"How did you know I was here?," asked the weary man of his rescuers.
"We saw your smoke signal," they replied.

The Moral of This Story:

It's easy to get discouraged when things are going bad, but we shouldn't lose heart,
because God is at work in our lives.... even in the midst of our pain and suffering.
Remember that the next time your little hut seems to be burning to the ground.
It just may be a smoke signal that summons the Grace of God.

P. S. You may want to consider passing this on,
because you never know who feels as if their hut is on fire today

26 Best Things To Say If You Get Caught Sleeping At Your Desk:

26. ?You don?t discriminate against those with Latient Atrophy Zymosis Yeast syndrome, DO YOU?!??
?It worked well for Reagan, didn?t it??

25. ?Oh, Man! Come in at 6 in the morning and look what happens!?

24. ?This is in exchange for the six hours last night when I dreamed about work!?

23. ?It?s okay? I?m still billing the client.?

22. ?You don?t discriminate against those with Latient Atrophy Zymosis Yeast syndrome, DO YOU?!??

21. ?Just pacing myself for the all-nighter tonight!?

20.
?Gee, I thought you (the boss) were gone for the day.?

19."Darn! Why did you interrupt me? I had almost figured out a solution to our biggest problem."

18. "I wasn't sleeping! I was meditating on the mission statement and envisioning a new paradigm."

17. "This is one of the seven habits of highly effective people !"

16. "I was testing my keyboard for drool resistance."

15. ?I was working
smarter-not harder.?

14. ?Did you ever notice the humming noise coming from these keyboards when you put your ear close??

13. I wasn't sleeping, I was trying to pick up contact lens without hands.

12. Ah, the unique and unpredictable circadian rhythms of the workaholic!

11. Boy, that cold medicine I took last night just won't wear off!

10. "I was doing a highly specific Yoga exercise to relieve work-related stress. Are you discriminatory toward
people who practice Yoga?"

9. "This is just a 15 minute power-nap like they raved
about in that time management course you sent me to."

8. "Whew! Guess I left the top off the White-Out.
You probably got here just in time!"

7. ?I?m in the management training program.?

6. "Actually doing a "Stress Level Elimination Exercise Plan" (SLEEP) you learned at the last mandatory seminar your boss made you attend.

5. "They told me at the blood bank this might happen."

4. "Why did you interrupt me? I had almost figured out a
solution to our biggest problem."

3. "The coffee machine is broken..."

2. "Someone must've put decaf in the wrong pot..."

And the #1 best thing to say if you get caught sleeping at your desk...

1. Raise your head slowly and say, "and thank you for a wonderful Boss...in Jesus' name, Amen."

Wool tapestry, 'Women in Hats'

Working in soft earthen tones, Francisco Huaynate creates a handloomed tapestry of elegant details. Women walk together toward an unseen destination in the quiet night. Traditional clothing, wide-brimmed hats and long braids identify these people with their Andean homeland.
Titled "Sombreros puneños" in Spanish. Sombreros de Pasion #38015
San Juan, Puerto Rico
I AM A MATURE WOMAN ? Zori Banks ? Puerto Rico
Red Hat Recipe Exchange

?This is a poem inspired in all of us and in Jenny Joseph and Sue Ellen.?

I AM A MATURE WOMAN THAT JUST DECIDED TO WEAR HATS
I am not worried about my wrinkles because every line in my face
is like a mark left by a living experience.

I am a mature woman...
that opens her space out of the invisibility

I am a mature woman that just decided to wear hats.
When the heads of the youngest turns to look at me smiling or maybe laughing and asks, Where are you going?I say, to work like everyday but I am reinventing my days and what is a routine I have to convert it in a FEAST.

For the ones that ask me "What is your mania lately of wearing hats?
I answer, "It is because of menopause, at this stage some cries, others get hot flashes, I ... just decided to wear hats!

And as the poet Jenny Joseph wrote... "When I am an old woman I shall wear purple with a red hat which doesn't suit me, and pick the flowers in other people's garden and run my stick along the public railings " ... to hear the noise and to let MYSELF be heard...

so...I am a mature woman that just decided to wear hats, big hats, little hats, with veil, without, also gloves... and spend the day buying lace ,crystal beads, and again dress up in front of the mirror like those gone days when we were little and play dress up with the high heels of mom PLAYING THE GAME OF THE GROWN UP PEOPLE and laughing without stop.
So little we knew how serious was the grown up life...how little we knew about the responsibilities that were waiting ahead, about the broken dreams like soap bubbles, of the sleepless nights, of the many good byes, about how HARD it was to attain triumphs and how fast it fades...But now I am a mature woman, menopausic, without too much sense(how neat)
I put on my big hat, I look at the mirror and say "I paid my duties to the grown up life, now, I am free, menopausic and free I will dress up in purple and with my red hat I will decorate my life until the end.

Madre Reina Pasionaria

Dear God,
The lady reading this is beautiful,
classy and strong and I love her.

Help her live her life to the fullest.
<align=center>Please promote her and cause her
to excel above expectations.
Help her to shine in darkest places and love where it is impossible to
love.

Protect her at all times, lift her up when she needs you the most and
let her know that when she walks with you; she will always be
safe.
In Jesus name we pray,
<style="text-align:center" align="center">Amen

Send to all the ladies u love.

By George B. Thompson November 8, 2009 8:23 pm

The Road to Glory: Finishers Club(excerpt)
George B. Thompson
There is lot that happens on the journey to success. Today I want to give you some quick tips to encourage you to keep going until you reach your goal. I am often amaze that many of us have similar goals such as financial stability, health, a home, good education and a good job. While we might have similar goals the path to the finish line will look different.

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Nothing in life is easy, you are going to have to fight for it. If you get knocked down just get back up again and keep swinging. Stay focus on your target no matter what position you are in. Remember you were not made to break. Keep Trying.

We often think of discipline as punishment however discipline is also the practice of training people to obey rules. Training is a good thing. Take a course, or go to s seminar. Make sure you are always on ?A? game updated on the latest trends and technology.

Life is full of obstacle illusions. (quote by Grant Frazer) An optical illusion is visually perceived image that is deceptive and misleading. When you are on this journey you are going to face obstacles, challenges and hurdles that are going to appear huge in your mind remember it is an illusion because you have never blazed this trail before. Tell yourself that ?you can do it? and ?just do it? until you get over it, go under it and go through it and reach the other side.

There are so much noise competing for your attention that will try to distract you from your course. Ask yourself is this getting me closer to my dreams or taking me further away from it. Stay focus. It is important that you eliminate everyone and anybody that is going to try to discourage you. Also. you might have to make some sacrifices and go to bed early or stay at work late. You know what sacrifices that you will have you make. Remember it is temporary.

You have to make up your mind and determine that you are going to make it. One of my favorite scriptures I mediated while I was building my business is Luke 5:5. I had determined that I was going to do what ever it took to be successful and exceed everyone?s expectations. Sometimes determination will cause you to take drastic steps towards your goal. I wanted to be without excuse and do what ever it took to be successful in the field.

There are parts of this journey that you are going to just have to tough it out alone for one reason or another. However, you don?t have to make the entire journey by yourself. My mom was my biggest cheerleader when I was having a bad day I knew I could call her and she would say something that would encourage me. Keep a close friend or family near by just to cheer you up on the journey. I promise you will need them.

What can you learn from people's private struggles on their journey to success? For one you learn that the road is not going to be easy it is going to be tough and you are going to have to fight for it.
It is my desire that you are inspired to be good steward over these three areas of your life: Time, Talent, Treasure. Time, you must learn to manage your time; talent you have skills and gifts and lastly treasure, your finances need to managed appropriately. All of these areas work together, when they are managed properly you will be able to become

By the way the picture at the top is what I put above my desk along with the Scripture Luke 5:5.
Pastor George

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"Handsome Stud"

1. Handsome

2. Charming

3. Financially successful

4. A caring listener

5. Witty

6. In good shape

7. Dresses with style

8. Appreciates finer things

9. Full of thoughtful surprises

10. An imaginative, romantic lover
THERE'S 12 TYPES OF MEN

1. MR. THUG LIFE

Advantages

a. Real good at making love

b. Fun and exciting

c. Makes you laugh

d. Has your back, will fight and protect you

Disadvantages

a. Usually drinks and smokes too much

b. Always got drama

c. Stays a thug forever

d. In and out of jail

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2. MR. NAW, I DON'T HAVE A GIRL

Advantages

a. Will take you out in the beginning

b. Will introduce you to all his friends

c. Compliments you all the time

Disadvantages

a. Has a girlfriend who he's been with since the 2nd grade

b. Will not get rid of her

c. He tells you about her after you've fallen in love with his *bleep*

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1. Nice looking (prefer hair on his head)

2. Opens car doors, holds chairs

3. Has enough money for a nice dinner

4. Listens more than talks

5. Laughs at my jokes

6. Carries bags of groceries with ease

7. Owns at least one tie

8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal

9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries

10. Seeks romance at least once a week
3. MR. BIG BALLA

Advantages

a. Will give you money with no questions asked

b. Has alot of style to him

c. Will show you some of the nice things in life

Disadvantages

a. Never returns your pages

b. Feels he can come to your house at any given time without calling first

c. Loves to be around his boys more than you.

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4. MR. IM IN THE INDUSTRY

Advantages

a. Can get you and your friends onthe guest list at all the jumpin parties

b. Can have a decent stimulating conversation

c. Tends to dress nice

Disadvantages

a. You dont know if he's gay, straight or bi

b. Seems flighty when you speak of a solid commitment

c. You still have to wait in line to get in all the jumpin parties, then there's drama at the door

d. All he has is a bunch of pictures with celebrities but he doesn't know any of them personally

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1. Not too ugly (bald head okay)

2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car

3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally

4. Nods head when I'm talking

5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes

6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture

7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach

8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids

9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down

10. Shaves most weekends 5. MR. INTELLECTUAL

Advantages

a. Book smart

b. Cares about how you feel

c. Has a very good job

Disadvantages

a. Boring as hell

b. Doesn't know what the hell he's doin in bed

c. He is not street smart

d. Always asking you when can he see you again

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6. MR. GHETTO

Advantages

a. THE BOMB IN BED!!!!!

b. Makes you laugh

c. Got mad style and flava

d. Has a temper, but generally a charming sweet guy

e. Says he want a real relationship

Disadvantages

a. He got 3 or more baby mommys

b. Wants to lay up in your crib, use the phone, and eat up all the food

c. Is in denial when you tell him about himself

d. Comes home at 3:00 am and says he was out with his boys

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1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed

2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public

3. Doesn't borrow money too often

4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting

5. Doesn't retell the same joke too many times

6. Is in good enough shape to get off couch on weekends

7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear

8. Appreciates a good TV dinner

9. Remembers your name on occasion

10. Shaves some weekends
7. MR. IM A RIGHTEOUS BLACK MAN

Advantages

a. Will teach you about black history

b. Revolutionary

c. Inspiring & gives to you spiritually & emotionally

d. Wants a wife and family

Disadvantages

a. Breaks up with you for a white girl

b. Mo money-doesn't have a job

c. Doesn't own a nice suit, always wearing camouflage and oils

d. In the end, you find out he is just a trifling, con motha*bleep*a

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8. MR. TOO DAMN GOOD

Advantages

a. Will introduce you to his mother

b. Has a job and will take you out

c. Will give you money for your bills if you need it

d. Sometimes he goes to church on Sunday

Disadvantages

a. Sometimes he goes to church on Sunday

b. Secretly wants to be Mr. Thug Life

c. Wears fake Movado & Rolex watches when he goes to the club

d. Ignores you when the game is on because he takes sports too serious -He didn't make it professionally
e.You find out after you break up with him that he was cheating on you

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1. Doesn't scare small children

2. Remembers where bathroom is

3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep

4. Only snores lightly when asleep

5. Remembers why he's laughing

6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself

7. Usually wears some clothes

8. Likes soft foods

9. Remembers where he left his teeth

10. Remembers that it's the weekend

9. MR. PLAYA

Advantages

a. Will tell you the truth - that you're not the only one

b. Sometimes hes fairly decent in bed

c. He tells you that you've changed him and he's ready to settle down

d. Has his own apartment and car (invites you to move in with him)

Disadvantages

a. He doesn't acknowledge you in public, especially if theres women around

b. Generally he is a punk (won't stand up for anything)

c. He expects you to believe all his lies just because he told you the truth about other women

d. After you catch his lyin *bleep*, he tells you that he told you that he was a playa in the beginning anyway

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10. MR. I HAVE A JOB

Advantages

a. Of course.... he has a job

b. Doesnt have too many bad habits

c. Will take care of you when youre sick

d. Tells you that he is in love with you

Disadvantages

a. You stay in the relationship 2 years or more and then find out hes a shiftless, lazy son-of-a-*bleep* who wants you to do all the wifely duties but wont give you a ring

b. He ends up telling you that he loves you, but is not "in love" with you

c. After he leaves you he gets married a month later

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11. MR. BEST FRIEND

Advantages

a. He's your best friend, you tell each other everything; you get along very, very well

b. He gives you advice when you and your man are having problems

c. The ultimate gentleman

d. Sweet and caring with a good sense of humor

Disadvantages

a. You end up hooking up with him only to find he aint about *bleep* either!

b. Now, you gotta find a new best friend because you cant stand his *bleep* no more

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********12. MR. RIGHT**********

Advantages

a..He loves God and takes his relationship with God seriously

b. He is intellectual, brilliant, and capable of taking you there mentally and emotionally

c. He will love you even when you are not lovable

d. He has a career and not a job!

e. He acknowledges his faults and strives to be a better man

f. He understands a relationship is built on a 200% quota - 100% him and 100% you

g. He doesn't have a bunch of kids and babies mommas - he's smarter than that

h. He is a true best friend and everything you ever wanted in a man

i. He was cute when you met him. But, after spending sometime you see he's fine as hell!

j. He can dress - knows the difference b/t formal, semi-formal, professional, business casual, casual, and since we are just chilling let me throw on some sweats and a fitted hat

k. He loves his mother and respects women

Disadvantages

l. You've never met him and if you did he already has a girl/wife

Time for Some Man-Watching

Remember : You Don't Stop Laughing Because You Grow Old,

You Grow Old Because You Stop Laughing
To
Be 6 Again...
A
man was sitting on the edge of the bed, observing his wife, looking
at herself in the mirror. Since her birthday
was not far off he asked what she'd like to have
for her Birthday. "I'd
like to be six again," she replied, still lookingin the mirror.

On
the morning of her Birthday, he arose early, and made
her a nice big bowl
of
Lucky Charms and then took her to .
What a day!
He put her on every ride in the park; the Death Slide, the Wall of Fear, the Screaming Monster Roller Coaster, everything there was.
Five
hours later they staggered out of the theme park.
Her
head was reeling and her stomach felt upside down.

He
then took her to a McDonald's
where he ordered her a Happy Meal with extra fries and a chocolate. Then
it was off to a movie, popcorn, a soda pop, and her favorite candy, M&M's. What a fabulous adventure!
Finally
she wobbled home with her husband and collapsed into bed exhausted. He
leaned over his wife with a big smile and lovingly asked, "Well
Dear, was it like being six again? "

Her
eyes slowly opened and her expression suddenly changed.
I meant my dress size, you retard!!!

The moral of the story:
Even when a man is listening, he is gonna get it

SEND THIS TO ALL THE
WOMEN WHO NEED A LAUGH AND TO MEN YOU THINK CAN HANDLE IT

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